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Looses more marks
Client
Something always happens in her examination. She does lots of silly mistakes or leaves some questions and looses more than 25% marks.
Naran
Why is she doing this?
Is there any fear?
For this problem give her (regularly) CHESTNUT BUD, IMPATIENS and ELM. This can be given during her examination also.
Chant “SLOW CARE” 100 times over a glass of water and give her.
Write “398, SLOW CARE” in a paper and keep it under her pillow.
Explanation
To avoid silly mistakes: Chestnut Bud and Impatiens
For not able to answer all questions: Elm
Retain the answers in memory: Slow Care
Know what to study: 398
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Does karma theory says murderer can go scot free
GA
Thanks for your reply to my previous question. You have advised me to surrender before the ultimate reality. I am trying to do so.
I think you are not from this universe. You are a divine personality. Your words are very powerful – even magical, having a deep impact on my mind and soul.
I am a little bit confused about the theory of karma. As we know, we all are facing good or bad in our lives due to our own good or bad karmas and we should not blame others for our sufferings.
The point at which I am confused is that if someone does some harm to us then we say this is result of our own karma and the person is just a medium.
For an example, somebody kills a man then the man should have definitely done such type of karmic account with the murderer or have done something wrong in the past, for which he has to be punished like this by divine forces.
If it is just the previous account which is settling down now and the murderer is just a medium then murderer should not be punished anywhere not here or not in another world.
And as you say that divine forces compel us to do specific karma as per our nature or prakriti then in this case divine wants the killed man to be punished like this and the murderer is just a divine helper or a medium.
So my question is this that the person who becomes the medium (who is apparently doing wrong karma) in another person’s suffering (as my suffering is due to my own bad karma) will be punished for this by divinity?
If no, is it because he is just a medium? I hope you will show me some light.
Naran
Karma theory is just an explanation put forward. If you want to justify karma theory, it leads you to confusion.
Karma will act upon one, who does not think that he is the tool of divine.
All our reactions and views are happening at the outer mind – the mind that looks outside and assesses. Nothing that affects the outer mind affects the inner mind at all.
Whenever you want an answer, just ask the questions and go inside. Stop analyzing. Be silent. Silence alone will bring the answer.
The inner mind sees what the outer mind does not see. It also does not see what the outer mind sees.
Stop reading books on spiritualism or karma etc.
Related Posts
Karma Vs Free Will: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/08/10/karma-vs-free-will/
How to Handle Your Karma: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/07/17/how-to-handle-your-karma/
Bed-time Ritual: http://reachnaran.com/bed-time-ritual/
Program Your Life Part II
Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-i/
Be with your feelings
Naran
Focus on the feeling, with Adi Mudra.
Say, “Yes, there is … (mention the feeling here, for example, a feeling of sadness)”
“I welcome this … (feeling)”. But, can I let go this feeling?
If you get the answer “yes”, then just say, “I let go of this … (feeling)”
Is the feeling is still there? Ask the mind, “Can I let go just 10% of the feeling?” If the answer is yes, then proceed further and let go another 10%.
Still you are unable to come out of stagnation.
Now, observe your thoughts.
Can I release this thought?
If the answer is yes then say, “I release … (thought)”
If the answer is “no”, then ask another question, “Is this thought useful to me?”
“No.” means you need to let go of the thoughts. Release all the thoughts one by one.
Find out which desire is behind the emotions.
Is it the desire to control or change the person or event, or the desire for approval or the desire to feel more secure? Ask the mind again.
If there is desire to control or change ask, “Can I release the desire to control?”
Yes means, “I accept my desire to control but I let go this desire to control”.
Is there any desire for approval? (Desiring for praise, recognition)
If yes means, “I just release this desire for approval.”
Is there any desire to feel more secure? or is there is any fear?
If yes means, “I release this desire to feel more secure; or i release my lack of trust ”
After some time, there will not be any feeling or thought. Peace dawns. Now take the required action.
Read the final part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/exercises-for-program-your-life/
How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
Related Posts
There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/
Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
Ravi Kiran Ruchi Karan Paripooranan
Like Sun, Shine, and Stay at the Top
Ravi means Sun in Sanskrit.
This mantra heals Tamo Guna (type of characteristic or personality), which stands for laziness, lethargy, and procrastination.
For stability (of life) also, this mantra will work.
When you are not sure of the position in the office, or when you are afraid you will be transferred, this mantra will help.
To open one’s eyes of those who is going on wrong path, this mantra can be used.
This mantra is also for abundance. That is, it will stop the loss. Any loss making business if we keep chanting this mantra will help us to handle it.
I would not say loss would be wiped out completely but first loss will be stopped; then profitability would start coming. Business will also become stable soon after.
Question – When someone is going on wrong path, can we chant for the person – to open their eyes? Can we just say their name and chant this mantra for them?
Answer – Yes, that is right. That is all we can do. Or you can also chant over a glass of water and give it to that person. Any mantra can be chanted over a tumbler of water and given daily.
This mantra is based on Bhagavat Geeta, 16th chapter, 23rd Sloka. Though, in that, these words would not be there. To make one person to go on right path this is the mantra.
All-time Safety
Grace
Referring the blog: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/09/24/why-this-discrimination-against-girls/
Will doing what you have told us create a situation whereby girls are safe in all aspects?
Naran
That is a different question, different answer.
You cannot create any situation. You can handle a situation as per the requirement.
Nobody including men can be safe in all aspects.
When there is fear of something, handle that situation.
Or if the question is asked pertaining to a situation one is facing, I will give solution to handle that situation.
Grace
Okay. Thank you for your response. I understand it better now.
Related Posts
By all means travel safe: http://reachnaran.com/by-all-means-travel-safe/
Why this discrimination against girls: http://reachnaran.com/why-this-discrimination-against-girls/
Office Remedies Part II
Naran
Gain Respect in the Office: WILLOW and WATER VIOLET.
Male domination: women resenting it are in WILLOW state. When the resentment vanishes, the domination will vanish too.
LARCH AND MIMULUS are twins.
MIMULUS is about a third person/entity – for somebody
LARCH is about oneself – no confidence in oneself
Won’t be able to complete – too much to do, a feeling of inadequacy: ELM
First Day in Office: WALNUT – will help us to adjust with the new place and people, WATER VIOLET will get us friends and get the required assistance to get settled down.
Effortless Completion of a Task: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Verify some document: BEECH
I am stuck with this management. The management is wrong by all means. I am stuck with this person even though I don’t like him: WILLOW, BEECH and WALNUT.
Friendly with my own group: I will talk only with people from my region – WATER VIOLET.
On the contrary, if one says people from a particular region/group/country are bad then it is WALNUT.
BEECH and WALNUT will help us to build a rapport among colleagues.
Sacking an associate: I have to fire somebody for some valid reasons. I am in CENTAURY state if I don’t want to hurt them. I am in PINE state, if I feel guilty after firing him.
My inquisitive associate: My associate will dig lots of information from us. He will ask numerous questions. But will not answer to any of our questions: HOLLY, WILLOW.
Not to be disturbed by the colleague: WILLOW, AGRIMONY, CRAB APPLE (to get rid of)
Related Post
Office Remedies Part I: http://reachnaran.com/office-remedies-part-i/
Flowers @ Work: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-work/
Seems like miracles
Client
Dear Naran,
I have written many mails to you and when I don’t get reply, I don’t feel anything because my work is to tell you. I know that from that point on, I am in the grace of your Love and Light in Pink Healing Energy.
Since last six months, though life has been difficult and very depressing, it has been DIVINE ORDER at work.
Main purpose in writing this is to share what seems like miracles…!!!
Even after any horrific experience, which I normally have with my people, I have a deep and sound sleep. I wake up in the morning and remain calm. I am so calm that I cannot remember when I last took RESCUE REMEDY. This is despite so many stressful events on a daily basis – maid, college politics etc. I think I may finally earn my thick skin. J
A day before, God is so great that he didn’t even make me feel any stress over the missing bag. And before I knew of the loss, it was restored! What a divine grace! Else it would have been a great problem.
Every day, when I have some problems, and am not able to reach you or find a solution, I somehow get an answer. I feel it may be just my fanciful imagination, but I am always smiling with my thoughts.
The other thing is that I was very disturbed by a couple of counselling cases. It seemed like a mirror to me and what I saw disturbed me greatly. But I took the learning and told myself, if you learn the lesson then you will be free.
And I am trying to be LOVE as much as possible. I always try and give Reiki to college, students, exams, food etc.
Last but not the least, your trip to Mumbai. It is as if the last unfulfilled wish, God decided to put me out of misery.
Thanks
Related Blogs
Supreme Divine Order: http://reachnaran.com/supreme-divine-order/
What is Rescue Remedy: http://reachnaran.com/what-is-rescue-remedy/
Find small miracles: http://reachnaran.com/find-small-miracles/