Rule Your Mind
Manifesting desire is it difficult?
X : Manifesting desire is it difficult?
Naran Sir: No, not definitely.
X: I did not get a job of my choice with good salary.
I have tried many companies, but facing only failure.
Naran Sir : Take a paper and write all the reasons Why you did not get a job?
X: Yes sir. I feel dejected, hopeless, valueless and unworthy.
Naran Sir: Write all your feelings and emotions about the problem in the paper.
Vent out everything and empty your mind.
Show the paper in the tap water.
Tear it and discard it.
After emptying the mind,
1. Chant the affirmation “WHY I GOT THE JOB OF MY CHOICE WITH GOOD SALARY” as many times as possible.
(This chanting of WHY statement brings a surprise element to conscious mind.
The conscious mind gets baffled it does not know the answer, stops negative thinking and goes into silence. In silence, these WHY statements act as a command words to the subconscious mind to manifest your desires.
The Subconscious mind is trained to bring the future into the present.)
2. Take a notebook and write WHY I GOT THE JOB OF MY CHOICE WITH GOOD SALARY affirmation daily.
3. Write WHY I GOT THE JOB OF MY CHOICE WITH GOOD SALARY in a piece of paper and keep it under your pillow. Before going to sleep, take the paper and read the affirmation thrice and thank the Divine Mother for giving a job of your choice.
Do this 1, 2, 3 daily.
X: Sir, can we do this exercise for other life situations like to get married, to get promoted or to to get enough money etc.
Naran Sir: Yes. This method can be used.
Ask the question why you did not ……?
Write all the reasons one by one and empty your mind.
After emptying the mind, do exercises 1, 2, 3.
X: Thank you Sir.
Will Household work also contribute to business success
A woman – single mother – consulted Naran on her business.
Client: Am managing both household work and my business.
Doing household is a merely time consuming and I am unable to complete my business work.
Naran:
Main problem is you think that doing household work is not contributory to your business.
Client: Yes, very true.
Naran: Think differently. Every work you do, if you do it willingly, it will definitely contribute to your business.
Client: Whatever I do, I am doing it willingly.
Naran: If you do all the work willingly, end of the day you should not feel angry. Do you feel angry?
Client: Yes, I am feeling angry not for doing household work, but the time lost in doing it.
Naran:
Reframe your thinking. You are not losing the time anywhere.
When you do your household work more willingly that will contribute to your business also. When you understand that, you will do it willingly.
You think household work and business work are different. Do not think them as separate work. Any work you do like cleaning, cooking, washing will definitely bring in an improvement in business also provided you think it is contributing to your business.
Client: I have 3 business deal enquiries. For the past one week I am struggling to find time to respond to them.
Naran: Mentally reply to those enquiries first. Do your household work, complete them and remember to reply the enquiries physically.
Client: Thank you Sir.
Silence Your Conscious Mind Activate Your Subconscious Mind
Naran S Balakumar
We always the questions,
‘Why this problem to me?’
“Why me?”
When you ask those questions, sometimes you might get an answer also.
When you say “why the problem for me only?” you will be in the state of the problem itself.
Whatever the conscious mind says, the sub-conscious mind will pick up immediately.
When you say ‘why I got the money now?”, even if you don’t have money now, the conscious mind cannot object it. So it becomes silent.
When the conscious mind becomes silent, the subconscious mind sees that you get the money.
It will work for you to get the money. That is the reason ‘WHY’ is added.
Why I am pain free?
Why I am free from constipation?
For anything you want, first write as if it happened. Then add ‘WHY’.
Why he agreed to sell the property?
Why did he agree to give my share?
How to Make Your Enemies into Friends
Naran S Balakumar
Lakshmi – goddesses of wealth, is Supreme Delight and Love. How to bring that in our lives?
There is a technique for that. Whenever you feel sad, worried and fearful about money then do the following exercise.
Exercise to change your life
There must be some period in your life where you would have been joyful and happier, and happiness born out of innocence. You would have enjoyed a joy of innocence.
Take that period as well as the current worrying period. Worry can be about anything. We need to interchange them.
There is a technique in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), by which you can immediately shift your emotions.
Visualize a white screen in front of you. That white screen is your brain.
Normally, how brain stores the images? All the worries in life will be in one compartment. Similarly, all the joys will be in another compartment. Likewise, all your anger will be in some other compartment.
Similarly, all persons you like will be in another compartment and those persons whom you dislike will be in another compartment.
Exchange your emotions
Like this, you can segregate all your emotions. Close your eyes. Visualize a white screen in front of you.
Think about the joyful period in the past. You have look in which part of the white screen – in which compartment, you have stored it. Feel the joy within yourself and identify the place it is stored.
Where is my present state of worry, anger, sadness or grief?
We found two compartments. Both of them are in different places.
Bring the worry compartment into joy compartment. You cannot bring it directly. Take a round-about route. Bring the worry into joy compartment and not the other way around.
Now, automatically your worry will be transferred into joy.
There is a period of abundance of money and a period of lack. Sometime you had money and now you don’t have much. Do it once.
By this way, you can turn your enemy into friend.
Power of Switch Words and Mantras
Naran S Balakumar
The Sub-conscious mind creates, while the conscious mind thinks otherwise.
The mind is composed of various parts, where each and every part acts simultaneously.
Misguided Lower Mind
The lower mind or conscious mind is the store house of all our learning – acquired, as we had inherited it from our parents, ancestors and society we live in. It is part of the outer self which thinks that it is separate from others.
It always looks outside, seeks outside and searches outside for gratification, without understanding that it is in the deeper inner self which manifests everything, every person, every event and every situation in our life.
The outer mind never believes the presence of subliminal mind, which is manifesting everything in our life.
The Sub-Conscious Mind Runs the Show
Conscious mind is the tool of the sub-conscious mind; both are parts of lower physical mind. The conscious mind believes that everything is created outside. It waits for other people to help. But, the truth is our subconscious mind creates, carries out (all actions) and is the doer.
The outer conscious mind is only a tool in the hands of the subconscious mind. But the outer conscious mind believes that it is the doer. However, the doer is inside.
Power of Switch Words and Mantras
Switch words or Mantras are the words directed towards the doer inside.
They are accessing the deeper subconscious to do what is required. We need the consent of the sub-conscious mind to make things happen. If the sub-conscious is not doing anything, no one outside can do anything for you.
Pray and chant more till it is moved. Unless it decides or it is made to decide, nothing can manifest outside!
You can pray or chant only. Do that as many times as possible. You cannot create any result. Pray, wait till it manifests. Till such time, concentrate on the work on hand.
How can you make your subconscious mind listen to you?
If you want your subconscious mind to listen to your prayers or request, you have to speak its language – the language that is known to it.
Symbols, Switch Word and Mantras are the only means of communication by which you can influence the subconscious mind.
How to let go unwanted feelings
Naran S Balakumar
The animal spirit guide FROG helps us to let go of unwanted feelings.
Visualise the frog in front of you.
Talk to the frog. Vent out your feelings.
Imagine the frog with its tongue galloping everything and moving away from you.
With every feeling that you express, it takes up and goes back.
Finally, it leaves you.
All the feelings are taken away by the frog NOW.
Break the pattern of getting criticized
Naran S Balakumar
One boss will call a person and bombards her in front of all. Every day, when she goes to the office, she will have fear about the same.
Naran gave her the picture of CRAB.
The person goes to office by car and it takes her one hour to reach the office.
Naran advised her to get down from the car and walk down when she is nearer to office, say 1 km. This is called “DOING DIFFERENTLY” technique in NLP.
Every day we do things in a pattern and it will follow. Break the pattern.
Suppose you are taking coffee after brushing your teeth. Change it. Take the breakfast and have coffee.
She started walking on the road.
Naran advised her to count the no of scooters going on the road while walking. She counted 4 scooters and entered the office.
On that day, the manager did not come at all. She got confident in the technique.
When you have a problem and if you are not able to come out of it, you have to break the pattern.
The next day, she went by auto and the manager was there. But he did not say anything. He called her inside and told her that he realized his mistake and will not find fault with her.
He stopped blaming her in front of all persons.
We invite conflicts by our thoughts
Naran S Balakumar
Our thoughts reach others first
Our thoughts are like scent or perfume that we wear. When we visit a place, before our going, our scent will reach others first.
So, if we start thinking negative thoughts about a person – say he will pick up a fight with me, argue with me and so on, like scent, those thoughts will reach him first.
The moment we meet him, he will pick up a fight with us, as we expected of him.
How do we get out of the thoughts then? If we keep chanting mantras then we will escape from those negative thoughts. Also, our scent –our thoughts, will be a good scent then.
When you apply body spray or powder, chant the mantras, so that scent will take those mantras within itself.
Confuse your mind and manage it
Naran S Balakumar
Imagine your mind and you having a conversation
Let us say you are blaming somebody for your misfortune and you want to come out of this thought.
Ask your mind, “Why are you always playing the role of a victim?”
It might give you an answer.
Counter the answer with another question.
Keep conversing with mind, until it gets tired.
Why you do this?
The mind is not used to questioning until now. It is confused and so the chain of thoughts is broken. Therefore peace reigns inside you.
To RULE your mind, keep asking questions until your mind becomes silent.
How to influence the sub-conscious mind?
Naran S Balakumar
Sub-conscious mind does not go by grammar or sentence. It does not know any of your language. If you want to talk to the sub-conscious mind you can never reach that by grammar and sentences.
That is why all the affirmations fail. No affirmation can produce any lasting result.
It knows only the switch words and mantras or the symbols.