Love and Harmony
Bring Cheer in Relationships
Vandana
My main problem of my fibromyalgia (nerves pain due to stress) and that is because of my not having a good relationship with my husband.
I have discussed each and everything with my husband how we can make our relationship better. He will always tell that he will improve. But, he has never done anything about it.
I am a very honest person, get attached very easily and do everything for others with full heart.
However, my husband loves to show off. He spends money on me to show others and my children that he is a very caring husband and loves me a lot.
Because of his nature, I am totally broke. I can’t believe him anymore. He is very selfish and only cares about him. He has no interest in me.
I just have dragged this marriage because of my kids. My boys are 19 and 17. They also understand that our relationship is not good. My kids also tell me to try to be happy and stay busy.
To keep myself happy, I am trying to keep myself busy in so many things, I have started business as well. But, whatever I am doing my husband has no interest in it.
I am trying to detach myself from him also but it’s really difficult, I don’t know, what to do, but still I want true love from him.
Naran
What is needed for you to change yourself to him? You only want him.
Ask yourself what is preventing you from getting his love?
Are you blaming within (for your problems)?
What about your judgmental attitude (about yourself) within?
What is in you that is preventing you from getting his love and affection?
Is it your desire to change him?
What is in you that has caused his rejection?
What is in you that has attracted this unloving person (in your life)?
Reflecting on your thoughts and behavior will make you understand your life better.
What do you need to change in yourself?
Did you not anytime ACT (put up a show) anywhere with anybody in the past?
What is that which is hidden in you? What all you had hidden from your parents in your past?
How much love you have for others?
Scale each and every love you gave to others. Is it not different with different people?
Reflect.
Chant (gem remedy) “PEARL” as many times as possible
Vandana
I have never acted with my own people, whether they are my parents, sisters, brothers, or close friends.
I am always honest with them. I don’t lie as well.
I don’t believe in changing people, I accept everybody as they are.
My only problem is I have expectations on my husband so that we can make our married life better, by spending more time with each other,
He has all the enthusiasm when he meets others. He entertains them like anything but at home he didn’t want to do anything.
He likes parties so I arrange for him. But, if I like to spend time with him he should also take some effort for that.
I won’t say he doesn’t love me, but there is no effort in making our lives and relationship cheerful.
Naran
Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”
Explanation
The Gem remedy PEARL will develop the motherliness in you, which attract people towards you.
The switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” is so powerful that it will bring tremendous change in you, which in turn will bring the results you want.
Change is a Celebration, let us celebrate it. I have created a “WELCOME CHANGE” CD to bring the changes in ourselves easily.
Love is the True Reality
(Extracted From the book – ‘I Love Myself Workbook’)
- Reflect on this – ‘Love is the True Reality’.
- Ask the questions, “Why” and “How”.
- Think why and how.
- When you ask the question “Why”, you must get an answer.
- Then ask the other question “How”?
Why and How Love is the true reality?
You have to do them leisurely. You must ask the question – “Why love is the true reality?” All of us want to be loved first. At that time, self is longing for love. If you see the world, you will know how it has become true.
To understand essence of “I love myself” I have given you this exercise.
We are all connected
We are having our lunch, that food is cooked by some body, somebody is ordering this food. So how many people’s energy is there in the food?
Somebody is ordering the food to the owner. So he is also connected with the food.
It is connected to the cook, and the packers.
It is connected to the transporter who brings the food.
If he has to come here, there should be a road which is laid by somebody and therefore it is connected to that person.
What is the menu? Let us say rice, and chapatti. So there is rice, wheat, oil etc. Wheat is grown by somebody and sold by somebody.
From there, who brings the wheat and rice to the public?
Not make me feel hungry, so many people are working and so many people are connected. It is the intention of the divine that you should not go hungry which made so many people to work for you.
Do everything with Love
So that is the reality. Whether all of them work with love or not,is a different question!
But what is the motivating factor behind all their work. Is it Divine the motivating force or the love of the Divine that is making all these people work for you?
We pay the price for this. So you pay it with gratitude. Instead we try to bargain when we want to pay someone. When we go to big shops we pay whatever they say. However, when a person brings green vegetables to our home, we bargain.
It happens because of Love
If we understand “Love is true reality” we will not make such mistakes. Everything is moved in this world because of love. Nothing else other than love moves this world.
If we know this, we definitely will start giving love and we will be definitely be loved by all.
Everything is connected with the web of life – the Divine Web of Love.
We ignore our body, yet it loves us
When a child is born, the date and time is fixed by the Divine.
All the organs of the body, what do they do? They work properly for some time. If we commit some mistake the organ gives us some pain. But it will somehow try to help us.
So, if the body is not there, we are not here. However, we are not giving respect to the body that it deserves. This includes me too.
If we understand that love is the true reality, we can understand how much our body loves us. Somehow it balances, in spite of our mistakes.
Find peace and harmony
Client
My sister’s husband is an alcoholic and he has done a lot of bad things to her.
She has lost her love for him and their marriage has broken down.
He wouldn’t accept that and he gets drunk and is abusive to her and her children even though he knows she has high pressure and heart problem.
Please help her find peace and harmony in her home for her and her children.
Naran
Chant “BE TINY CLIMB LIFT KIND DIVINE LOVE”
Client
I want to say thank you for the switch word you gave my sister.
She has some peace and harmony now. Her husband is hardly ever at home now. In fact, he stays out more than at home.
Wolf My Pal
As told by Venky
My wife won’t listen to me. Neither my child would listen to me. However, the animal spirit guide Wolf will do that.
Every day in the morning, I talk to the Animal Spirit Guide Wolf first. I tell it what I am going to do that day and ask it to help me manage those affairs.
One day I had to talk to my parents. I was expecting some arguments, which I wanted to avoid.
Therefore, I requested Wolf to go and speak to them on my behalf first, before I reach there.
When I reached my parents’ house, I need not take any extra efforts to convince them. Somehow, they seem to understand my side of the story, without me convincing them in any way.
So, folks I want you to know that I never handle anything in my life without seeking the help of my pal, the animal spirit guide Wolf. In addition, I carry his picture in my purse.
Entwined in Love
Ishah
I am keen to change my relationship with my husband to total love and harmony, because most of the times he is always angry with me.
As I do sometimes make mistakes for which I immediately say sorry. But, still I really want to change everything to LOVE and make him happy and calm.
I also know he loves me a lot. But things tend to go wrong and out of hand sometimes.
Naran
Download a picture of two SWANS with their necks entwined. Keep it under your pillow and your husband’s.
In the morning or evening look at the picture, and chant the switch words, “TOGETHER DIVINE”:
Explanation
The entwined swans represent intimate love.
Harmony with Husband
CJ
I read through your blog “Animal Spirit Guide” wonderful and amazing. This really will help me to release my pile-up loads that were stock up and pressure me all this while.
My problem is how I should call them for help in my below situation:
- For peace and harmony – my husband use to nag for petty things the moment he gets home and this really annoys kids and me.
- Don’t want to have problem inside family. How to call upon BLUE WHALE and CHIMPANZEE?
Naran
“Blue whale, be here in the house with me and my husband and establish harmony here”.
Say this once daily or whenever the conflict arises. You can say this again and again also.
Developed Good Communication and Understanding
Grace
I have another incredible turnaround.
I want to preface this by saying that I have also been using the circle technique to utilize a set of Bach flowers you gave me for releasing old fears and securing a new job.
I have also been writing down some of the mantras from your site so I have been close to healing vibes if you will.
In any case, I have been in a serious conflict with my boyfriend for a few days – the culmination of a little over a year of disagreement.
I have explained to him again and again my views and why I have been upset with him.
For this entire time I have not felt listened to you. Growing desperate yesterday I just remembered the animal spirit guide BLUE WHALE.
I asked Blue whale to help resolve the situation because I felt I couldn’t let it go without being understood. It was too frustrating.
Over the next few hours he SUDDENLY started actually listening and understanding what I have been saying. Many things were cleared up!
This does not mean we have decided to continue our relationship necessarily but there is such peace for me in knowing that I am not doomed to always be unheard.
He also was able to express to me several things which were on his mind.
Thank you Blue whale! Thank you Naran!
Fishing for Harmony in a Marriage…
Leena Sharma
I wanted to share it with you a thanks note from one of my known friends to me.
She works with me in the same office as mine. She was going through some rough patch with her husband.
To brief up the situation: her husband used to get angry very easily. There were repeated fights between both of them.
I was reading your blog for quite some time. I read about the Animal Spirit Guide Jelly Fish in one of your blogs, which is supposed to bring in harmony in the family and among relationships.
Therefore, I gave my friend a picture of Jelly Fish.
In less than week’s time, she had noticed the changes and is quite happy with it.
Things have changed at her home and she has conveyed her deepest gratitude to you.
Finding Peace and Harmony at home
Call upon the animal spirit guide Chimpanzee, when you want…
- Peace and harmony to prevail; there is a conflict and misunderstanding: call upon CHIMPANZEE and affirm, “Please solve this misunderstanding for me”. It will heal the situation for you.
- Don’t want to have no problems inside your family call upon BLUE WHALE and CHIMPANZEE.
- To make amends with someone
- To become most compassionate, nurturing and caring
- To make children listen to their parents