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Worried About Losing My Friendship
Client
I have a misunderstanding with a friend of mine. I am not sure, next time when I meet her, whether she will properly talk to me or not.
For the last two days, I have this anxiety. So, I released all my anxiety. Now I feel ok.
However, I am worried, when I meet her next time how she will react and how will I handle it.
Naran
1. Release the anxiety (worry).
2. You are having a desire to keep the friendship going. Release this desire too.
You are only releasing the thought, emotions and desires. You are not stopping the actions (to be her friend).
Here, instead of the enacting the usual drama we create, we simply observe what is happening in our mind. We release and observe the whole incident as a third person.
Which is convenient – fearing about something or releasing?
In the end, we keep the mind blank – free from worries, anger and fears.
What are the ultimate results we gain due to this technique?
As long as we are working from a noisy mind, there will not be any solution to the problem.
By releasing all the emotions (and thoughts and desires) one after another, we are taking one step after another towards a litter-free (mind) zone, where we will be free of our emotions and thoughts.
Then the solution for the problem will be found automatically as that part of the mind (litter free zone) knows how to tackle the problem.
In this technique, we do no prayers.
If my house is full of garbage what will I do?
I will simply clear them isn’t it? When I remove all the clutters in the house it becomes good.
In the same way, I release all the clutters from my mind.
Desire is the motivator behind our actions. For me what is motivating me to seek friendship in my friend? There is a desire for approval operating in it. Release it.
When anything comes inside your mind, Just say, “Can I release? Yes. I release this. I let go this…”
Related Posts
Old One Dies New One Blooms: http://reachnaran.com/old-one-dies-new-one-blooms/
The Driver for Relationships, Desires and Talent: http://reachnaran.com/the-driver-for-relationships-desires-and-talent/
Opening the chakras with mantras: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/opening-the-chakras-with-mantras/
Life situations where Walnut is helpful
Naran
When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT
To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET
Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM
To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)
To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.
To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT
Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT
When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT
Work is not challenging: WALNUT
Puberty: WALNUT
To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS
WALNUT protects our boundaries
First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT
I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT
I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT
The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM
When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT
When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.
The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit).
When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT.
When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)
All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT
He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT
When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT
When anybody is merciless: WALNUT
When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT
Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT
For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT
Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy.
Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT
If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)
If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT
To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT
Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time
Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child
The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self).
Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy.
Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.
Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT
Give the remedies always separately.
In Nutshell
The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!
Life situations where Walnut is helpful
Naran
When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT
To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET
Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM
To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)
To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.
To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT
Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT
When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT
Work is not challenging: WALNUT
Puberty: WALNUT
To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS
WALNUT protects our boundaries
First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT
I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT
I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT
The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM
When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT
When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.
The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit). When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT. When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)
All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT
He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT
When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT
When anybody is merciless: WALNUT
When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT
Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT
For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT
Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy. Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT
If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)
If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT
To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT
Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time
Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child
The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self). Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy. Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.
Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT
Give the remedies always separately.
In Nutshell
The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!