Mind-Body Intelligence
I am a student of My Body
R Mohan
My friend Dilli called me. He was returning my call about me enquiring about the accident he had recently.
I asked him for the details. He said he had a bone cracked in the right ankle. Immediately, I remembered a case history of one of Naran’s students: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/05/08/reversing-the-decision-to-marry/.
So, I asked Dilli whether he had taken some major decision recently. He said yes. He was planning to sell the house he owns now and buy a new one that is closer to his in-laws place.
I requested him to reverse the decision.
He remarked that the day after he took the decision to buy the new house, he met with this accident. Therefore, he had already postponed buying the new house.
I replied that because he had reversed his decision, even though it was forced by his body, he is sure to reap some good benefits in the near future.
He remarked in an amusing fashion that his body has already done some good thing.
Within a week after the accident, he found out the government is planning to make a highway closer to the house he owns currently. It means that the value of the house is sure to go up.
With my great enthusiasm to prove to him that Balakumar’s theories are great and profound, as my friend always questions such thoughts and alternate healing systems, I promised him that he will be getting some more benefits as he has listened to his body totally.
Probably, I told him that he will be approached by his fellow union members to become the next secretary of the union.
If it happens within next six months, I told him that he has to give me a treat. Otherwise, I will give him and his family one.
He said he will give me a treat immediately, as he has already been asked to stand for the election which is coming soon after!!!
I was dumb-founded.
For a person, even though he doesn’t believe in alternate therapies, when he follows the rules (of the body), things happen to him, in fact more than one could expect in a given situation.
I am not arrogant to say so that I follow the theories.
I am just happy that this proves not only what Naran was speaking about all these days, but also that if we are a good student of our bodies, then our decisions will be right and our life will be smooth by all means.
Handful of messages from our body
Naran S Balakumar
Right shoulder pain
All long he was lazy. He has to fulfill the duties in full. He will avoid interviews if there is any problem attending the interview. He will give an excuse, “I have to attend my friend’s marriage”.
Which is priority number one in your life? It is responsibility. So you need to be responsible is the message from this pain.
Left hand fingers, especially middle
Stop criticizing, condemning, blaming others; have Intolerance. For some, they will get pain in the right hand fingers.
Left hand
Body is giving and receiving through hands. When you get pain in them, don’t think in terms of right or wrong. Think it as a message from your body.
If you are angry, when you need love, nobody will love you. Left hand side pain indicates you will not receive love.
Right hand
Right hand side pain indicates:
- That what you have is more and therefore, give more.
- If you have pain on top of the hand, then take the Bach Flower remedy CENTAURY.
- Give now is the message from right hand. Otherwise, when you are ready to give to a person, then they may not be available to receive it from you.
- Have an attitude of gratitude as it is missing from you.
- Understand and grasp the subject on hand. The person who works more knows less. They will have pain in the right hand.
Right ankle
You have taken a decision. Now, reverse the decision is the message from the body.
Find Love and Trust
Ms. RV
What significance is a person falls down and fractures one of the bones in the foot, on the sole?
Is there any mind-body relationship there? What are the Bach flower remedies or switch words to remedy this situation?
Naran
You are flouting your own rule or principle.
What is a MENTAL FALL?
“Don’t deviate from love even if the other person is totally 100% unjustified or wrong in his action.” This is the message of the body.
Ms. RV
Thank you Naran for the message revealed.
Can any switch words be used or flower remedies for this condition as it is for my friend.
Naran
Ask her to chant “I trust myself and all totally”.
Exercises from “I Love Myself” workbook to develop trust in oneself and life
Exercise 17: “IT IS SAFE FOR ME TO TRUST”
Think about your unnecessary fears and worries (over which you cannot do anything) and release them one after another.
Fear about others, self and health – when there is fear, it will not allow love to be there. To remove your fears chant, “I AM SORRY. PLEASE FORGIVE ME. FIND DIVINE FIBER”
The switch word FIBER creates movement, as fear constricts a movement.
A Couple of Back Pain Cases
Two patients came to me separately and both of them presented a different case. What is the suspense here is that they are husband and wife.
The wife came first…
She said that she married a person about 16 years elder to her, and he was not coming home on time.
If he goes to work at 6 am, he stays in the office until after midnight and comes back home only around 2 am or 3 am.
It is a love marriage. She is a Christian, married to a Hindu. She said that she was isolated. She was also suspicious of his behavior. She developed a back pain and came to me for treating that.
Physical reason for the back pain is she is riding a scooter, which is gearless.
Mental reason: she feels she doesn’t belong to the family and therefore there is no support for her either.
Reasons for back pain
In general, these are the reasons for one’s back pain:
- Insecurity is the main reason
- Not able to earn well
- When you are uncertain about your place in the house or office
- Prolonged struggle to keep up a relationship
- Death of a parent or spouse
- Lot of accusation in the office and unable to go to the office with peace of mind
- When somebody is not promoted for a long time
A sudden back pain for men is could be due to different reasons:
- He may be losing his job
- He may have resigned his job suddenly
The lady is feeling isolated, and struggling hard to keep up her relationships. She is also struggling hard to find a place in the family. These are the reasons for her back pain.
Bach Flower remedies for back pain
How to heal this pain? Just if you say, “I feel safe and secure” will the back pain get healed? No, it won’t.
Need for the support means, or if a person who wants some support from the family means then they had to be given flower remedies CHICORY and CENTAURY.
Then they will get the support immediately from their family.
For a person if they think, “What is my place in this house? I feel isolated” and if they get a back pain then they have to be given WATER VIOLET.
For blaming the in-laws and the husband as well as for her pitiable condition in the family, WILLOW is the remedy.
Finally, you may not get what you want. You will become apathetic, and lose interest in life and for that WILD ROSE has to be given.
This combination of flower remedies (CHICORY, CENTAURY, WATER VIOLET and WILD ROSE) is a wonderful combination for back pain.
Now the husband’s story, which is totally different from hers
After about 10 days, the husband came to see me. He said that he had a back pain, belching, acid reflux and gastritis. Sometimes he had constipation and sometimes he had diarrhea.
There is a lot of complication in his lower stomach and large intestine.
The gas problem means the person has lost enthusiasm in life. That means the liver is not functioning well.
For any gastritis problem or abdominal cramps, apart from the stomach, the liver is also not functioning properly.
He was very much frustrated because of so many blocks in life. Here, we have to teach him to release the blocks one by one.
I asked him whether he was frustrated in life. He said yes. I asked him why. He is a counselor working under a psychiatrist doctor and he is working from morning 8 in the morning till midnight.
Why he has to work so hard and earn money?
Before marriage he ventured into a real estate business and he had invested about ten lakhs. Unfortunately for him, his business was in the Telangana belt.
Two or three people joined him and 30 lakhs was invested in a real estate project. This happened in 2008 and at that time the Telangana struggle broke out.
For one year, he could not achieve anything in business. In second year, the person who promoted the company, died. Because of these things the company did not have a “take off” at all.
So for the last three years he had to pay the interest and principal amount also. Though, he had been working very hard like this, he could not earn enough money.
He also said that two-thirds of his income would go for paying the interest. With the result, he has developed a back pain.
If a person has got a loan and struggling hard to repay it he will definitely develop a back pain because of his financial insecurity.
He could neither earn money nor his wife’s love
Here, we have to make him understand that by working for long hours he will not earn the sufficient money and he will lose his wife too.
The body is telling him ‘please don’t do this’, and that is the cause for belching.
Don’t work harder but smarter
These problems came in the stomach because stomach is the centre of the body. I told him the belching problem indicated that he would lose his relationship. He need not work so hard like this.
Bach Flower Remedies for the husband’s problems
If a person is in such a situation, you cannot ask him to chant “I feel safe and secure”. It will not work.
In such a situation the Bach flower remedies comes to the rescue. See the coordination between the Bach flower remedies and mind and body.
OAK is the one remedy he needs mainly. Oak is a tree. It is a strong tree. It can withstand any weather.
When a person is working hard and not rewarded properly, the remedy Oak is to be given. By giving him the Bach Flower Remedy Oak he will know how to work with less struggle.
Oak says that you need not work for 20 hours. By working for only 8 hours you can earn what you want.
Oak will give the husband a lot of inputs and lot of new ideas so that he can earn more.
If he takes Oak regularly then he will start earning well and at the same time he can spend time with his family also.
First the belching stopped
I told him to test the Oak remedy like this. He has to take Oak for a week and work only for 8 to 10 hours. If he feels that his belching is getting reduced then the remedy is working.
Second day of taking the remedy, he was free from the belching. He got the confidence.
Valuing your relationships will create sound relationships
Then I told him, that he had a love marriage. Not to lose his wife he had to work for only 8 hrs a day. He had to understand the value of their relationship, and find out why one marries.
I asked him to bring his wife during our next meeting.
I was shocked to see “the same back pain” lady as his wife. I asked him to find out whether his body had rightly guided him or not. You know what he would have answered J
WATER VIOLET is the remedy for not understanding the value of a relationship and the same remedy is applicable for feeling isolated too. What a wonderful combination for a couple!
Bend With Love
Kishore
I am 67 yrs old.
My Blood has Cantankerous HLAB27. I am getting FROZEN Spine from Neck Downwards, unable to Bend, Twist on Bed.
Please tell me the divine switch word as the Disease is incurable entropy of body till Death.
Naran
Review your life.
- Find in which part of life or with whom you are unbending.
We have certain beliefs, by following of which, we might have hurt someone.
During our life we tend to find fault in others, whether family or friends or government. When we criticise or do back biting, we ignore the love, beauty and grace of the divine operating in this world.
In life, nothing that we acquire (our principle, our beliefs, our opinions, and our knowledge) is important.
- Assess the life in terms of love.
How much love have you given?
Were you tolerant and respecting others?
Were you in a state of forgiveness?
Were you motherly?
Asses as even now it is not late.
- Revisit your past and Change every event of life as the life of love.
Visualise every event.
Ask for forgiveness.
Fill it up with love and gratitude.
Visualise every event. Say “I am sorry, please forgive me. Let me fill my heart with love and gratitude, to experience the divine within me”.
Every minute thank the divine for all the events in life.
- Repeat saying the following releasing statements:
- “I release my desire to control or change anything”.
- “I release my desire to be loved”.
- “I release my fear of life”
Do it as many times as possible.
- Write in a piece of paper “ADJUST CHANGE DIVINE ORDER” and keep it under the pillow.
- Adjust: switch word to adjust to the circumstances and painful situations
- Change Divine Order: switch words to achieve perfect health
I got the Right Guidance from My Body
Ms A
Dear Naran,
I would like to thank you for providing us all such wonderful remedies.
After attending the class Mind – body I went home. I went through the manual you had provided to us, especially the list of messages.
I selected one point from them. It was, “Get the guidance from the right person. Release your anxiety”.
In addition, I took the affirmation which you had given for the lower back pain. The affirmation is, “I release all my past. I am at peace. Divinity takes care of my future”.
I was chanting for five minutes and slept.
When I got up, I was 75% relieved from my pain, which had been there for last one year and was feeling very fresh.
In the morning, I could easily get up from my bed without any pain.
I am still continuing the same affirmation.
Once again thank you for the remedy.
Fistula
Roopa
For a Fistula problem, you had given the following Bach Flower remedies: BEECH, WILLOW, AGRIMONY and WALNUT.
Of these remedies, which one should be taken in day time and which in the night before going to sleep?
Also, could you help us by explaining why these remedies.
Naran
All our unexpressed emotions, judgment and blaming tendencies if not healed will find their place for some people in large intestine, which will turn out into Fistula.
Fistula should be handled in other ways also. One has to change the diet pattern. One should not have constipation.
Having fistula means one is sitting on a volcano. Add the Bach Flower Remedy CHERRY PLUM also.
Chant the affirmation, “QUIET MIND, OPEN HEART, RELAX!!!” will help fistula patients.
“Observe without judging, listen, let go unwanted and retain what is needed.” is the message of fistula.
Explanation
Beech: being judgmental
Agrimony: will not express their feelings
Willow: blaming tendency
Walnut: to break the unforgiving, unwanted patterns
Cherry Plum: bursting with anger inside
Diabetes and Left knee pain
Mrs. RNI
My husband is 61 yrs old. We live and work at Muscat at this time. He has been diagnosed diabetic in 1986 (when he was 35 yrs).
He has been just increasing the dosage of his allopathic medicines to control his diabetes. It no longer works and doctor has asked him to go for injections, which he refuses to.
He has been having severe pain in the left knee since mid April.
The allopath doctor gave an injection in the bone and said it is beginning of paralysis. He also said not to massage with any oils or balms. Only to keep ice packs.
He cannot lie down horizontal and sleep or turn sides. The pain is bearable if he is moving about, but unbearable when he comes home and relaxes.
I cannot bear to see him suffering so much. Please suggest a mantra for healing this problem urgently.
We cannot leave this job and go away to India (Mumbai). We have a daughter who will be getting married in Dec 2013. Until then, we have to be here and working.
Naran
Left knee indicates that he has done something unfair to his mother.
Let him analyze his relationship, his thoughts and opinions about her.
Ask him to do the forgiving exercise daily 200 times.
Download a picture Kausalya (Sri Rama’s mother) and keep it under his pillow.
Ask him to thank all the places, where he stayed and lived in his sixty years of life.
Chant “OAK, CHERRY PLUM, WALNUT” 100 times over a cup of water and give him that water daily.
You chant “CHICORY, RED CHESTNUT, CHERRY PLUM”.
There need not be any concern for diabetes.
Messages from Body
List of Messages
- Your self-esteem is low.
- Eliminate unhelpful thought patterns.
- Devote some time for meditation.
- Counter the emotional attack, without anger
- End the conflict amicably
- Don’t repeat what has been done already. Think differently.
- Concentrate on the need and not on the desires.
- You are not heard. Improve your communication.
- Listen – understand and appreciate other’s priorities.
- Don’t interfere too much.
- Assert yourself – you take the decision.
- Don’t act on others’ suggestions.
- Ignore others’ approval and move on.
- Don’t be frustrated. Try again.
- Rise from sluggishness.
- Deserve before you desire, develop abilities and resources to fulfill your plan.
- You are too sensitive. Understand that you are loved well.
- Don’t alienate yourself from this person.
- You are already stabilized.
- Stop worrying about future. You are protected.
- Speak your views.
- Find out the positives in the situation, instead of blaming it.
- Act more responsibly.
- Do it with full confidence.
- Let go of what has happened.
- Empathize with others.
- End the conflict. Put an end to disharmony.
- Don’t get stuck up. Make progress, no matter how tough life becomes.
- You are agitated. Be quiet. Take initiative to remove friction.
- Release all your expectations. Ignore the paining words…..Release….
- Relax, you are too fast. Relaxation alone can help you achieve your goals.
- Get the guidance from the right person. Release your anxiety.
- Relax…have time for your family and friends. Improve your relationships.
- You are neither abandoned nor isolated. Become optimistic and start again.
- Release your bad habits. Don’t be stubborn. Release your fixed ideas.
- Let go of your revengeful thoughts, grudges, anger, and guilt.
- Be close to your wife/husband. Don’t be secretive.
- Accept your wife/husband and children as they are.
- Is there is any conflict regarding sharing/using ancestral property? Yield and compromise.
- Love is more important than money.
- Is there any court case over ownership? Yield and withdraw, even though your case is fair.
- Don’t get isolated or secluded over the loss of anything or anybody.
- Is there is any lack of gratitude (on your part)?
- Stop blaming your parents? Reframe and look for positive points in what they did.
- Stop going through same emotions as your mother/father
- Stop repeating the mistakes of your mother/father/brother
- Start working with enthusiasm. Acquire resources of your father/mother.
- Understand your son’s/daughter’s priorities.
- Release the thought, “At the time of need, nobody will come forward to help.”
- Don’t allow yourself to be dominated.
- Don’t feel humiliated. Release and forgive.
- Release all the anger kept within.
- Stop dominating and interfering.
- Release your desire to control.
- Release your resistance.
- Stop wounding or hurting.
- Release the fear of misfortune.
- Come out of the feeling of a victim.
- Stop doing unwillingly.
- Love yourself totally. You do not need others’ approval.
- Don’t give up your rights.
How to Use and Interpret the Messages
Messages our body gives us in the form of pains
I have given you about sixty-one messages in the book. When you have pain (in any part of the body), read through the messages. Three or four messages may fit your current life situation.
When you start using those messages if the body pain starts reducing then that is the particular point(s) you need to focus on.
Even after reading all the sixty-one messages but still the pain is not reduced then you have to find some more messages.
Randomly pick the messages
- You can blindly move your finger through the messages and wherever the finger stops that message is for you and work on that.
- You can tell one number and whatever message associated with that number will work on your current emotional state. Like that you can play and heal yourself.
- You can also find out by dowsing the message suitable for you.
How to work on the messages?
Let us say you got the message “end the conflict amicably”.
- You have to find out with whom all you have conflict
- After finding that out release the anger and other emotions associated with the conflict
- Conclude it mentally by bringing in the picture in your mind as though the conflict is over and you are hugging the person you are in conflict with.
- Do the forgiving exercise.