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Detach Emotionally
Ravi
I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.
I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.
I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).
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How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/
Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/
Solving mathematical problems
AA
What should a student do who gets disturbed if he is not able to solve one sum out of 10 sums in practical papers? He also gets one step wrong in each sum.
Do you have some solutions to deal with practical exam papers?
Naran
What for you want remedies? Not to get disturbed? Or for putting sums rightly?
AA
In practical exams like Maths, if 10 sums are asked, the student solves 9 sums but at least one step he does wrong in each sum and then one sum he lefts totally.
Finally, he gets depressed or disturbed by that thinking he has not given 100% in paper.
Naran
If one does not understand the basics of Maths MUSTARD flower remedy will help him understand the subject well.
Unable to learn from the mistakes is CHESTNUTBUD.
The combination of Mustard and Chestnut bud will make any one understand and learn the subject well.
Any student will regret the mistakes he committed in the exam. Not to regret, is HONEY SUCKLE.
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Exam results are great
Client
I am chanting for my son Ambika Mantra and I used the circle technique for him, for the exam.
Exam results are great, with good score, 7 A’s for all the subjects.
I did the same for my daughter. Her score is average, as I can see she didn’t prepare with 100%. She feel restless and laziness. She always complains lazy to go to school.
What should I do for her to do better for the Midterm exam, which will be tougher?
Naran
Write “398” and keep it under her pillow.
Related Posts
Difficult to understand questions: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/10/08/difficult-to-understand-questions/
Get the questions you studied: http://reachnaran.com/get-the-questions-you-studied/
Ambika mantra helps students to perform better: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/16/ambika-mantra-helps-students-to-perform-better/
Misled by a fraudulent lawyer
Jayshree Ahuja
I was misled by an erroneous/fraudulent lawyer to take some steps for a court case…However not only did the case fail. It has in fact boomeranged against me…
Now, I am requesting the lawyer to return the fee paid to him as he has worked against me. Kindly share with me the Switch Words to make him realize that I am not at fault.
Naran
Chant “BEECH WILLOW PINE”.
One thing you should understand is whether the lawyer wins the case or not, he has to be paid for his work.
Jayshree Ahuja
Reason, I am asking him for the money is because he knew that I already had a case running.
I had told him that he shouldn’t be doing another FIR for the same case as it was obvious that it would go against me and I warned him of it…
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise and pay him.
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Marriage Miracle in a Hurry: http://reachnaran.com/marriage-miracle-in-a-hurry/
Court Cases: http://reachnaran.com/court-cases/
Regained my faith: http://reachnaran.com/regained-my-faith/
Play life like a game
Naran
You should play life as a game – as Lord Krishna did.
How can you do that?
Activate his resource by tapping it (EFT). Affirm, “I choose to see life as a game as Lord Krishna has seen it”.
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Reach destination on time
Yasoshree
6 months before my family has shifted to new place near Bhubaneswar. Every day, my husband faces the problem of getting auto rickshaw due to poor road conditions.
The auto driver charge more than usual fare taking advantage of this condition and my husband have fight with them regarding auto fare.
Due to all these happenings, he reaches office lately.
Please suggest any remedy for my husband so that he will not face problem of getting auto and reach his destination on time.
Naran
Call WOLF for getting the auto.
While sitting in the auto ask him to chant MIMULUS.
The Bach Flower Remedy Mimulus chanting will help one get the right fare
Priya
Call the Animal Spirit Guide before getting out of the house and request the Wolf to help your husband get to the office on time….the WOLF will do miracles.
Sunita
Hi Priya,
You are right. I too found the wolf very helpful while travelling many a times to new places. Thanks
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Remedy for Swine Flu: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2009/08/25/remedy-for-swine-flu-news-letter-for-the-week-23rd-august-2009/
Simple ways to meditate Part I
Naran
Meditation is an experience that nobody can teach you.
Neither can we go to deep into meditation suddenly as it’s a practice and a habit that is formed over a period of time.
Meditation means, to remain silent. Though, thoughts keep appearing.
If any thought is present then it’s not meditation. How to remain thoughtless though?
Remaining silent with releasing techniques
How to remain silent in spite of thoughts?
Mind can cling to picture or a mantra.
Do we have a mantra for silence? There is no mantra for silence.
However, there is a technique to create silence. The technique is as follows:
- When a thought comes don’t resist it. Say inside you, ‘this is my thought’. Thus, you disassociate yourself from the thought.
- Then ask the question to yourself, ‘Can I let go this thought?’ It will go. You can also say “release”. Then it will go.
- Now, there will be at least a one second gap between thoughts. This is equivalent to one hour of meditation. In general, we never have a gap between thoughts. In general we might have ten thoughts in one second.
- If you do not want the “let go” step, then form your own mantra or word. When we say that mantra, we create a gap between the thoughts.
- When a thought comes, interrupt it with the mantra and you will become silent. When another thought comes, say the mantra. The silence in between the mantra is meditation.
Need for pranic and physical bodies to be in coordination
Our pranic body and physical body have to be in coordination. Otherwise, we can’t meditate.
If we regulate our breathing pattern or do pranayama then they will be in coordination.
This is because both breathing and prana have the same origin. When breathing is regulated, prana is regulated too.
Pranic body has to be clear of impurities
When the pranic body is clean, then the meditation can be done successfully.
Why so much impurities in the pranic field?
It’s due to the mind. My own sadness and worries create these impurities. With the help of pranayama, one can clean these impurities.
Read the second part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/simple-ways-to-meditate-part-ii/
Chicory
The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory
Key words
Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention
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