Why forgiveness is important in our lives – Discussion on Forgiveness, Chennai 2016
Naran S Balakumar
Forgiveness can be used not only for (healing) relationships, but also for getting money, to be healthy, pay back our debts, to heal your organs and can be used for anything in life.
Mainly, 90% of our problems in life are only because of our relationships.
In every relationship, you always want something. Think about any relationship with anybody and find out what you want from them.
Unless there is a requirement, you will not keep the relationship. You have to get something from somebody.
There is always a want. Without wanting anything from anybody, we will not be their friend.
That’s why Forgiveness is very important because it dissolves your wanting.
In any relationship, want love, trust or happiness and also want to be loved. If the relationship doesn’t provide them then we will go on complaining about it.
However, relationship is not about wanting. It is about giving.
Why problems happens in a relationship
Our first level of communications is our thoughts. All our thoughts are communicated directly to the other person. Whatever we think goes and reaches the other person.
Always remember to think good thoughts because they are like a perfume – a fragrance. The fragrance of your mind fills up your aura.
According to the fragrance of your thoughts, you are attracting people and maintaining them.
The problem is not between two persons. The problem is how we think about the other person.
People and situations stimulate your thoughts. Through these thoughts you will be known – whether you are an angry person or so and so.