Mind-Body Intelligence
Unpack your anger
Sathya
My husband’s acupuncturist says his liver is heated too much. What does it indicate? He asked him to put liver pack daily.
Naran
Anger, rage and unconnected with parents
Sathya
My husband is frustrated about his parents. How to overcome this?
My father-in-law has two wives. He lives with his 2nd wife and showing no attention to my husband’s family.
Naran
It is not his concern. “Judging the father, and getting angry as well as feeling frustrated is not required; you go on your own way, without being angry with him” is the message for him from his BODY.
Ask him to do the forgiving exercise (regarding his father).
Ask him to chant “BE TINY CONCEDE CLEAR REVERSE LOVE NOW” daily 108 times for one year.
Sathya
I am sorry to say this. He is not into chanting but he will take pills.
So can you pls suggest flower remedies for him and I will try to make him chant the above words.
Naran
He has to chant. There is no alternative.
Give him BEECH, WALNUT, HOLLY and CHERRY PLUM to tolerate and stop judging, release the anger and to bear without resisting.
Healing swelling without medication
This case history is a narration by Nirmal, who works as a software engineer. She narrates how mind-body relationship helped her to heal the swelling that appeared on her left hand without any medication.
This has happened to me last month (Jan09). I am working in a software company, and was waiting for my US opportunity in my project.
One fine morning, we received a mail stating that someone from Chennai had been shortlisted for the US assignment on a long term basis.
I got disappointed as I was not referred for that position. I wrote a mail to my manager, asking for the reason, for the job exactly fits my profile.
This was running inside mind, when I went to my native place for the festival season. Suddenly I received a call from Shobana, my yoga teacher.
She informed that there is a monthly meeting organized next week, and wanted to know whether we – my self and my hubby, are available.
I broke down and explained to her all that happened and as usual she consoled me with her magnetic voice and positive words.
She told me that some other thing might be waiting for me here in India to complete, which might bring more visibility than the US role.
Also, she was advising me to accept the fact and release the thought rather than fuming inside my heart.
She asked me to chant the Switch Words – ‘Love Thanks Divine’ as many times as possible to come out of the hurt.
Three days later, I went to my office. Still the incident was running in my mind. It was not so much fuming inside me, as I had on the first day.
And later on during the day, I received an explanation that there was a mistake in the email and the role was not yet finalized in US.
Meanwhile, right after the lunch I realized there was a slight pain in my left hand’s middle finger. I could not fold it properly.
I didn’t pay any attention though, and took rescue remedy as well as chanting Rescue Remedy.
By evening the middle finger swelled a lot. I was totally unable to move my left hand due to heavy pain. The pain was so much, that I couldn’t control my tears.
After I reached home around 8.00 pm, I ended up ringing Shobana and explained to her the situation and that I couldn’t move my left hand even a bit.
She asked me to put my finger in a drinking water, where few pills of rescue remedy is added (for 15 minutes). She also gave me some names of Bach Flowers to chant.
I agreed to do it, and by the time I was mixing the pills in water, I received a call from Shobana and what she told me then is still unbelievable to me.
What had happened on the other end is that Shobana had called up Balakumar to discuss my problem. She was stunned after hearing what he had asked her.
A single question whether I was overlooked on any issue – overlooked or neglected. Something that needs to come to me has not come to me, but it had gone to others.
Shobana replied ‘yes’, since I had discussed with her three days ago on my onsite opportunity. She was surprised since this incident was not discussed with Balakumar.
Moreover, he mentioned that this is the reason for my suffering. He explained that my body wants me to “let go” of the fuming inside me.
And through Shobana, Balakumar advised me to continue dipping my fingers in Rescue Remedy and chant ‘Gentian, Pine and Rescue remedy’ thorough out the night.
When she rang up to me and explained her discussion with Balakumar, I was speechless with shock, since how beautifully our mind-body relationship is established.
What has happened then is a Miracle!!!
After 30 minutes of dipping the finger in Rescue Remedy water, my pain got reduced a little bit. I went to sleep by chanting the Bach Flower remedies as advised.
Next day morning, when I got up I was heavily relieved from the pain, though the swelling was persisting.
I could go to my office, which I never thought possible earlier night with the level of pain I had.
I called up Shobana that morning and told her the pain has reduced, though the swelling is still there.
In about 2 hours of time, after discussing with Balakumar, she called me and advised me to chant ‘I accept the Divine Will, and wait for the Divine Order’ as many times as I can.
Believe it or not the pain went off completely in two days, and the swelling in about 4 days.
It is a miracle to us, as the pain and swelling in my fingers got disappeared without taking any antibiotics and pain relievers.
We (my family) thank Balakumar and Shobana abundantly from the bottom of our hearts, for helping us in many different ways in our lives.
Give Love! Receive Good Karma!
An old couple living in Chennai had to look after their granddaughter.
Their daughter – the mother of the child had gone to US on an assignment.
We would always ask the following questions in these types of situations, “Does she have to go to US for the sake of making money? Does she have to leave her child like this without taking her along?” We really do not understand the priorities of the parent(s) here.
The grand mother, soon after developed a severe swelling in her left hand. I prescribed her Willow: for having resentment, “Why should I take care of the child instead of her mother”, Walnut and White Chestnut: pain was continuous. After taking the remedies over a period of a week, the pain reduced only a little bit.
I asked her the question since when she had developed the swelling. She remarked, “One week after my daughter had left for U.S. She had left happily, while I have to take care of her child here.”
What is the body is trying to convey to her now? (Left hand is the receiving hand) It is saying, “This is an opportunity for you to receive. For the same reason you have to say thanks to your daughter. Understand her priorities. Do not blame her actions. Forgive her. Affirm that you will understand her priorities.”
She affirmed and almost 50% of her pain reduced.
How can this be an opportunity? It is a Divine Order to take care of the child. The child may pick up her health thanks to the new environment. We do not know what the divine plan is. However, her body had found the Divine Order.
I asked her to thank her daughter. I gave her the affirmation, “This is a good opportunity for me to show love on the baby. By giving love to the child, I am sure to receive Divine Love and Divine Grace. I thank the god who is behind all the life events. He is the one who holds the strings. I am happy and grateful to him.”
Within a few days, she became free from the pain totally.
Explanation
Why she needs to release her resentment on her daughter?
It would have been much easier for her to go to the hospital and heal her swelling. However, she would have failed to learn the above-mentioned spiritual lesson(s).
Now having understood the Divine Will behind the incident, she will definitely receive Punniyam (Tamil word for good karma, blessing and grace).
This would get her good blessings during this lifetime. In addition, she will probably have an easy and a painless death. Who does not want a painless death?
Move UP
Sundar is in his mid thirties.
Suddenly he developed a back pain. This happened after two of his business partners left him for the business is not doing well.
They had taken some loans. When the partners were around, paying back the loan amount was difficult. How he will pay now singlehandedly?
That fear crippled him and then he developed lower back pain. He was bed ridden for one month. He consulted some doctors though the results were not good.
The Source of the Pain
I asked him when the pain increases and when it decreases.
Interestingly he had giddiness while coming down the staircase, and not while going up the staircase.
See how body is giving such a wonderful message here.
- When coming down, he was feeling giddy. The message is, “You feel that you are not in your control. Somewhere you feel you are losing control”.
- There is no pain, while climbing up the stairs. His body is saying, “Hey! You can move forward, and go up (move up)”.
Body says men may come men may go, but you can go on forever.
Explanation
Message of the body to Sundar is, “If you are ready to face the situation, you can do well”.
When I de-coded his body’s message for him, he was so happy and walked out of my office confidently.
Cholesterol
Reasons for a bad Cholesterol
In a world of good cholesterol and bad one, LDL cholesterol is the bad boy of the two. LDL collects in the walls of blood vessels, “blocking” the blood flow.
LDL, or “bad,” cholesterol is found in the bloodstream, and eventually causes clogged arteries if it is not taken care of.
Excess cholesterol builds up as fatty deposits or “plaque” in your arteries.
Plaque buildup reduces blood flow through your blood vessels making your heart work harder and increasing your risk of heart disease and stroke.
Apart from lifestyle, heredity, whatmental state increases LDL Cholesterol?
Some of the expressions which may increase LDL and decrease HDL:
- Somebody is blocking my life
- Parents have spoiled my progress
- Someone’s evil eye is the cause of my problems
- My mother-in-law, sister-in-law prevent my joy and happiness
“Block” is the key word
- There is something wrong with me
- I am not destined to progress
- I am born to feel sad
- There are always blocks…
Compensatory Behavior
- The person is irritated, impatient
- Unable to find time to eat
- Hurrying up for everything is their behavior
How to handle it?
Remedies
Take the flower remediesAGRIMONY, GENTIAN, WILLOW, CRAB APPLE, and IMPATIENS
Agrimony opens up the “covering” of cholesterol deposit.
Gentian and Crab apple will help remove the blocks in the mind and vessels.
While Willow brings in joy, helping one to forget and forgive which in turn improves blood circulation.
Impatiens will make one slow and careful.
Gem Remedies: Green Aventurine and Magnesite
Power Life Symbols
Love and Joy (66 and 67)
Switch words
“ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE”
“SLOW CARE”
“ALLOW DIVINE”
Attitude
Thanks, Forgiveness, Surrender to the Divine
EFT/Tappingstatement
“I accept LDL level to ADD HDL blood levels.”
ADD is a switch word
Reiki Past-Life Healing
Release your memories and your parents’ memories of the above mentioned mental states.
Affirmation
“I CLEAR LDL cholesterol NOW CIRCULATE.”
CD
Rhythmic circular breathing can help.
Remedy Packs from Centre
A combination of flower and gem remedies is available, to reduce LDL Cholesterol.
Herbal Products/Remedies/Alternative medicine like Homeopathy
Homeopathy: Cholesterinum and Fel tauri each 6x.
There is one CARDORIUM PLUS product available at Honey naturopathy hospital which can help.
My body approved my love affair
A girl of 21 years old approached me for pain in her left shoulder which has become immobile.
This girl loved a person from a different caste. She was forced to stay in the house as their affair was not approved by her father.
I asked her to tell her background and narrate on what happened before she had the pain. She broke down and said she is in love with a person and that person is good.
I told her, “Forget about your parents. Let us get an answer from the body. Even if the pain goes by 10%, then the body is confirming it”.
She affirmed, ‘I am not worried about others as I believe that god is guiding me. God is guiding me to marry the person of my choice.’
As she said the affirmation few times, her pain went down quite a bit.
This means her body is favoring the marriage. It says don’t worry about caste. Don’t worry about the approval of your marriage.
God (through your body) is guiding you to marry him. God is approving this marriage, why we need others’ approval. It is not necessary.
I asked her to honor the body by marrying her lover. She is happily married to that person now.
Left Shoulder Back Pain Indicates…
- When you are not appreciated or not recognized.
- When you are put to shame
- When your actions are considered bad, regarded as incorrect, or not approved by others.
You will get pain initially. Then numbness will develop as more and more you go through those feelings.
Son repeats his father’s mistakes
Ravi used to join a new company every year.
Suddenly, his right knee started paining.
I asked Ravi to look in to the past and see whether he was repeating his father’s approach in his profession.
Ravi got his first job when he was of the same age as his father.
His father used to move from one company after another. After some resignations, his father was unemployed until his death.
What does the knee pain is informing Ravi now?
Don’t repeat the mistake of your father. You may end up like your father. Be careful!
Thus we will get many spiritual insights from the body. Body protects us from getting into trouble, by expressing in the form of a pain.
Please note here that body can give positive messages for direction and focus too.
There Need Not Be A Mistake!!!
A patient complained that his father is no more.
He developed pain in the right knee.
I told him mentally to prostrate to his father. This is one way of thanking and acknowledging his father’s contribution to his life.
After doing that few times, within a day his pain went off.
Right Knee Issues
The RIGHT KNEE pain is related to the issues with the father. It may be one of the following:
- Conflict with his father.
- Blaming her father for every problem in her life.
- He may not allow his sister to have a share in the parental property.
- There may be deviation from what the family had stood for.
- Forgotten the promise made to the father.
- Forgo the interest of his father.
- Repeat his father’s mistakes.
- Not utilizing the resources of his father at the right time.
- Deviated from the principle of his father regarding business.
- Dispute over the share of the property.
- One might not be on talking terms with the father.
When does one need to look into these issues – only when there is a pain or when one gets hurt on the right knee?
Then we can say the male guiding self is reminding us.
Don’t tell lies
Naran
Knee bucking means there is an issue with the parents.
Right knee is called “Satyam”. If one tells lies, there could be knee buckling.
Even sometimes we would have told a lie to escape from a situation we don’t like. It may not be so severe but still the body says it is wrong through knee buckling.
If there is a buckling in the right knee then it means that the person is lying.
If there is any problem or buckling in the left knee, it means that the person is doing something unfair. Some Adharma is happening there. Left knee is called “Adharma”.
Separated Relationship
Vidya is married for 25 yrs. Now she has a herniated disk and back pain as well.
On their first night, Vidya told her husband that she is not interested in physical intimacy.
However, they can get intimate only to give birth to a child. Later on, they have to abstain from it.
The husband would have wished if she had told him earlier, he would not have married her at all.
However, God has a reason behind every action. It is God’s Will.
She Imposed Her Will on Her Husband
They had a son and their physical relationship ended as she decided.
She had imposed her will on her husband! In addition, she was separated from him emotionally.
Now after 25 years, around the age of 55, she has the pain.
For the past five years, she has consulted many doctors, but to no relief from the pain.
She had undergone different kinds of treatments and had gone through various types of scans too.
Let Us Analyze Her Case
Hernia means separation.
Back disks are separated as she has separated (alienated) herself from her husband.
Body is telling her now that what she had done twenty-five years ago back is not correct.
It would have warned her even at that young age in the form of pain. She would have taken then some painkillers. As she was young, she would have overcome the pain comfortably.
Unfortunately, at this age, she cannot rectify the mistake.
Therefore, I asked her to do the forgiving exercise.
The Forgiving Exercise given:
She was to write her husband’s name and her name on a piece of paper, and kept it on her left palm.
Then close it with her right palm and affirmed, “I am sorry. Please forgive me. Love, Thanks, and Divine!”
Then she had to visualise sending them both to God’s source, to be healed by its light and love.
Then she was to bring them back from God’s source and affirm, “Love! Thanks! Divine!”
In addition, she had to do the affirmation, “Let this not happen in my next life. Let me then unite with my husband mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually”.
Her Progress Was Miraculous
When I suggested the above, I did not have much hope. However, after one month, she was almost all right.
She learnt yoga. Initially she had difficulties. However, after a few days of Yoga and Pranayama, she gradually gained some improvement.
Now her movements are not restricted. Her pain is bearable as well. She is able to walk joyfully. However, she feels a little bit of pain now and then.
Explanation
Once you realize your mistake and ready to rectify it, then the body adjusts and rectifies the pain with the thinking let this person be pardoned J
Not accepting others
Sathya
My mom’s right leg’s big toe alone is having an intense burning sensation for the past 1 week. What does it indicate?
Naran
She is not able to accept certain people or events about which she is seething inside.
Sathya
Please suggest Bach Flower remedies for that problem.
Naran
Take HOLLY, WILLOW, CHERRY PLUM, AGRIMONY and CRAB APPLE
For anger: HOLLY, WILLOW and CHERRY PLUM
Keeping it inside AGRIMONY
For cleansing: CRAB APPLE