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Escaped From a Cheater
Case History
The marriage was fixed for Priya.
The boy was working out of London. They used to keep talking for long hours on the phone for almost three months.
One fine day, the boy says that his father might oppose to his wedding as Priya belongs to a different sub-sect, even though from the same caste.
This made the girl and the mother doubtful about the boy and consulted Naran S Balakumar.
He told them to keep the Bach Flower Remedy SWEET CHESTNUT in the North East corner of the house and advised her to take it also.
Three days later there was a phone call from London saying that it is the boy’s wife who is talking.
She told Priya not to agree for the wedding. The boy is a cheater. He has done this to many girls and she is one of his victims.
After this telephone conversation, they verified and found out that it was true.
Sweet chestnut saved the life of Priya.
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Thieves cannot escape: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/07/24/thieves-cannot-escape/
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Chain snatching: https://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2013/09/13/chain-snatching/
Find solution at work
Radha
I have had good success with “FIND DIVINE ORDER” when travelling and to a certain extent in my work.
However, sometimes I get stuck in my work and cannot find a solution.
Naran
To find a solution, chant “WHITE CHESTNUT”.
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Reduce Your Pain
V
My husband is having severe pain in left leg (thigh), since last 3 days and its increasing day by day.
Naran
Chant “CALM BEAR DIVINE GLORY” over a glass of water and give him.
Explanation
The switch words will help one to CALMLY BEAR the pain, thanks to the DIVINE and heal the attention, you needed (GLORY).
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You can handle all your pains: http://reachnaran.com/you-can-handle-all-your-pains/
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Can’t say ‘NO’
M
I’m a shy person. I think so. But after marriage I think I have improved a lot.
Sometimes I keep myself last….e.g., if my neighbour says something that I don’t like I’ll not oppose or if my neighbour called my maid without asking me I will not say anything, though I feel bad.
It is like that I keep myself always last. Even when I was younger I did the same thing. I will be the last girl standing in the queue, though I was very good student.
I don’t consider myself. I don’t express myself about what I want.
Naran
Take the flower remedies CENTAURY, WILLOW and PINE.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water every one or two hours from morning to evening.
Explanation
A CENTAURY person cannot say ‘No’. Eventually they will develop resentment – WILLOW and feel guilty for saying ‘No’ or for getting angry – PINE.
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When problem source is not known
Naran
Let us see how to dissolve our karmas through Bija Mantras.
There is a problem. However, source of the problem is not known. Karma is the only source. There are no other sources.
Irrespective of the karma or reason behind the cause of the problem, how we can remove it?
Contain the karma
Let us see the meaning of the Bija mantras OM LUM NAMAHA and OM VUM NAMAHA.
Lum means earth – a vessel, say an earthen pot. It denotes earth element.
We put water into the pot. Water element is always connected with our Karma. Through water element our desires are created. Because of our desires we get problems.
What is the source of desire – Water? So, I put water into the vessel. It means my karma is contained in the vessel.
How to remove the karma?
OM RUM NAMAHA – by fire element, we can remove it. This comes from Manipura Chakra. It will vaporize the water. When the fire burns, the water vaporizes.
The vaporized water will go into space – the universal energy – turning into light and love.
When the cause is put in the earthen pot and burnt, the water or karma is vaporized and transmuted into space and light. This is the way to resolve our karmas.
So, if we cannot resolve a problem then we can chant, “OM VUM NAMAHA OM LUM NAMAHA OM RUM NAMAHA OM YUM NAMAHA OM HUM NAMAHA”.
If I do so then we mean,
Om Vum Namaha – the cause of the problem or karma
Om Lum Namaha – I put it in the earthen pot
Om Rum Namaha – which I burnt it
Om Yum Namaha – it gets vaporized into space and
Om Hum Namaha – changing into light and love
How to combine with intention?
For this problem I don’t know the cause. So I am using this technique to solve it.
I visualize the problem, which I am putting as the cause of the problem inside the water contained in the pot and then I burn the pot with fire.
After I finished visualization, I can chant the mantras.
Detach Emotionally
Ravi
I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.
I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.
I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).
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How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
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Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
Speak with confidence
SK
Please guide me on Bach flower to gain confidence and self-esteem.
I am very afraid to talk on the phone & cannot order at fast food places. I cannot say anything no words come out of mouth.
Even kids make fun of me and laugh at me as I speak with no confidence.
Naran
Take the flower remedies MIMULUS, LARCH, and PINE each two pills three times a day.
Explanation
Afraid to talk/fearful: MIMULUS
Lack of confidence, especially for mid-life crisis: LARCH
Low self-esteem: PINE
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