EFT/Tapping

Tapping For Emotional Freedom : TIPS

How do I tap?

  • Tap at each of the 15 points, pressing up and down five times with your fingers. Apply very little pressure. Do not press to hard.
  • Make sure you use all the four fingers – except the thumb, as you can be sure that you are pressing the right place.
  • You could buy the Acupressure Stick and use them, instead of the fingers. This is useful when you are applying tapping on somebody else who may feel awkward if you touch him or her on certain points.
  • Alternatively without pressing up and down, just apply pressure and hold on to the point for at least 5 to 10 seconds. This is useful when your fingers are tired or hurt. Choose what you feel best. I find this method very convenient when I do tapping in the office or in public places when I don’t want others to know that I am tapping. I prefer longer time too at each position, say for two to three minutes. Of course go by your gut feelings and choose the method that you feel comfortable and better.
  • A quick technique to tapping would be to cup each of the fingers of both hands with the other hand. Hold each finger at a time and move across it pressing on all sides of the finger. This is equally effective like other methods. So you will be tapping on all the ten fingers.

How many cycles of tapping I have to do?

Once you finish one cycle of tapping, ask yourself whether you feel better. Sometimes you will feel better even before completing one cycle, and then you may stop at that point In other situations after completing a cycle if you feel your emotions are not completely released then continue doing for some more cycles, until you feel better. Sometimes you may not feel better completely. Even then you can stop if you feel it is ok to stop, especially during the night. Most probably after a good night sleep, you will see those symptoms vanish completely. Continuing to do tapping for some more days if the problem persists. Definitely you will see improvement after each tapping session.

Tapping Positions

When you can’t manage to tap in all the points due to circumstances, for example when you are attending an office meeting where you won’t be able to tap in front of others. In those situations, tap on the hands only. There are some emergency situations when you are too tired to tap on all those points. Then tap on triple warmer (gamut) point only. Ideally, it is better you tap on all those fifteen points

  • Order of tapping positions doesn’t matter. You can start from any position. To make sure that you don’t miss any point start from the beginning of the eyebrow position.
  • Certain points like Gamut, Collar Bone etc are available on both sides of our bodies. You may tap on any one side.
  • While doing on the face and chest positions, you may tap on both sides

What to say when you are tapping?

Whatever you might be feeling or be saying before you started tapping, please say the same thing. More the words are true better the results will be. Say it silently if you prefer. But when you say it aloud (assuming there is nobody is near to you) then the words are true automatically and your mind won’t be wandering too.

Other Stuff

Tapping is used as an alternative therapy. A healing may require at multiple levels. While Allopathic treatments work at the physical level, tapping works on thoughts and emotion. Therefore, please do not discontinue the treatment you are already undergoing.

Testimonials about IEIT

The following are the testimonials on what people say about the IEIT workshop and the IEIT techniques. Your I.E.I.T is working very well – SMS by Anitha Rathnam

Fantastic! The I.E.I.T has become part of my daily routine – Dr. Karthikeyan

34 years of my pain is gone – Patta Raman

I got $100 from my son, when I used your technique for prosperity. With your technique, I am sleeping well without tablets – Saradha Sundar

I use the technique in my office – very useful in relationship areas – Govind

When I came for tapping, I was loaded with so much of sadness, and my throat used to get chocked. Now I am greatly relieved and I am so peaceful – V. Sundar

Your I.E.I.T Workshop is working so well for me. My legs don’ts get numb any more, while sleeping. I stimulate the Acupoints with your affirmations and I see only positive things happening to me. My world is created by me – I understand this very clearly. I am sending this email to say, “Thank you Sri. Naran” – Bala, Bangalore

Distance Healing with IEIT

Distant Healing – I

Raji, a friend of Shobana had muscle cramps. She called up on Shobana and asked her to send Reiki. Shobana decided to do tapping instead.
Solution steps:

  •  She said ‘I am Raji’ for few times.
  •  Then she imagined herself as Raji and did tapping.
  •  Fifteen minutes later she received a call from Raji asking her what miracle she did as her problem had vanished away completely.

Distant Healing – II

Shobana handled another case as well. A child was thumb sucking even though she is five years old.
Solution steps:

  •  Shobana took a print out of the tapping points.
  •  Then she wrote the name of the child on top of the paper.
  •  She started tapping on the points printed on the paper and kept saying ‘Asha you are giving up on thumb sucking’.
  •  Within two days Asha stopped thumb sucking.

Negotiation from a distance

Life is all about negotiations, finding a middle path and a win/win situation for everybody concerned.
Solution steps:

  •  Decide how you want to go about the conversation.
  •  Then imagine how the other person will react to it
  •  And finally imagine the desired outcome by both the parties will be achieved by the healthy conversation you had.
  •  Note the conversation on paper if it is quite lengthy (optional).
  •  Using your right (giving or action) hand do tapping and start imagining how you will start the conversation.
  •  Whenever the other person has to remark, tap with left (receiving) hand and imagine how they will answer/converse.
  •  Continue the imaginary conversation to the end.
  •  When you meet the person next time, start the conversation the way you had planned.
  •  You will get a surprise that the other person will react the same way you had imagined. As Balakumar says we are all connected sub-consciously.

Negotiation with a child

Your child did not want to listen to any of your reasoning. In front of the child keep tapping and telling it mentally what you wanted to say. Definitely you can be sure that your child will understand where you are coming from.
Sreenivas does this technique whenever he has communications issues with his child. He says within ten minutes of tapping he finds his son responding to his suggestions.
Please note here that that father is not influencing the son, but making the son, understand the given situation. He is facilitating the communication process.

Application of IEIT

Areas of Application

  • You can take your life in your hands.
  • Depression, despair, disappointments, shyness, timidity, guilt and shame.
  • For goal achievement.
  • To achieve self-confidence.
  • To heal relationship problems.
  • Useful for children’s studies.
  • Stress and tension.
  • Insomnia.
  • Addiction.
  • Obesity.
  • For various allergies.
  • Personality development.
  • Physical ailments.
  • Fears and Phobias.

About I.E.I.T

Instant Emotional Intelligence Technique (I.E.I.T) or Tapping For Emotional Freedom

About IEIT In Nutshell

You can take your life in your hands.
You can change your mind.
Treat Depression.
You can change yourself and change others too.
You can heal your life.

Can you describe the technique?

It is a combination of two techniques, namely NLP and Acupressure. Combing the effectiveness of Acupressure with NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) principle, this technique – popularly known as EFT, lets you discover the amazing way to heal yourself, your family, friends and others. Perhaps an easiest way to free oneself from emotional sufferings and pains. This totally heals you incredibly.

Bear in mind, Naran has added points other than those used for EFT. He has found some more simple techniques, but very powerful ones. All these makes IEIT a much more powerful tool and at the same time very simple to use.
Is it easy to learn?

It is so easy that even a child can learn it without any difficulty.

How fast is the healing?

It works instantly. That’s why this Acupressure Tapping is called as Instant Emotional Intelligence Technique.

Is it similar to Reiki or Pranic healing?

No. It is unique. It is different. You can take charge of your life at any moment after you learn the concept.

Can a simple technique like this solve complex problems?

This simple technique can solve the most difficult problems. Problems doesn’t exist outside. It exists only in the mind. The same problem which appears big to one person, appears small to another person.

What is the concept behind this technique?

If there is a problem inside the mind, the solution for the problem is within the mind too. If you find some events makes you feel sad, then you can come out of the sadness as fast as you can change your shirt or pants.

Can physical ailments be handled IEIT?

Why not? Experiences shows, it can handle many physical ailments as there is a connection between the mind and the body. So when the mind – the thought pattern(s), is healed, the physical ailments associated with the thought pattern is healed too.

Communication with Dear Ones

Smiley

Does 5 AM signify anything? Can I send msg to someone (communication gap) by using tapping?

Naran

Download the tapping picture from any site.Write the name of the person. Start tapping

Smiley

Actually I want him to contact me either on net or phone as I don’t have any way to contact him. So I need to know during tapping what I have to affirm.

Naran

  1. One should tap oneself first. Tap stating “TOGETHER I accept myself totally”.

This acceptance releases our resistance.

When the desire to change anything or any person operates, the mind is in conflict. The other part of the mind knows that it is futile to change anything. The desiring mind, wants to change everything.

The reality is one has to accept what is happening, releasing the desire to change. Then only our wish or intention or command can have any effect on other person.

Wishing or healing the wish is the only option available to us. Manifestation is unpredictable.

  1. Do on the paper with the tapping points printed.

Use your wish as a command word.

For example, “Talk to me.  Contact (name of the person) now”.

  1. Affirm, “I accept totally what is done by the divine”.

Neck pain after working computers

Sam

My right side neck is paining like hell.

Naran

You would have got the pain while working in the computer – due to improper sitting position. Anyway, it will go by itself. Meanwhile, chant the switch words, “BE ADJUST HO CRYSTAL”.

Press those places where you get the pain. It might be painful initially and at the same time comfortable. But, the pain will go sooner.

Sam

The pain went way as you said on the neck. However, I still feel the pain, around my head.

Naran

Release the memories of the pain, by doing tapping (EFT).

Sam

I tapped furiously for one hour. It went away eventually. Thanks.

Explanation

Release Resistance to the pain: ADJUST, and BE unaffected (shift the consciousness)

Become happy: HO

Have clarity, not to think or get confused (trying to find the reasons for the pain), “Whether it can be this or that”

Even though the pain has gone, the memories of the pain suffered during this period will bring back the pain. You can release them by saying releasing statements or do EFT. Tapping is better as you may find it difficult to say the releasing statements when you are having the pain.

Getting Employed

Naran S Balakumar

A state of unemployment causes worry and fear, while a state of employment brings in stability and happiness.

Just go into the state of stability and happiness when you are jobless, so that the state of happiness brings in the employment.  Change your Mind, Change your Life.

Tapping the Positive Frame Of Mind

  • Visualize the employment that you will eventually get and bring in that state of mind.
  • Or visualise the past when you were really doing well.

Tap on all points (EFT) until the positive state is reinforced inside you.

This positive frame of mind will bring in the job – which will match your frame of mind.

ADVANTAGE Acceptance

“I choose to accept myself totally” – what does that mean.

It means we accept ‘My feelings’, ‘My Thoughts’ and ‘My Life Situations’ as ‘Myself’ indicates all of them.

The energy stream produced among them can thus be settled amicably.

When you accept, what happens to the mind – which is the creator of all emotions and thoughts?

When you don’t observe the thoughts or emotions, they will dominate you. Then you are led by the mind.

You will behave in the same way as you behaved in a similar situation from the past. Thus, one becomes a Robot.

When you affirm, “I accept myself totally”, the mind is baffled because it didn’t not expect any observation from you.

When you go on accepting the thoughts and emotions as they arise, they cannot stay in the same energy pool. Thus it won’t be able to sustain the old thinking cum action pattern.

New Choice New Behaviour

They just die down (get released) and you become free.  When you become free, you have a new choice. You can wait for events to unfold in a different way.

Accepting is nothing but changing the path of mind. Therefore, it can access a neural path and a new behavior is elicited.

Sleepless in Chennai

Venu was doing his last year in an Engineering College. So he had a many a late night preparations for the final year exam and the project as well.

He didn’t mind going to sleep late, though he found it difficult to sleep well.

He will be lying in bed for an hour or two, before he can go into a sleep. In addition, he was getting few nightmares too. Therefore, when he gets up in the morning, he was feeling tired and restless.

Accept Myself Totally

After discussing with Shobana, he affirmed the following while tapping on him:

“Even though I am not happy about my progress in my studies, I choose to accept myself totally”.

“Even though I feel as a looser, I choose to accept myself totally”.

He started sleeping well.

He is continuing this approach for other problems as well. He find as long as he can accept himself in a situation, he is able to handle the situation comfortably.

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