Varsha Patil

I read your book on Forgiveness, such a wonderful book, worth reading, worth to give as a gift too. I have few questions on that.

1) You have mentioned that we can use the following two affirmations, a) I am sorry, please forgive, Love thanks divine and b) I (my name) forgive you (other name). You please forgive me, and release me,

I always felt more connected to 1st sentence, it seems so rhythmic too while chanting, and I get that goody – goody vibes while chanting it. So instead of second affirmation can I say like this?

“Other Person’s Name) I am sorry, please forgive, Love thanks divine”

Both affirmations work in same manner or different?

2) While releasing anger, unfulfilled wishes, expectations, fear, or hatred feeling, we can chant the second statement. But what if I have some hidden anger towards my past company, so can I chant the NAME OF COMPANY or any Particular PLACE/ APARTMENT.

E.g.,” I VARSHA Forgive you SIGMA INTERIORS PVT. LTD. You please forgive me, and release me.”

For a House or apartment or place, “I VARSHA Forgive you 302, ROSE VILLA*, you Please forgive me, and release me.” (* above names are imaginary)

3) For forgiving many people u have told to mention everybody’s name. I was recalling each and every person since my childhood, till time, whom I had hurt by anyhow, any means – either by direct verbal fight, either by abusing, or cursing them mentally, or either making them hurt knowingly – unknowingly.

And even I want to forgive all people who intentionally – unintentionally gave me misery or any kind of pain. I categorized people as, FAMILY, FRIENDS, OFFICE, RELATIVES, COLLEGE, Others, ORGANIZATION etc.

I even want to forgive and wanted to get forgiven by all those, whom I don’t know personally, like:

  • Auto or Taxi guy – with whom I had fight on charging me wrong fare.
  • Thieves – who pick pocketed my wallet 3 times, who stole my cell phone, who robbed our house.
  • Shopkeepers – who were sometime bit disappointed for selling their goods to me at low price
  • Or me who was unhappy when I knew shopkeeper charged me much more than market value.

All these disappointments, agony, worries, hatred, feelings which had been raised at some life span. I really – really wanted to get over of all these feelings and feel to give lot of LOVE n LIGHT every person interacting with me, in past, present and in future.

Please answer above 3 questions.

Naran

You have nicely put your questions.

You can do so.

The second one is more relevant in the case of family.

For everything you mentioned, take one by one every day and put them in silver triangle and transform into light and love.