Divorce
My Love has expanded…
When divinity extended its arms…!
Raji attended the first workshop on Gem Remedies. That time she had some issues with her husband and they hadn’t seen each other for nearly three years. No body in the workshop, including Naran, knew her problems.
She wanted to buy gem Pills, which were sold in the hall, it was so crowded, that she couldn’t get a hold of the remedies she wanted to buy. Finally when she approached the counter, Emerald Remedy only was available. So she bought it. She kept the pills on the side table inside her bedroom.
Soon after, her husband called for no reasons and they started patching up. Emerald is the divine call for her, with the message it is nothing wrong for them to reunite again. It says, ‘Go ahead’.
Thus Gem remedy Emerald helps in uniting two people, who are separated.
Never Divorce Your Husband
One 75 years old lady came to see me. She had a right knee problem.
Never can I thank my father
I asked her, “How is the relationship with your father?”
She said, “Fine. We had a very cordial relationship”
“There is no thanks in your heart for him. Can you thank him? Think about all that he had done to you. Thank him for the same”.
She became silent and curtly went off.
After about one week, she phoned up to me. “As I came with my son-in-law last time, I could not tell you anything in front of him. To tell the truth, I am not able to thank my father”.
A promise that resulted in suffering
“Why”.
“Only because of him I suffered all my life”.
Her father showed her a boy when she was to be married and told her that she had to marry him. She agreed to her father.
On the date of marriage he came and asked her, “Give me a promise. Whatever happens in your life you would not divorce this boy”.
She gave a promise to her father that she would not divorce him at any cost.
Her marriage was an abusive affair
From the date of marriage, her husband had been physically abusing her. It was a total harassment.
She got two children through him and they are well placed now.
Because she gave a promise to her father, she did not divorce her husband. All along she had been cursing her father for the same reasons.
She said, “I am a free bird now after my husband’s death. I can neither forgive my husband nor my father”.
Positives in the sufferings
I asked her, “In spite of all these bad events there must be at least one positive event in your life. Only for that purpose you have suffered in your life”.
She is a staunch devotee of Puttaparthi Sai Baba. When her marriage failed, she wanted a spiritual asylum. Therefore, she went to Baba.
She composed and sang many songs on gods like Devi, and about Baba. She was also allotted a house there in Puttaparthi.
She had a great spiritual progress. Throughout the day, she was singing only Bhajans. Her life was totally changed to spirituality and she lived a life of an ascetic.
I asked her, “Is this not a positive point? I think only for this aspect your husband behaved like that. If the suffering was not there then you would have lived an ordinary life.
“We say, Atmavan Bhava, which means ‘I am not the doer’. Like that your husband is also not the doer. When we say we are not the doers, the opposite person is also not the doer”.
When she understood that Divine is the doer, automatically she started forgiving and she is free from her knee pain now.
Facing Ego Problems
Swami
I got married in 2010.
There are some ego problems and misunderstanding between both families and now we are separated. She is saying that she will not come back.
Naran
Chant “WATER VIOLET, TOGETHER DIVINE”.
Explanation
Water Violet is Bach Flower Remedy that will help us to appreciate our relationships by making us to shed our ego.
Together Divine: switch words for harmony
Let Us Marry Again!
Naran S Balakumar
Sudha is a divorcee for several years. She decided to marry again.
She consulted Naran, who suggested her to chant, “Sree Ram Jeya Ram Jeya Jeya Ram”, to forgive her husband and move forward in her life.
Interestingly, after a few months of chanting, she came across her ex-husband Raja, who suggested, “Instead of marrying somebody that we don’t know, why not we marry again”.
Sudha found that idea convincing and she got married to Raja, once again.
Jelly Fish for Marital Bliss
R Mohan
A friend of mine had conflicts with her husband and her in-laws, within six weeks of her wedding. After two years, the situation has not improved and it is getting worse.
She does not want to go for a divorce for the sake of her child.
Naran S. Balakumar made Jelly Fish pills. She had to put five pills of Jelly Fish along with five pills of Harmony Pack in the common drinking water.
In addition, she has to keep Jelly Fish photograph in her purse too.
After 5 days of this application, she and her husband had dinner together.
After many months, he told her that he appreciates the amount of effort she puts in, for the sake of the family and expressed his love for her.
They are still a long way to go, but definitely, Jelly Fish had given them a good start.
As an additional benefit, her problems with her servant-maid have improved.
The house cleaner who was looking after my friend’s kid was threatening to leave the job, without giving any valid reasons and throwing temper tantrums.
My friend remarks, the servant seems to be receptive.
Use Jelly Fish to patch up relationships and as it helps us to come out of any conflict situations.
Harmony pack to bring harmony within oneself and in turn will bring in harmony around us.
Please contact Naran S. Balakumar if you need the pills. You can also get pills made out of animal spirits.
If there is a problem between husband and wife
Mirugasheera
- Want peace and harmony this is the best star
- If there is a problem between husband and wife; they are separated but want to unite; nothing good has happened yet; in whatever the fight may be this will bring them together. To convince and persuade others
- If Husband and wife were fighting too much, on the day of Mirugasheera they can remarry again. Or mentally we can do it for them.
- Unite any two people
Solution in Silence
Thanking is one way to find silence.
Parimala
24 June
To stop the divorce case, my husband has filed against me I am chanting “WOLF HELP TOGETHER HALF WAY DONE”.
I stay in Chennai and had filed a plea in court to bring my hubby back. Those court dates are on and I have to go to Madurai once a month.
Husband in turn filed for divorce in Chennai and I had to attend two dates here. Since it is not possible for me to keep going to 2 courts, I filed for a request in high court to transfer divorce case to Madurai.
I just got a call from advocate that our case has been put up on board and he will inform me the status by afternoon.
Is there anything that I can do, so that the divorce case gets dismissed on its own?
The lawyer says it is possible bcoz hubby’s lawyer has not been appearing in court on dates given. Lawyer asked me to pray to the judge to dismiss the case, but there are just 1-2% chances that it may happen with my verbal plea.
Please pray sir that some miracle happens and the judge dismisses my husband’s petition.
June 25
I kept chanting the below mentioned switch words yesterday, so that I come out of the court case fast.
By afternoon I got a call that my application for transfer of his divorce plea to Madurai is rejected. I will have to contest the case from Chennai only.
Since I don’t know any good lawyer here and I was relying on my Madurai lawyer, I think I have lost the case.
Husband is acting very shrewd and cunning, and neither in touch with me nor with my daughter. I and child are using the chants continuously for restoring the relationship but it’s not working.
I’m very tired now and drained out emotionally, financially, physically. Don’t have the energy to fight it out.
Please advise if I should agree for a divorce on mutual consent and set him free forever. I still love him a lot and will miss him throughout my life.
Even my daughter will have to lead a fatherless life forever. But that seems to be the best option now! I am totally confused.
I am waiting for your divine guidance. I have a court date on 3rd July. I will take steps based on your guidance.
Naran
25 June
A father or husband should fulfill the role totally. If that is not there, being with him will be more painful. When a person fails as a father, what is the use of his being physically present there in the family?
It is the fear of being alone which is haunting you. Even when he is not there, can’t you love him?
“I love him so much therefore he should be with me. If he is not there, I cannot love him.” Overcome this attitude and pray for his well-being wherever he is. Then chant what I gave.
Healing is for the mind.
The suffering is in the mind. Healing is to overcome that. We are entitled to expect what we want. But we can accept what is offered by god, if we think that everything that happens is given by god.
Parimala
June 25
I agree with your viewpoints totally. In spite of all his wrong doings, in spite of his absence from my life, I still love him a lot.
That’s the reason I have been patiently waiting and pursuing him to come back to us and I am willing to live life on his terms.
I just need to understand from you and ask you about what you can see for my future. I know you have DIVINE POWERS.
I read your blogs how you sometimes honestly tell people not to pursue a particular relationship.
In my case, you have not said that so far. That means you are still seeing some positive hopes of my relation working out with husband? Do you feel that we will come back together again?
Based on your divine guidance, I wish to take future decisions of my life i.e. whether to patch up with him or break up (as per his desire).
Please guide me. Your advice is very valuable to me.
Naran
25 June
Wait for a week.
Parimala
July 2
No positive sign still from my husband. Things seem to be going only from bad to worse and husband is still very negative about our relationship.
I just don’t know how to bring up my daughter on my own. Am very worried and tensed.
Naran
July 2
To accept whatever is offered by the divine will help you. Your fear or worry will dampen you further. It is divine who takes care of all of us.
I could see your life positive, irrespective of your husband is with you or not.My way of looking at the event is different.
Parimala
July 2
Your mail always boosts up my spirit and I feel so happy to find a new mail from you in my mailbox.
Agree with you. Do you feel that the divine wants me to separate from him?
If I know that, then I need not fight the case and waste time, money and efforts. I can simply accept his proposal for DIVORCE BY MUTUAL CONSENTand set him free.
What do you suggest?
I have a court date in Madurai tomorrow. These court cases are draining my time, money and energy and the child is getting neglected too.
Naran
July 2
Attend tomorrow’s court by thanking all involved in it, thank what all happened after filing to fight till tomorrow and go with full surrender, and take a decision which comes to your mind in silence.
Parimala
July 3
I just came back from Madurai court.I did exactly what you told me and today for the first time, the visit to the court was not depressing at all.
I have filed for a huge amount as maintenance, not with the intention of extracting money from him, but just so that he may decide to come back home instead of giving me that big amount.
I kept thanking all involved and accepted the decision that came to my mind in silence. I have decided that I will contest the case as long as I have patience, atleast 6 months to a year. After that, if I get fed up then I will agree for mutual consent divorce.
If the divine wishes, he too may change his mind by then and decide to come back to me. And then we can be a happy family again.
Thanks for your advice. God bless you. I will keep chanting the switch words and all other remedies you have given to me.
Husband said he will never come back, but he did
Lalitha: I want to post this miracle for others to read.
Lalitha
I have been married for 12 years. We had a good life for 10 years and prospered very well with 3 beautiful kids.
16 months back we had been separated. Both the kids are with me.
The separation is because of my husband loving another divorced lady. He is very happy without me and kids and enjoys life with her.
He has not divorced me yet. He does not see me at all and says he will never come back. I am in great agony because of this.
Naran
Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”
Lalitha
Will this chanting help for him and the lady free themselves from their entanglement?
If so, is there any procedure to chant the words – time of the day, number of times, louder or silent?
Naran
Chant as many times as possible, anytime, anywhere, silently or loudly.
Do the forgiving exercise for the lady involved with your husband. For example, “I Lalitha forgive you…. (name of the person). You please forgive me and release me”.
This forgiveness statement which can be repeated mechanically, as many times as possible.
Lalitha
My husband’s sister just called to say that my husband is continuously trying to hint that he wants to marry his girlfriend. He is trying his best to convince his family members.
I am alone here with my 2 kids. Anything can be done to stop this Adharma (injustice)?
Naran
Whenever fear grips you, say “I release my fear …”
Whenever you feel angry, say “I release my anger. I release my desire to control or change anything or anybody”.
Rest of the time, chant “ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”
Lalitha
I was chanting the switch words and doing the forgiving exercise. I was also listening to your CDs – “WELCOME CHANGE” and “TOGETHER DIVINE”.
Miracle has just occurred.
My husband had never called me for the last 16 months.
Hecalled me today and told me that he wants to get back to us.
Explanation
Together, Divine, Adjust, Change,and Now are switch words.
TOGETHER, DIVINE: is the basic mantra to fix disharmony in any kind of relationships. This is available in the form of a CD.
ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE NOW: to adjust to the difficult circumstances and work towards changing it immediately.
FORGIVENESS MANTRA: Unless you forgive a person, nothing can be achieved.