Our Life is nothing but a series of transactions. Without getting any Benefits, one will not approach a person or choose to be in a situation. In spite of knowing that the Husband is immoral, why does the Wife choose to stay with him? She chooses to stay because she gets some benefit by being with the Husband. It could be Security or financial stability. So, when there is a benefit from someone or by being in a situation, do not curse or criticize within the mind or complain to someone else.

Most Women are facing similar problems, wherein their husband’s are involved in a extra marital affair. Wives practice most of the healing techniques mentioned in our blog – Be it forgiveness or other methods. There seems to be no improvements in their life, in this aspect.

One side of a person is trying to heal and practice the healing techniques but the other side criticizes, curses and blames. The actions here are contradictory and we are undoing what we are doing consciously. How can a person be helped with this contradiction?

Doing Forgiveness is a conscious attempt to make one kind and accept the other person and a situation as is.

When a problem arises, we have a choice to either go up to the Soul Love (Love that does not expect anything in return) or stoop down to the Human Level (criticize and curse). You cannot mend a person by cursing or fighting. Conflict and fighting cannot solve a problem.

One can mend a person only by loving the other unconditionally.