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Winning Switch Words Part I

10 years ago

by admin in Switch Words

Naran

Switch Word(s)	Description
ADJUST	To adjust comfortably to a situation
BE	Be in good health
BOW CONCEDE	To surrender to the situation that is unsolvable and eventually win over it
BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE	To stop in-fighting within the house/ team
CANCEL	Cancel your worries/ behaviour/ tendencies
CLEAR	Clear your obstacles
CHANGE	Transition to a new situation/ environment, new place
CHANGE DIVINE ORDER	Restoring your health, Reduces painCreate a peaceful atmosphere Clean up garbage Change to divine order
CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE BE FIND DIVINE ORDER NOW DONE	To be in optimal health
CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER	Manage un-manageable situations
CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE	To shower/ find love among your friends, family and relatives
CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE LOVE WITH <name of the person>	To improve your communication and love with a specific person (say the name of the person after the switch words)
DIVINE	By magic
DIVINE ON	Excel in studies/ job
DIVINE ORDER	To find order in a situation, to make everything fall into place
DONE	Get it done, and complete a task
ELATE	To get an upbeat mood

ADJUST atmosphere BE behaviour BOW CANCEL centre change clean CLEAR comfortably communication complete CONCEDE create Description DIVINE Divine order done ELATE environment Excel family find friends garbage get good health house I improve in-fighting job love magic make manage mood name Naran new now obstacles on optimal order over pain Part peaceful person place reduces relatives restoring shower situation Specific stop studies Surrender Switch words task team tendencies to TOGETHER Transition un-manageable unsolvable up upbeat win Winning with worries

Roles People Play

10 years ago

by admin in Together Relationship

Reddy

Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.

At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.

In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.

However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.

In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.

However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.

At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.

Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.

Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.

Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.

Naran

Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.

What is that we lack in any role?

Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?

The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.

BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.

What are the negative mental states of Beech?

Unable to understand other man’s point of view
Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
Intolerance
Fault-finding
Desire to control or change the other person

If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?

BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.

WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.

For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.

“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.

Rushrush

Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.

I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….

I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….

I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!

Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……

2 absorb act addiction adhered advice analyse angle answer appreciate Ask Bach flower based BEECH between book bridge CENTAURY cents change changed choice clashes communicate communication control cut decisions desire dharmic different difficult do END everyday explained expressions extreme Fault-finding flair follow forgets friend Friendly gap GIVE GO guidance Happiness healthy HEART HELP holy home how hurt improving inherent Intolerance kids lack life’s like man’s management Many mental mind misunderstandings name Naran need negative negotiating objective occur of off office other out outlook over parent Part participant people perception person place play point preaches priorities problems process Professionalism Protect question REACH read recommendation relationship remedies remedy required resulting right roles same Seeking site situation Solve sorting stand states stepping strong subordinate suffer Take teacher telling terminate Think through times to tool topics TORN two unable understand Vasanas view WALNUT want ways What work worth

Waiting for a Call

10 years ago

by admin in Mudra Healing

Naran

When you are waiting for a call from a person, you can be in the Movement Mudra and you can chant, “BETWEEN DIVINE”.

The switch words BETWEEN subconsciously connects you to that person.

Benefits of Healing Throat Chakra

10 years ago

by admin in Reiki

Naran

This is the fifth chakra. It is also called as the Communication Chakra.

This chakra is connected with our lungs, larynx and throat. It is our communication channel. It takes care of our communication and determines how we relate to this world.

If I speak with love, then others will speak with love

When we hear good things, it will expand. That’s why Satsang (group of good thinkers) is important.Speak well and hear good things are the messages of this chakra.

Keep silent as when you open your mouth only bad stuff come out. Though, when there is love – thanks to good functioning of Heart Chakra, only good and kind words will come out.

When we talk, more energy is lost. The best way to get energy for the Throat Chakra is to do listening.

Only when we listen, we will know which is divine and which is not. While listening we will know the power of divine. Therefore, ‘listen properly’ is the message from Throat Chakra.

More silence more energy

There is a saying, ‘Mounam Sarvartha Sadhagam’, which means silence is a big tool. In silence, we get more energy. Guru is silent. Through silence we communicate so many things.

To know divinity and to know what to do we have to remain silent. It also means silence in thoughts. There is no point in having continuous thoughts in your head and say “we are practicing silence”.

When I need to communicate then?

While remaining silent if it still creates problems, then if we open our mouth there will be more problems. Communicate appropriately is the message from Throat Chakra.

You told your son one hundred times to study well. Yet he did not listen.

Therefore, your communication has failed to serve its objective, which is to make him understand. If he hasn’t, then why should we keep advising?

Right communication should be preceded by silence. Therefore, practice it!

Your talents will be known to the world

Throat and Hara Chakras are connected.

When our talents are not known to the world then it shows the Throat Chakra is not functioning well.

When you want the world to know about it, give Reiki to the Throat Chakra as well as Hara Chakra (keep one hand in Hara and another in Throat).

Then your talent will be exposed, recognition in office (in outside world) will improve.

To get the right appreciation, give Reiki to your Throat Chakra.

Thanks to throat we will communicate better. Our lives also get better, for all our relationships get spoiled because of miscommunication – in all misunderstandings, we need to balance the Throat Chakra.

Communication with girlfriend

10 years ago

by admin in Love and Harmony

GKD

I have been reading your blogs since past 3-4 months. I’m amazed with your switch words and Bach remedies. Please help me with my relationship.

My girlfriend broke with me 3 months back because of money issues and problem with her father.

Give me a switch word for getting her back. At least I want to start communicating with her. She is not taking my calls.

NARAN

Chant “BOW CONCEDE, RELEASE RESISTANCE, TOGETHER DIVINE” as many times as possible.

Explanation

To be ego-less, while communicating with your girl-friend: BOW, CONCEDE

Remove internal resistance that stops you from having a harmonious relationship: RELEASE RESISTANCE

Basic mantra for harmonious relationship: TOGETHER DIVINE

Improve your English communication

10 years ago

by admin in Self-Care

Madhavi

My English communication is very poor.

Naran

Chant “TOGETHER CERATO BETWEEN NOW”

Explanation

To improve communication between any two individuals: BETWEEN

Learn a language: CERATO

Lock Jaw

10 years ago

by admin in Help for Health

Paresh

Can you give me Bach flowers remedy for lock jaw, and to improve my speech and communication skills?

Naran

Take two pills of WHITE CHESTNUT, SCLERANTHUS and LARCH

Life situations where Walnut is helpful

10 years ago

by admin in Bach Flower Remedy

Naran

When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT

To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET

Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM

To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)

To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.

To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT

Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT

When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT

Work is not challenging: WALNUT

Puberty: WALNUT

To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS

WALNUT protects our boundaries

First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT

I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT

I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT

The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM

When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT

When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.

The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit).

When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT.

When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)

All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT

He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT

When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT

When anybody is merciless: WALNUT

When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT

Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT

For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT

Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy.

Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT

If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)

If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT

To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT

Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time

Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child

The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self).

Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy.

Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.

Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT

Give the remedies always separately.

In Nutshell

The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!

‘PILLAYAR SULI” 7.5 about addiction afraid against AGRIMONY Allergic Ancestral Animal. Spirit antonym any approachable atmosphere attack attend attract attraction avoiding Bach flower balance BEECH begin beginning big bleeding blessings blooms book boundaries caring challenging CHERRY PLUM CHESTNUT BUD Chicory child children class co-operative communication Completion constancy criticize criticized cry Defense delay demanding divorce during easily easy END ended exam fail father feel fight find first flies Flower form Friendly friends from future gem generous get GIVE goal greedy half-done hand happening Have healing HEATHER HELP helpful helping highly hinders Hindrance HOLLY HORNBEAM how hurry IMPATIENS in influenced info insects Interview invokes is itch KIND know LARCH life like Lord Ganesha make marriage means merciless mobile phones Naran new Not Nutshell OAK obstacles Obstruction of offended on parents passport peers person PINE possessive prevents Program promised promotion property protects Puberty re-establish reapplying Reconciling refrain rejected relaxation remedies remedy remover request RESCUE REMEDY resistance revolts ROCK WATER same Saturn SCLERANTHUS second self selfish sensitive separately Sharing situations smell son speaking spoiled Stability start stiffness stingy stop strict strong symbol Tamil tantrums task teenage temper temptation tensed Tension Therapy throw time to Transition treated tree TV type uncomfortable unreasonable up Uphill verbal VIP’s WALNUT want watching WATER VIOLET well where WILLOW withholds Wolf work worried Write years Yellow Sapphire

Adjust to Improve

10 years ago

by admin in Bach Flower Remedy

Naran

Adjust and Change means improvement. If there is no development or improvement: WALNUT

Want to improve handwriting of children: WALNUT

For total communication with the body and to enable child bearing: WALNUT from the first day of marriage. As giving birth is a transition and a change. If there is no physical problem, then Walnut is the remedy for two bodies to unite and give birth to a baby, with help of Divinity.

To adapt or Adjust, one has to be flexible to difficult circumstances, free from rigidity (unable to change), and adamancy. For rigidity and adamancy WALNUT is the remedy.

In an exam you want easy question paper (I don’t want a difficult question paper): WALNUT

When there is a hard person too difficult to deal with – a hard nut to crack: WALNUT.

Life situations where Walnut is helpful

10 years ago

by admin in Bach Flower Remedy

Naran

When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT

To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET

Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM

To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)

To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.

To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT

Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT

When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT

Work is not challenging: WALNUT

Puberty: WALNUT

To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS

WALNUT protects our boundaries

First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT

I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT

I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT

The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM

When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT

When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.

The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit). When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT. When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)

All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT

He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT

When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT

When anybody is merciless: WALNUT

When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT

Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT

For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT

Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy. Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT

If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)

If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT

To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT

Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time

Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child

The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self). Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy. Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.

Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT

Give the remedies always separately.

In Nutshell

The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!

‘PILLAYAR SULI” 7.5 about addiction afraid against AGRIMONY Allergic Ancestral Animal. Spirit antonym any approachable atmosphere attack attend attract attraction avoiding Bach flower balance BEECH begin beginning big bleeding blessings blooms book boundaries caring challenging CHERRY PLUM CHESTNUT BUD Chicory child children class co-operative communication Completion constancy criticize criticized cry Defense delay demanding divorce during easily easy END ended exam fail father feel fight find first flies Flower form Friendly friends from future gem generous get GIVE goal greedy half-done hand happening Have healing HEATHER HELP helpful helping highly hinders Hindrance HOLLY HORNBEAM how hurry IMPATIENS in influenced info insects Interview invokes is itch KIND know LARCH life like Lord Ganesha make marriage means merciless mobile phones Naran new Not Nutshell OAK obstacles Obstruction of offended on parents passport peers person PINE possessive prevents Program promised promotion property protects Puberty re-establish reapplying Reconciling refrain rejected relaxation remedies remedy remover request RESCUE REMEDY resistance revolts ROCK WATER same Saturn SCLERANTHUS second self selfish sensitive separately Sharing situations smell son speaking spoiled Stability start stiffness stingy stop strict strong symbol Tamil tantrums task teenage temper temptation tensed Tension Therapy throw time to Transition treated tree TV type uncomfortable unreasonable up Uphill verbal VIP’s WALNUT want watching WATER VIOLET well where WILLOW withholds Wolf work worried Write years Yellow Sapphire

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