Posts tagged others
Can’t say ‘NO’
M
I’m a shy person. I think so. But after marriage I think I have improved a lot.
Sometimes I keep myself last….e.g., if my neighbour says something that I don’t like I’ll not oppose or if my neighbour called my maid without asking me I will not say anything, though I feel bad.
It is like that I keep myself always last. Even when I was younger I did the same thing. I will be the last girl standing in the queue, though I was very good student.
I don’t consider myself. I don’t express myself about what I want.
Naran
Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WILLOW and PINE.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water every one or two hours from morning to evening.
Explanation
A CENTAURY person cannot say ‘No’. Eventually they will develop resentment – WILLOW and feel guilty for saying ‘No’ or for getting angry – PINE.
Related Posts
Will do anything to manipulate others: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/30/a-reluctant-giver/
Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?
Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.
Naran
One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.
Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?
Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.
Naran
I will teach you a simple method here.
Affirm as many times as possible:
“I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”.
“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.
You can write them too.
The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.
Detach Emotionally
Ravi
I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.
I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.
I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).
Related Posts
How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/
Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/
Harmony with neighbor
M
Our neighbour is angry due to misunderstanding.
In a day, we have to face each other in a day many times and she keeps turning her face. Even her other family members are behaving in the same way.
What can I chant to create harmony?
Naran
Chant “AGRIMONY, HEATHER”
M
I was chanting “AGRIMONY, HEATHER” many times a day. My relationship with my neighbour has improved now.
Related Posts
The Peacemaker: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/04/the-peacemaker/
No words to describe my joy: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/09/08/no-words-to-describe-my-joy/
Convince others easily: http://reachnaran.com/convince-others-easily/
Stop your negative reactions
Client
Is there is a simple way to react negatively to others?
Naran
If somebody is dead, will you react to them negatively?
In the same way, if you feel somebody is irritating or provoking you, think that you are dead, becoming non-reactive.
Related Posts
Put a stop to your angry reactions: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2014/01/06/put-a-stop-to-your-angry-reactions/
Recreate the life you want: http://reachnaran.com/recreate-the-life-you-want/
Does karma theory says murderer can go scot free
GA
Thanks for your reply to my previous question. You have advised me to surrender before the ultimate reality. I am trying to do so.
I think you are not from this universe. You are a divine personality. Your words are very powerful – even magical, having a deep impact on my mind and soul.
I am a little bit confused about the theory of karma. As we know, we all are facing good or bad in our lives due to our own good or bad karmas and we should not blame others for our sufferings.
The point at which I am confused is that if someone does some harm to us then we say this is result of our own karma and the person is just a medium.
For an example, somebody kills a man then the man should have definitely done such type of karmic account with the murderer or have done something wrong in the past, for which he has to be punished like this by divine forces.
If it is just the previous account which is settling down now and the murderer is just a medium then murderer should not be punished anywhere not here or not in another world.
And as you say that divine forces compel us to do specific karma as per our nature or prakriti then in this case divine wants the killed man to be punished like this and the murderer is just a divine helper or a medium.
So my question is this that the person who becomes the medium (who is apparently doing wrong karma) in another person’s suffering (as my suffering is due to my own bad karma) will be punished for this by divinity?
If no, is it because he is just a medium? I hope you will show me some light.
Naran
Karma theory is just an explanation put forward. If you want to justify karma theory, it leads you to confusion.
Karma will act upon one, who does not think that he is the tool of divine.
All our reactions and views are happening at the outer mind – the mind that looks outside and assesses. Nothing that affects the outer mind affects the inner mind at all.
Whenever you want an answer, just ask the questions and go inside. Stop analyzing. Be silent. Silence alone will bring the answer.
The inner mind sees what the outer mind does not see. It also does not see what the outer mind sees.
Stop reading books on spiritualism or karma etc.
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Karma Vs Free Will: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/08/10/karma-vs-free-will/
How to Handle Your Karma: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/17/how-to-handle-your-karma/
Bed-time Ritual: http://reachnaran.com/bed-time-ritual/