Love and Harmony
Magic key to handle your beloved
Simran
My fiancé’s anger destroys my patience and love.
He is comparing me with the others. Really I want peace regarding my relationship. I want his love, caring and his urge to call me by his own.
Sometimes, I feel god give me some magical key to handle him and he starts to love me, my family and respect all of us.
Naran
Tap with the following statement 3 times on each point: “Even though I am frustrated, I find the magical key to handle him”.
Do it daily and as many times as possible.
Making the right choices
AF
Whenever I chant SCLERANTHUS, I don’t feel interested in my guy. What does that indicate? I don’t have feelings to talk to that person.
Naran
Scleranthus: the mind is in two modes; one part of her loves him; but the other part does not love him or wanting to be away from him.
The right part is activated but unfortunately, she did not analyse; instead of analyzing she fears the flower remedy.
Make your relationship a happy one
Referring the article: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2012/11/07/release-your-spouse-qualities/
Kishore
You made my day with the process of RELEASING my OWN Attitude, which I noted as BAD in My wife. Now I trust that when my attitude changes, it impacts my wife and changes it similarly.
Please tell me HOW long one should chant on each attitude in the given day and how long we could see the Change both in me and my wife too.
Naran
Do it, till you find change in her.
Jackpot
I am having a relationship. He is nice though from other community. Now, his family is fixing his marriage and he is not having that guts to tell them no for that and accept me.I got angry.
But after reading this article, I realized that 5 months before I had done the same with him and asked him to leave me.
How can I follow this process now? And can two people of opposite religion live happy together with divine grace?
Naran
Making a relationship a happy one is in our hands. Finding a relationship is in divine hands.
Jackpot
Can I do anything to release what I had done? I agree with you that happiness is in our hand. At least we can pray to divine to make us lovable n understanding?
Naran
Be lovable and understanding. Cultivate it. Giving love without expecting anything in return makes one lovable.
Swarna
Can we do this for all situations, especially in social and in situations where we have issues communicating with people we work with?
This seems to be feeling-based. I am asking about communicating. Both are the same at one level. So, can we do this release chant?
Naran
Yes you can do.The Bach flower Remedy (here Chicory is used) will change the mental state.
If you can’t identify the name of the flower, just say, without theflower name. For example, “I release my possessive nature”.
Love Vs Parent’s Approval
Priya
My boyfriend’s parents are not accepting for our marriage. We are trying to convince them for past three years but not successful. We want the marriage to happen very soon.
Naran
Chant “WALNUT, ROCK WATER, HORNBEAM, TOGETHER DIVINE”
Explanation
Heal the stubbornness and inflexibility: ROCK WATER
To come out of the influence of family-prestige, tradition, caste or race and to think beyond them: WALNUT
To initiate the event: HORNBEAM
Love is safe
Sri
This constant depression is taking a toll on me 🙁
So, when I get even a straw of positivity from you it makes me feel better.
No amount of telling my mind anything helps. It continues to feel sad about everything that is going wrong, in parallel.
No house, no promotion, no love. And finally all the hard work only gets bad feedback.
Naran
Behind sadness, there is expectation to be loved; behind this expectation, fear of rejection, fear of abandonment or fear of intimacy is there.
The fear and expectation or desiring operate in opposite directions, and produce the sadness feeling.
This fear denies everything you desire.
Chant this and write this:
- “I release that part, which wants to be loved”
- “I release that part, which activates fear of rejection”
- “I align with that part, which gives love unconditionally.”
- “I align with that part, which feels safe”
Harmony and Love waiting @ your doorstep
Please read the first part of this article here: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/no-more-disharmony/
To Create Harmony and Love in your life, affirm the following as many times as possible:
I thank the divine for aligning me with the divine order and love.
I thank the divine for keeping me in harmony and peace.
I thank the divine for getting love and affection.
I thank the divine for being appreciated.
I thank the divine for my tolerance and understanding.
I thank the divine for getting appreciated, and praised.
I thank the divine for changing me lovable and attractive.
I thank the divine for attracting kind, loving people.
I thank the divine for keeping me in a state of love, joy and peace of mind.
I thank the divine for aligning me in a centre of divine love.
I thank the divine for making me resonate with the centre of divine love.
I thank the divine for keeping me ever in a state of love and gratitude.
You have removed disharmony and in that place you have filled with harmony. This is the secret of ruling your mind – releasing and then affirming with what we want.
Now, you may wonder why we need to thank the divine, when there is no harmony yet! This is the secret of achieving things – thanking in advance what we want. The universe will give you what you want.
Good Luck!!!
No More Dis-harmony
Sarada
Please explain how to do rule exercise
Naran
Let us say you want to achieve harmony in your life.
The first step is to release all the hurdles that are inside you, which prevent s you from creating harmony.
Affirm the following statements as many times as possible, which helps you to remove disharmony from your life. Without removing it, you cannot create harmony in your relationships:
I release any memory that prevents my harmony
I release every thought that prevents my harmony
I release my memory of blaming that prevents my harmony
I release the memory, which prevents my getting of love and affection
I release the thoughtthat I lack love and affection
I release my memories of reject and disapproval
I release all my desires for approval
I release my memory of my anger to be in a state of love
I release my thought of blaming to be in a state of love and peace
I release the memory that I am misunderstood
I release the thought that I am misunderstood
I release the memory of my being criticized
I release the thought that I am criticized
I release the memory of attracting unkind, unloving people
I release the thought I am with unloving people
I release the memory that keeps me (in) hostility
I release every memory that prevents my state of love
I release the thought that prevents my state of love
After successfully completing the first step, do the second step which will help you to create harmony: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/24/harmony-and-love-waiting-your-door-step/
Everybody wants love
Grace
I am making much progress on receiving love by doing EFT for all the contributing factors to my resistance to receiving love and releasing my desire for love. Persistence was the key.
Now, I’m noticing all the ways in which people need love and care. I think I was blind to it before.
The problem now is either I do not know how to provide love or I find that I am very reluctant to give it.
For example, telling my friend something nice about them. I really don’t feel like it is necessary but I see people need affirmation.
Please help me become better at giving love in a way my close friends and relatives can receive. I am also VERY reluctant to say “I love you.”
Pami
I too am facing same thing, with some experiences in life.
I feel reluctant to say I LOVE YOU and feel something odd or negative in showing love. I was exactly opposite.
Naran
Everybody wants love and affection.
We express that through our expression and behavior only.
Every action of ours is aimed at that only.
Love is spontaneous when it is divine.
When you say that people expect a word of appreciation, give it.
If you view, it is not necessary, then don’t think about it.
But if you are concerned about it, then you also want approval from others.
Connect to the right partner
JES K
Pls help me to guide through this situation, after my last relationship ended with very bad manner.
But, it’s been two years now. I was able to come out of sadness and ready to move on, and feel good about myself.
Finally, I started feeling the same for this I guy I knew. I really like him and would like to build a loving trustworthy relationship with him.
There is always something goes wrong which is not making me connect to right guy. I have so much fear in my heart that things not going to come the way I want with him.
Naran
Chant the Bach Flower Remedies, “MIMULUS, GENTIAN, HORNBEAM”
In addition, chant separately, “LALITHAM SADHASHIVAM”
Explanation
To come out of sadness: GENTIAN and HORNBEAM
For fear: MIMULUS (as the saying goes, ‘once bitten twice shy’)
Connect to a right partner: LALITHAM SADHASHIVAM
Can’t propose to girl of my heart
Mahesh
I love one girl. She talks to me but don’t know whether she loves or not. But my life will fill with joy if she is my wife. Now what to do?
I am worried about my love and I am asleep every night because I am missing her.
I can’t propose her because I am afraid what if she says no to me?
Naran
If you love a person ask immediately without hesitation.
Chant, “CENTAURY, GENTIAN, CHERRY PLUM”
Explanation
CENTAURY: to be assertive
GENTIAN: not to feel dejected if “no” is the answer
CHERRY PLUM: to talk sweetly and ask her