Posts tagged grateful
How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
Related Posts
There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/
Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
In Life…Fly Safe
Client
As describing a flower is never the flower itself, some of the most subtle blessings and experiences lie beyond the reach of expression.
All the good that has come into my life since discovering the various methods offered in this blog are one of those.
I will illustrate with two specific clear examples and also dwell on the changes in a larger way.
Me and my brother missed our flight from Mumbai to Bangalore had to get back at any cost the next day morning. I lost 10,000 Rupees.
The next and only available flight was at 2.30 AM or so which was an international stop over flight. Desperately withdrew money around 15000 and booked onto that flight.
We went to the international airport, and realized that we cannot enter without passport!! How could I board without being able to enter?
I was gutted…I had no money left in my account even to check in to a hotel.
I returned to the travel agent who sold us the tickets. He said he could not help.
I had lost nearly 40,000 in few hours and it seemed impossible to get to Bangalore. I called out to wolf.
A man working at the agents immediately came out and offered help. He told us he had a relative in the forex department at the international airport.
We went back there and the person was already waiting for us. We were allowed in without security check even when there were at least 70 people in queue!!
He escorted us until we got the boarding pass and in a few hours I was in the flight safe sound, grateful and completely amazed.
Magic of Abundance CD
Salima
I am sorry that I am writing so late but have been immersed into too much work. I had shared with you in the abundance workshop in Mumbai on how ABUNDANCE CD helped my region achieve our sales targets.
We had a huge sales target for the month of March, being the financial yearend we need to do deficit of all other months.
On the 27th of the month, we had achieved only 50 % of our target and I was desperately writing switch words to bring new customer to center. Then it struck to me to use ABUNDANCE CD available in the center.
Since then it was pure ‘MAGIC’.
As we put the cd in the auto mode it played for 12 hrs every day in the office and daily. In the next 4 days we achieved our remaining target smoothly and effortlessly.
Also, a very important point I need to mention here. I sprayed (Bach Flower Remedy) WALNUT water every 1 hr in the premise. This made the staff positive, efficient and as go getters’.
I prostate to you with infinite blessings and thanks, not just for achieving the target but for all the solutions that you had given me, for all of my problems, by making them vanish.
I am so grateful to have you in my life as my Guide and my Mentor.
Lots of Love and Light!!!
God Bless!
Naran
Thank You! Very Nice!! Walnut – a good, needed supplement, for the ABUNDANCE CD!!!
Related Posts
Be Happy Be Wealthy: http://reachnaran.com/be-happy-be-wealthy/
Receive abundance in many forms: http://reachnaran.com/receive-abundance-in-many-forms/
When troubles pass we forget the blessings
Jay
Dear Naran,
Today, I visited your website after many days and was pleasantly surprised to see the blog back. I looked at some of old mails to you and the way you have responded in my times of need.
It is amazing!! What all experiences and times you have been there with me!!! I have confided in you at times more than anybody else in the world. How much you have given me!!! I love you!!!
I am so deeply grateful for all love and support in the face of the perpetual troubles – big and small.
Ever since I found your blog, my life has almost invisibly and gently improved for the better. I have had many miracles, many blessings, many glorious experiences and I am so grateful for every one of them until this point.
I look forward by your blessings, the blessings of all compassionate beings, enlightened beings and gods. When troubles pass, we forget the blessings. It’s an eternal human frailty.
So, when I feel a moment of pure gratitude, I want to thank you and not leave in unsaid…god bless you!!
I look forward again to read your blogs. I wish you happiness, health and love.
Do keep your love and blessings on me and my loved ones. LOVE THANKS PRAISE DIVINE