How to criticize others?
SD
By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.
Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.
However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.
One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.
Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.
Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.
Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?
Naran
If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.
You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.
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