A case history
Daughter is married and more than 45 years old, living in a foreign country.
About five years back her father expired. The mother has three daughters and all are away.
Mother used to disturb the daughters telling that somebody has to come and look after her. In their caste only the daughter has to look after the mother it seems.
I asked the daughter to cut the cord (between the mother and her).
One day, the mother asked the daughter, “Suppose if your husband dies, whether you will come back to me”.
The son-in-law died after three months. From then on the daughter could not forgive her mother at all. Whenever she sees her mother she becomes angry. But that lady is a philosophical lady.
The daughter came to me and told that even after taking the Bach Flower Remedies HOLLY and WILLOW she could not be alright.
I told her that Holly and Willow says to her that she has to change her attitude.
When you say that you are not the doer, then you think that your mother is also not the doer.
Keep chanting. “I am not the doer, she is not the doer and Divine is the doer”.
After chanting this for one hour her heart became lighter.
For the next two days she was chanting this and she became completely alright.