Posts tagged EFT
How to tap the resource of an expert
Who may be dead too…
Naran
“I choose to understand math as I understand comics”.
A child did EFT/Tapping like that and did well in her math exam.
However, be specific about the resource we require — like math intelligence of Ramanujam and don’t say “I need the intelligence of Ramanujam” as then we might acquire a quality from him that may not be to our liking.
Say instead, “I choose the math intelligence of Ramanujam”.
Related Posts
How to use the resources of Lord Krishna: http://reachnaran.com/play-life-like-a-game/
Recovered from fever
Mangala Ayre
I was In Delhi on the 24th of June to attend Air force functions. We stayed in the Air force Mess at race course.
On arrival on the 24th, a friend staying in the next room developed fever/ cold and stomach cramps.
I gave her Bach Flower remedy Rescue Remedy and Vitality Mudra (ring finger and little finger touching the tip of the thumb on both the hands) for fever, as well as tapping and affirmation.
She recovered within a day.
Purpose of Tapping
(From Multi-Dimensional Healing June 27 Workshop)
Naran
Simple way of tapping/EFT
Pull the entire 10 fingers one at a time as well as the gamut point (it’s the hollow place between the front little and ring fingers).
For any type of problem, pull each finger and tap on gamut, and affirm “I accept myself totally”.
What does the affirmation means?
It means that I accept my life situation, the event, as well as my feelings and my thoughts.
How to make sure we are not influenced by a situation?
Situation is one percent, our reaction is 99%. It becomes bothersome or problematic because of our own mind.
You are watching an accident on the road. A person riding a motor cycle had met with an accident.
The mother of the person, who was watching it happen, will react more strongly than others. Same event but reactions are different.
Our habit is to react emotionally. If we don’t have connection to the situation, I am not affected. Who gives this link? Isn’t it the mind?
If you do tapping then you will come out of the panic situation.
Why should you come out of the panic situation?
Then you can help, as you have a calm and tranquil mind. You will react calmly and do the necessary. Instead we overreact and spoil the whole thing.
Detach Emotionally
Ravi
I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.
I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.
I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).
Related Posts
How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/
Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/
Play life like a game
Naran
You should play life as a game – as Lord Krishna did.
How can you do that?
Activate his resource by tapping it (EFT). Affirm, “I choose to see life as a game as Lord Krishna has seen it”.
Related Posts
School dropouts: http://healbyeft.wordpress.com/2009/04/02/school-drop-outs/
Rashes: http://togetherhealth.wordpress.com/2013/09/06/rashes/
Find the Right Resources for Success: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/12/18/find-the-right-resources-for-success/
Fear of punishment
A child aged 10 years old, had a meeting with Naran S. Balakumar, regarding a problem that she could not handle by herself.
Naran: What is going on?
Child: I am afraid that my School Principal will punish me, because my friend is accusing me, that I had stolen her money.
Naran: Did you steal the money?
Child: No, I did not.
Naran: Why cannot you convince your principal that you did not steal the money?
Child: No, I will not be able to that. My fear is that tomorrow my Principal will call me during the prayers, in front of all the school students. Then he will punish me, without doing an enquiry.
Naran: What do you want to happen?
Child: This issue should not come up in the prayer meeting.
Naran, S. Balakumar did tapping on her, until she was 100% relieved from her thoughts and fears.
Feedback
For some reason, the meeting did not take place! This will not be a surprise, if you are an ardent EFT user. Such surprises and unexpected things happen, when you use EFT!!
How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
Related Posts
There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/
Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/