Forgiveness How and Why
My Body is My Guru
R Mohan
I got a slight fever. I took the drawing pills. Shall I do anything else?
What is body-mind reason for fever?
Naran
Put 10 pills of Drawing in a bottle of water and sip it throughout the day.
Chant “LUM VUM RUM YUM HUM”
Suppressed anger is the cause of virus attack.
R Mohan
I took the drawing-water and chanted the mantras several times.
Unfortunately, I couldn’t find the source of anger, I thought so.
Then I received an email, which helped me recollect my anger about somebody from the past. The moment I sensed it, my fever came down.
I did the forgiving the exercise for that person and whatever fever I had came down.
Naran asked me to continue the above for next 24 hours.
Basic Thing to Improve a Relationship
Is forgiving the concerned person(s)…
Mona
My problem is my love relationship.
I am in a relationship for the past 3 years. From the beginning only we use to fight a lot but there is immense love and care also for each other.
But, few months ago he said that his family is not accepting our relationship due to inter-caste issues.
He is also fed up of my suspicious and fighting nature. In addition, he is not ready for commitment.
We tried to end up this relationship, yet still we are in talking terms.
Taking help from your blog, I started writing the affirmation, “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me <his name> as a life partner NOW DONE” for 21 times daily along with writing 58 for 58 times.
Also, I’m continuously chanting, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE <his name> PARTNER HOLE”.
I have also kept the power symbol 47 and 66 with me.
But nothing is helping. Neither things are improving nor are they ending completely.
At times, I feel like its divine wish that we should stay together that’s why in spite of deciding to part our ways, somehow we are still in terms.
Pls help me out of this situation – either things should improve or end up completely by divine grace.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise for him.
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Detach Emotionally
Ravi
I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.
I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.
I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).
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How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/
Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/
Keep letting go of blame
Grace
http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
Thank you.
This was a big black in my mind before.
Stopping blame has been difficult for me. It makes you happier for sure.
I will keep letting go of blame.
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I love to take control of my life: http://reachnaran.com/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
Flowers for Harmony in Relationships and Family: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-for-harmony-in-relationships-and-family/
Mantras for Bliss: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/11/14/mantras-for-bliss/
Reaching for Love
Sreelu
Referring the blog: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/06/24/forgive-and-give-love/
Since morning I was thinking how will I let out my anger and was requesting divine to help me. And when I opened this blog today the first thing I saw is article on WILLOW.
I thank Naran for his blessings on us. When I start thinking of solution I bow to Naran in my heart and request him to guide me.
The Bach Flower Remedy WILLOW helps us to love those whom we don’t want to forgive.
Thank you WILLOW for reaching me and thank you Naran
Forgiveness can’t be simpler than this!!!
Mudra for Letting Go…
Vata humor is formed by activating Air and Space elements (touch the thumb with index and middle finger on both the hands).
Vata means Movement.
Its primary seat is Colon. Inhalation, exhalation, circulation, communication, nervous system, excretion, co-ordination of senses – all of them require Vata humor.
When we fight with somebody, we don’t want to ask for forgiveness, because we are adamant. Earth element is more here (ring finger). Air and Space elements have to be activated.
The letting go of anger and resentment will be easier with this Mudra.
Then we need to do the ACCEPTANCE MUDRA and then do the FORGIVENESS Exercise.
Forgiveness is the door way to happiness in our lives.
Resentment Created an Accident
Anger Eraser Part I
An accident that was blessing in disguise
Everybody will have at least one major turning point in their life, sometimes more than one. I had one too in the form of an accident, in 2005.
Without going to the details of the accident, I wanted to share my experiences, related to my healing during that period.
Minor diseases in plenty
Post-accident I was having severe cold, cough, dizziness’ and other minor ailments. The only issue is that after fixing one, I will get another. For example, if I took some remedies to fix my cold, immediately after fixing it, I will get dizziness. Then I will be immobile for two hours.
Once that is fixed soon after that, I will get dry cough and so on. This was proving quite annoying and uncomfortable for me. I was on sick leave for more than a month and nothing seems to be improving.
Resentment about my family members
One day on a flash, I told Naran that I have a deep resentment about my family members and I consider them unfair in relation with me.
Whether they are unfair or not or whether I am fair in saying doesn’t matter here. The point of the matter is that I have resentment and that has to be fixed.
So Balakumar asked me to take the Bach Flower Remedy WILLOW whenever I feel angry about my people. As soon as I started taking it, all my episodes of the diseases stopped to a greater extent. They did come, but at a minor scale.
Moral of the story
I need to be healed irrespective of my life situation to fix the problems – physical or social. What is required here is that I need to fix my mental state.
I did that. And it changed my life a lot.
Please refer this link to read about the second article in the series – “Remove My Angry Instinct – Anger Eraser Part II”: http://wp.me/ptUKY-6D
Healing Others by Breaking Our Connection to Them
The ‘I am sorry’ mantra goes like this, “I am sorry. Please forgive Me. Love Thanks Divine. I forgive you. You forgive me and release me”.
It will remove the connection between us and the healee. Immediately, healing will happens to the healee.
Case History
A girl got married. It was arranged by her parents. In her husband’s house, she went through lot of suffering. Her husband wasn’t on talking terms with her either.
Mother used to consult me and chant remedies for the sake of her kid. Everyday she called me without fail. When the phone rings, I used to wonder, why healing hasn’t happened. So I affirmed, “I Balakumar forgive you Lakshmi. You forgive me and release me”. Within one day the problem got resolved as the disconnection has happened.