Child Care
Take care of your children until they are 16
Naran S Balakumar
Until children are 14 years old, take care of them. Then they don’t need you.
Now they need you to embrace them. Support them mentally and emotionally, and love them before they are 14 years old.
If you are busy with work during this period then it will affect them. The children will decide to seek love elsewhere. They will say, “I don’t care whether I am right or wrong. I will get what I want”.
Children are never to be blamed. Only the parents are the cause.
Do EFT (absent healing) for the child to accept/love itself totally.
Until they are sixteen, the children want the parents to take care of them.
After 16 years, they say, “Please don’t take care of me” – meaning you don’t need to bother me anymore.
If you take care of them until they are 16, then you don’t have to worry about them later.
Build immunity in children
Naran S Balakumar
If you ask the children to do Mudras, they won’t do it.
While they are sleeping, put the rubber band on little and ring fingers with thumb touching them. Keep it for half-hr to one-hr and then remove the rubber the rubber band.
Between the age group of 3 and 10, the children normally catch cold. If they catch cold once in 3-4 months, then it is good because the immunity is being built up.
However, if they catch cold once a week then indicates their immunity is less.
Building up one’s immunity means, building up red blood cells in our body. The Pran Mudra improves red blood cells and adjusts the white blood cells.
It also works very well for anemia.
Don’t want anything bad to happen to my dear ones
Naran S Balakumar
We always don’t want anything unexpected to happen in our lives.
If you don’t want to hear anything unexpected then just say, “STAR OF BETHLEHEM” three times and make a request to it, “STAR OF BETHLEHEM be active in my energy field as well as be active in all my chakras for the next 12 hrs”.
In the morning, as soon as you wake up say that and in the evening around 6 PM repeat it.
You can invoke any Bach flower like this. But when you are worried about the well-being of your children, pray to Star of Bethlehem.
We don’t want anything unexpected to happen for our children. If you get a phone call then immediately you get scared.
For us not to face any traumatic incidents, I have given you this solution.
Normally, we need this solution in today’s world – some bomb blast happens and we hear some bad news. In school, the children might get hurt due to some bullies and get traumatic.
To avoid your near and dear ones from getting hurt, you can say ‘Star of Bethlehem’ three times and make a request, ‘be sustain and active in my son’s energy field and all his chakras for the next 12 hours’.
You do the same for your husband. In the request either you can say the name of the relationship or the name of the person.
Remedies for Hyperactive Children
Client:
“My son had a fracture. He is very hyperactive”
Naran S Balakumar:
Around 5.30 in the morning, ask him to do sun gazing for one week. It will reduce his hyperactive nature. If it is not possible to do it in the morning, let him do it in the evening.
You can also give him WATER VIOLET, OAK, CHESTNUT BUD, CERATO, RESCUE REMEDY and MOONSTONE.
Water Violet, Oak, Chestnut Bud and Moonstone for mental constancy and for running around, Cerato and Rescue Remedy.
Give it for 6 months. Will calm them down and slow down their activities.
Regular review of remedies is necessary.
Healing a physical problem
Naran
You can heal any physical problem using EFT/Tapping along with other healing approaches.
For any problem, find out the symptoms of them.
Tap and affirm “I accept myself totally for all my symptoms”
How long it has been there? Before 5 years it was not there. If you are free 5 years back bring that resource now then affirm, “I choose to be as itching free as I was 5 years back”
The words we use are maintaining the pain/disease. Watch the expressions and release them one after another.
If it has been there right from childhood and as there was no history of health before, we mayn’t be able to use no of years back as expression here.
Instead, you could use the health resource of another child you know, “I choose to see the child free from rashes as …” (mention the name)
In addition, ask the mother of child to visualize the scenes of pregnancy period and tap as well and affirm,“I accept myself totally”
Care for both Child and Job
Nisha
I am a mother of two kids.
I am working in IT and there is no proper person to take care of my kids. Even my job is very much required for financial support.
Please advise what switch words/remedies to be used so that I get a long running, stable and non-hectic project, at the present location of my office.
Naran
Chant “GORSE, CLEMATIS”
Nisha (after two months)
I am able get into a project last week in the same premises. Thanks for your advice.
Explanation
The Bach flower remedies GORSE and CLEMATIS helps you to get you a new project – when the projects is getting over, or get a new job.
To fulfill your dreams: CLEMATIS
An introvert can be made to talk
SD
My son who is a 6-year-old is an introvert. He doesn’t talk with anyone other than us (parents and his elder brother).
Because of this, he has trouble making friends even in school. His voice is also very feeble. Most of the times, you can hear him whispering only.
He takes around an hour or so for eating.
He is very intelligent and smart but because of his introvert nature he is always lonely and I feel bad for him.
Naran
Give him the flower remedies MIMULUS and LARCH in the day time, and give ASPEN in the night.
SD
I started giving him Mimulus and Larch.
Within two days I see a big change in him. He has started to talk more and his voice is also loud. I will add Aspen also to it.
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https://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/11/05/exam-mantra/
Allow the child to be a child
UPK
I want to inculcate the values of politeness and self-control in my 8-year-old daughter.
She keeps getting angry for every small thing and loses self-control. She gets very tempted with all material possessions and never really wants to share with others until forced to.
I am worried that she might land up in trouble with this kind of an attitude in future.
Naran
Don’t teach her anything.
She will come up well. Allow the child to be a child.
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Nail Biting
Naran
Nail biting is mostly an expression of tension in anticipation of a difficult situation or of parental punishment with inherent guilt feelings.
Give the child the Bach Flower Remedies WHITE CHESTNUT, MIMULUS, PINE and WALNUT, each three doses.
Or put the pills in a bottle of water and give it to the child as sipping throughout the day is better.