Love and Harmony
Switch Words for Harmony Part II
Naran S Balakumar
“TOGETHER BRING PRAISE DIVINE” – if someone always criticizes you.
PRAISE is the word derived from OLIVE tree’s branch. OLIVE leaf is given as the symbol of peace.
Whenever you use the switch word or any word, chant for some time and wait for symbol to appear.
One’s symbol may not be applicable to the other person. It’s the personal symbol for the particular word.
Note down the symbol along with the phrase and draw the symbol. Then Switch word will work better for you.
Every word will have its own picture in the mind. It is specific to individual only.
Any switch word which is not working for you, chant and bring the picture from the mind. Along with the picture, work with it. You will get the desired result.
PRAISE is very important. You might be criticized and don’t know what to do. You feel upset. Instead, chant “BRING PRAISE DIVINE”.
The Rig Veda is only the praise of the Lord. Rig means praise.
Switch Words for Harmony Part I
Naran S Balakumar
BOW – to extend love
CONCEDE – to stop the argument and to agree
CONFESS – accept the mistake
OIL – smoothen the friction
GIVE – to be warm and open in the relationship
WITH – used for Harmony. Originally it is used for separation in 16th century. The meaning is totally shifted in the next century to harmony i.e., association, union, and combination.
FORGIVE – to give up the desire to punish.
Why the need for Forgiveness Exercise
When you give the forgiving exercise for the other person, you also leave the desire to punish. You are not forgiving anybody, you are leaving the desire to punish and you want the other person to leave the desire to punish.
Exercise to remove dislikes about your spouse
Naran S Balakumar
Write down a particular behaviour that you dislike about your spouse/ any person.
Fully feel it.
Bring that feeling to the surface.
Take a pen or pencil by the left hand in the notebook.
With the full feeling, draw any figure.
Change the figure into flower using right hand chanting AGRIMONY, BEECH, WILLOW, WALNUT and CHICORY.
Colour it.
Circulate Love
Girl
I love a boy. Even he loves me.
For the past 1 month, he does not care much for me thought he says he loves me a lot. Also he is in contact with many girls.
Can you suggest me any mantra so that he should be attracted only to me?
Naran
Loving is not wanting something or wanting to possess. If the desire is to possess somebody, love eludes.
When there is no love but only desire (to possess), you will attract the one who will have desire to possess others also. For most of the people, desire is operating and not love.
Write,
“I release the part of me which is desirous to possess.
I align with the part which truly loves others”.
Taking this as a rule, analyse your life.
Chant “CHICORY TOGETHER GIVE CIRCULATE LOVE”.
How to increase attraction and love between husband and wife?
Client
How to increase togetherness attraction and love between husband and wife relation? I can’t tolerate his ignorance or rudeness towards me.
Sometimes, he stops to communicate, I feel very restless and insecure that time. Want to see the same love and importance for me in his eyes as I do.
Naran S Balakumar
Write daily 51 times, “I release my resistance to be loved by him”.
Chant “BOW CONCEDE RESTORE TOGETHER DIVINE LOVE”.
Angel numbers for harmony
Multi-Dimensional Healing Workshop Chennai Mar 28 2015
Naran S Balakumar
Both angel numbers 44 and 58 are important for harmony.
Angel number 58 removes all obstacles in life – any obstacle for that matter. It works as a kind of miracle.
If you have any regression in life, it will remove it. If somebody is giving obstructions – say somebody from your family – those obstructions are removed by this angel number.
Angel number 44 will bring in stability. It also increases love bond. You can either keep saying 44 or write them several times. Or write 44 in piece of paper and keep it under the pillow.
Manage Your Conflicts Easily
Naran S Balakumar
“VALLABHAM GAJAANANAM EKA DHANTHAM”
The mantra as a whole takes care of harmony in husband and wife relationships and it can remove disharmony in office relationships too.
When you are about to visit a place and you are afraid you might be facing a conflict there then at that time you can chant this mantra.
By thinking about the conflict, we will invite the same.
How to come out of an argument
Naran S Balakumar
Pran Mudra is a relaxation Mudra. Do it when you need to relax. When you are angry, be in this Mudra to reduce your anger.
When there is an argument – you say something and the opposite person say something else, and the argument gets escalating.
At that time, without entering into any argument be in this Pran Mudra, which is very effective in overcoming conflict situations.
Action and Reaction
In any situation, there is an action (from you or others) and reaction (from others and you).
When sodium meets with chlorine, it produces sodium chloride. On the other hand, when the same sodium is mixed with sulphuric acid it produces sodium sulphate.
Similarly, his action provokes you into anger (reaction).
Instead, of getting provoked with anger, be quiet by being in this Pran Mudra and your energy is changed.
This energy shift in you will automatically shift the energy of anger in the opposite person also. You cannot change the other person. Shift the energy within yourself and observe the change outside.
What happens when there is an argument in the house?
We are immediately get tempted to be reactive.
Instead, control the urge to become a participant by being in this Pran Mudra.
Control your reaction and see what happens.
You are not alone in this world
Naran S Balakumar
This (Heart) Mudra is formed by keeping the index finger at the base of thumb, while the thumb touches the tips of the middle and ring fingers, on both the hands.
This Mudra is also called as Apana Vayu Mudra. In the Mudra, by keeping the index finger at the base of the thumb, the oxygen level is increased in the lower lobes of lungs.
This is very good Mudra for heart as well as blood circulation.
Seek love inside and not outside
This Heart Mudra can restore harmony.
By keeping the index finger at the base of the thumb, the energy goes to the heart center – Heart chakra, not just physical heart.
We always want somebody to love us. That’s our nature. We seek love outside. When you are in this Mudra somehow or other your heart center is activated.
Somebody is waiting to be loved by us
The heart centre is like a cave. Because you are in darkness we seek love outside without knowing that somebody inside is in our heart sitting and waiting to be loved.
Who is that? Is he a grown up person or he is a wise man?
He is a small child sitting in the heart waiting for the one to love him. I am here. You don’t look at me at all. You say this person does not love you and that person does not love you.
Don’t you see within? Don’t you hear my voice? Come here. I will teach you. I will be your guru.
That is the voice of Lord Karthikeya.
Chant now the mantra “GURU GUGAN KODI KODI LAVANYAM” while being in the Heart Mudra.
You are not alone in this world.
Lord Karthikeya as a teacher, as a guru is always inside your heart.
‘M’ is included in the word Lavanyam. It is a very important mantra as it touches the heart.
Kodi means immense. Lavanyam means beautiful. So he is immensely beautiful.
When the immensely beautiful child is looking at you and waiting for your love, you don’t look at him at all.
Look within to love and be loved.
Cannot tolerate my in-laws anymore
Client
I’m recently married. Ours was a love marriage. It’s been 4 months now. From last month, I’m staying with my parent’s home and not in my in-laws home.
My in-laws are objecting me to go and see my parents. When I went to my parent’s home during first time itself, they made some arguments. But, I ignored it.
When the same thing happened for third time, I could not tolerate it. So, I came to see my parents and stayed back.
Then I asked my husband to live separately from them, with no objections from me for him to meet his parents.
He did not agree to this proposal and tried to take me to his parent’s home by forcing and torturing me mentally.
But still I did not go because all these 3 months they have tortured me enough and could not take it anymore. I tried to tell my husband the same.
He is a soft-hearted person and so he could not talk against his mother. She is the one who is so cruel and rude. Also, he doesn’t have enough courage to face her or come out from his parent’s house.
So please suggest me a switch word which makes my life peaceful with my husband. Day-by-day misunderstanding is increasing between him and me.
Naran
Chant “PELICAN, JELLY FISH, BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE”
Client
What would be the result? How fast they would realize their mistakes? They should realize soon and ask for forgiveness.
Naran
You cannot have what you want, till you have developed forgiveness for them.
Just chant as many times as possible.
If you are vengeful, they will also be vengeful; if you are forgiving and loving, they will also change.
Just analyse yourself. Ask the question what change you have to bring in for yourself to achieve what you want.
Change within is the first step to get harmony. You say he is adamant. According to him, you are also adamant.
When both of you are firm in your respective stand, nothing can happen.
When you want something – peace or harmony – you have to pay the price for that. You decide what price you can pay.
They may be totally wrong; but it is your life; your behaviour, your opinion, and your approach alone matters.
Chant the above for 20 days and then come back. Then I will tell you how to do the forgiving exercise.