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Allow the child to be a child

UPK 

I want to inculcate the values of politeness and self-control in my 8-year-old daughter.

She keeps getting angry for every small thing and loses self-control. She gets very tempted with all material possessions and never really wants to share with others until forced to.

I am worried that she might land up in trouble with this kind of an attitude in future.

Naran

Don’t teach her anything.

She will come up well. Allow the child to be a child.

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Healing and Happiness Comes to Me in Many Forms

Client

Dear Naran,

Hope you are doing well. I am following your healing techniques, switch words, Lalitham mantras, and bija mantras diligently.

I just wish you to know, that I have a temporary job in Singapore now.

The pay is not so good but “FIND COUNT DIVINE” and “SRINIVASA ARAVINDALOCHANA” has helped me to live in abundance and small amounts of money have trickled through, when I had chanted “FIND COUNT DIVINE”.

For example, one day, I had to shell out on taxi fare, which is too much for my budget. Since, I had no choice, but to spend I started chanting “TOGETHER DIVINE FIND COUNT”.

Immediately, I got a call from a person, who said that he is doing a health-related survey for Singapore government and he will pay me if I allow him to conduct a survey!

It all took about 40 minutes of my time and I was paid for it! I spent for the taxi fare, and the divine heard my pleas through “FIND COUNT…” and compensated for my expenses.

In one of your own blogs, you had mentioned about switch words for job “QUIET CLEAR GO ADD END BRING GIVE TAKE job COUNT NOW DONE” and after chanting, I got this contract job.

I am doing well in my job. FORGIVENESS exercise has mellowed my Boss.

OAK, WALNUT and ELM has helped me to learn new things and also to complete my tasks on time.

Help is pouring from colleagues, because I am totally new to this field and no mistakes are allowed here.

By Divine’s grace, my mental and physical health too has improved.

The mantra “VALLABAM GAJANANAM” has helped me to time manage.

The Bach Flower remedy HORNBEAM has cleared my Monday morning blues.

“RELEASE RESISTANCE TOGETHER DIVINE” has become a family saga! Looks like everyone in the family are aligned with one another and harmonious.

Children are intelligent than their parents

Sree

Whenever I sit to do mudras before sleeping, my daughter too sits with me but does only Thumb with little and ring fingers (Safe and Secure Mudra).

If I request her to do chin mudra she says no and leaves me. So, I stopped interfering in her meditation techniques. Why is she not doing chin mudra?

She sings with me Namashivayam for 5 times, rhythm with or without CD. Durgama also she sings along with the CD if she is awake by then as I play it by 5.30 am.

I can see the changes in her (touch wood). She listens to me, and obeys me when I request her.

She is completing her homework soon. I allow her to watch cartoon only for 45 minutes and she is okay with it. I am happy with her. I did the accepting exercise for her.

Whenever I try to heal her Solar Plexus and Hara chakras she pulls my hand tightly to her body strongly. Do I need to give more time to heal these chakras?

I am also using harmony pack. I can see the difference.

My husband who used to get irritated for helping me in my daughter’s dressing for school, is now helping me, without me asking or requesting.

The left out harmony water I am pouring to Tulasi plant as we don’t have any other plant. And I can see the plant is healthy and growing tall and fresh.

Thank you, it’s all because of your remedies and your blessing.

Explanation

Chin Mudra will keep us awake, while Safe and Secure Mudra will make us have a deep sleep.

Children are intuitive enough to know where they need energy. So she is forcing the mother to give Reiki to those areas.

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Your Agenda Vs Divine Agenda

Naran

Suri walked into my office with a dejected face. He was worried that he is in trouble, for he hasn’t achieved last month’s sales target due to his own personal commitments.

He is worried that his manager will blast him during their next monthly meeting.

I said his worry is based on his own agenda, while the divine’s agenda might be different, He thinks his manager would question about the dip in sales, while divine mayn’t make the manger raise the topic at all.

Instead of expecting to have problem and keeps on worrying about it, he is overriding the divine agenda and mentally forcing the manager to bring the subject.

So, I asked him to stop thinking about the subject, and prepare his usual monthly report that he normally prepares for the monthly meeting.

I also suggested him to chant the names of the Bach Flower remedies, “ELM, OAK, CHESTNUT BUD”.

I gave Elm and Oak to be ready for any unexpected questions and Chestnut Bud not to repeat the mistake once again.

The monthly meeting happened. His boss never even mentioned about the sale’s target and moved onto other issues.

Let us be silent and allow divine to work its agenda.

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How to love parents who are cruel

Grace

My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?

Naran

The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?

While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.

We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.

By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.

In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.

You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?

See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.

When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.

Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.

Grace

Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.

I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).

Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.

Naran

Don’t drag them into your life now.

Unite all the parts.

Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.

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Nothing comes easily

Vijayalakshmi

My husband is not satisfied with the job that he is doing right now and our financial condition is not so good.

Naran

For financial improvement:  CHICORY, GENTIAN and CLEMATIS.

This combination is available as a picture in the centre. You may also download them and paste it in the wall, where you can see them frequently.

Vijayalakshmi

How many times should “CHICORY GENTIAN CLEMATIS” be chanted for?

Naran

One has to have belief in whatever one does. If belief is there, such questions do not arise.

Nothing comes easily.

Divine grace will shower, when there is dedicated effort.

What is a dedicated effort?

It is that effort, which does not allow the mind to think about the result.

When you do as many times as possible concentrating on chanting only, the mind is ready to accept any result and one moves on in life without getting stagnated.

However, questions arising from doubts will keep you in doubts.

Every name and every word given is coming to you from the source of Divinity.

When divine is offering its help, surrender and start chanting as many times as possible and forget you in chanting.

Explanation

To become optimistic and get over the need for necessities: CHICORY, GENTIAN

From ideas into action: CLEMATIS

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Find why I am successful

Deepa

I had spoken with you three days back regarding my loan getting sanctioned. You had asked me to chant “GORSE, WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER”. And I am still chanting it. Hope it will help me.

It has shown some positive results but it is taking time. Kindly help me in getting the process done faster. I will be in trouble if this delays.

Naran

Please add as follows: “GORSE, WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, FIND WHY I got the loan from bank NOW DONE”

Examples

When you ask the question ‘Why’ something has happened, your subconscious mind will find a way to make it happen.

However, allow time and mind to make it happen. Whatever comes the way, follow that route, which will eventually lead you to the result you desire for.

Some of the examples are:

  • “FIND WHY I had a great time at the party”
  • “FIND WHY I  had a successful married life with so and so person”
  • “FIND WHY I am considered as a topper in my college”

Learn to manage your fears

Naran

List out the fears

Think about your unnecessary fears and worries (over which you cannot do anything).

You list out all those fears.

Release them one by one.

Why fear should not be there?

Then fear will not allow you to love yourself.

How that fears can be removed?

You have to address one fear at a time and say:

  •          “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME FIND DIVINE LOVE”  (or)
  •          “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME FIND DIVINE FIBER”.

Meaning of the Switch Word Fiber

“FIND DIVINE FIBRE” means regain the courage in me or regain the trust in me.

When you get fear chant this, “FIND DIVINE FIBER”.

Switch Word Fiber creates a movement, while fear will stop it.

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