Posts tagged angry
Create positives out of a situation
Naran
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
What’s patience?
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Related Posts
Audit your thoughts:
https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/
The Universal Lover:
https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/
Allow the child to be a child
UPK
I want to inculcate the values of politeness and self-control in my 8-year-old daughter.
She keeps getting angry for every small thing and loses self-control. She gets very tempted with all material possessions and never really wants to share with others until forced to.
I am worried that she might land up in trouble with this kind of an attitude in future.
Naran
Don’t teach her anything.
She will come up well. Allow the child to be a child.
Related Posts
He is very aggressive: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/09/04/aggressive-child/
Deep inside a hole: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/07/10/deep-inside-a-hole/
Feel Depressed Due to Menopause
Lavanya
I am going through menopause symptoms. I am aged 46.
I feel very depressed, sometimes too much angry, want to cry loudly on some old issues of family, feel lonely and think that life is useless.
Please help me.
Naran
Take MUSTARD and SCLERANTHUS when you are depressed.
When you are angry, take HOLLY and WILLOW.
Daily take WALNUT, GENTIAN and HORNBEAM.
Explanation
Depression: MUSTARD
Mood swings: SCLERANTHUS
Too much anger: HOLLY
Anger due to resentment: WILLOW
Transition to new phase of life: WALNUT
Sudden regression due to menopause: GENTIAN
Tired due to this new situation: HORNBEAM
Related Posts
Prescription of Bach Flower Remedies: http://reachnaran.com/prescription-of-bach-flower-remedies/
Might be Menopause: https://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/08/05/might-be-menopause/
People around us are mirrors to our personality
R
http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2013/09/06/well-being-of-everybody-concerned/
Kindly explain that all of them are our projections means what?
Naran
The unfinished and unresolved parts of me e.g. my anger or my judgment about others are coming out in the form of other persons.
When you see them you get angry you dislike them you start criticizing them as if they were not yours.
In other words, your own anger takes the human form reminding you about the past unresolved conflicts.
Instead of repeating what we did in the past, giving Reiki is breaking the pattern.
How to handle people who are angry?
Naran
If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.
To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.
The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.
When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.
We can also reduce our Anger.
Can’t say ‘NO’
M
I’m a shy person. I think so. But after marriage I think I have improved a lot.
Sometimes I keep myself last….e.g., if my neighbour says something that I don’t like I’ll not oppose or if my neighbour called my maid without asking me I will not say anything, though I feel bad.
It is like that I keep myself always last. Even when I was younger I did the same thing. I will be the last girl standing in the queue, though I was very good student.
I don’t consider myself. I don’t express myself about what I want.
Naran
Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WILLOW and PINE.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water every one or two hours from morning to evening.
Explanation
A CENTAURY person cannot say ‘No’. Eventually they will develop resentment – WILLOW and feel guilty for saying ‘No’ or for getting angry – PINE.
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Will do anything to manipulate others: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/30/a-reluctant-giver/
Husband is angry, while I am smiling
Sreelu
I am chanting “OM HREEM TAHA” and also giving it to my family members. I feel good.
I am even chanting it holding my husband’s photo and my daughters too, as ours is a short-tempered family. I am feeling a difference in the way we are handling things.
When my husband is angry I am smiling and answering. Sometimes, he is ignoring my comments.
However, I see good results. How many days shall I continue doing this?
Naran
Continue.
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Keep the fire under control: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/04/01/keep-the-fire-under-control/
Real Happiness: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/04/23/real-happiness/