Naran S Balakumar

One of my clients, let us call her Sheela, was abandoned by her husband and was driven out of the house. However, they didn’t go for any legal proceedings to get separated permanently.

At the soul realm or soul level there is no such thing as a marriage. It happens only in the earth realm.

We give so much importance for a husband-wife relationship. Anyway that is life. We have to be born, get married and have children. In the earth realm, marriage is very important to us as we yield to the pressures of the society.

That’s why we think that divorce is very bad. It is not like that.

“Whatever happens is a divine plan. I accept and surrender to it” – if you have this attitude then divine will always save you.

We have to trust the divine. But, we try to control our life in many ways.

Let us go back to the story which vindicates the presence of the divine. What is impossible for human beings is possible for divine.

When she was driven out of the house, she was doing her MBA – a post-graduation course. She didn’t know where to go as she had been a homemaker until now.

She went back to her parents, who tried to unite the couples, but failed. Finally, she decided that she will stand on her own legs.

Meanwhile, I gave her flower remedies and switch words, in addition to forgiveness exercise to do for her husband. I wanted her to believe that divine will always be there with her.

She got herself employed as a private cook for a family. She had the guts and will-power to stand in her own legs to serve as a cook even though she is a graduate.

She was earning only a paltry sum and yet she was managing her life by herself. And all the while, she was continuing to do the forgiveness exercise for her husband.

‘THIKATRAVARUKKU THEIVAME THUNAI’ – a Tamil saying which says that for those who don’t have anybody to look forward to, god alone is the company. That trust should be there is us.

Her employers found out her background – especially her discontinuation of her MBA. They made arrangements for her to continue in a private university in Hyderabad.

They sponsored her course. Sheela completed her MBA and eventually joined as a HR staff in the same university.

The story doesn’t end here…

After one year of service, her husband applied for some job vacancy in the same university. Fortunately or unfortunately, as a HR Executive she was in the interview panel.

After the interview was over, he met her personally and cried in front of her. He asked her to forgive him and was willing to reunite with her, provided she is also interested.

She asked for my opinion as she couldn’t come to any decision. Normally, I don’t influence others with my opinion as my job is to assist people in their healing process.

She showed her willingness to join him. I asked her whether she could trust him.

She replied to me, “I have the confidence in myself that I can change others as I have changed. Also, I am very much confident in the forgiveness exercise and in the flower remedies that even if there is a problem (between us), I can change myself and him”.

They married once again to satisfy some astrologer’s suggestions.

That’s the power of forgiving exercise. That is the power of ‘DIVINE LIGHT CHANGE’.