Posts tagged feeling
How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
Related Posts
There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/
Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
Without Reiki I am nowhere
Gita
On 14th February 2014 I and my husband successfully celebrated our 20 yrs. of married life. We need your blessings.
I am very happy to mention here that because of Reiki and flower remedies only my life had a meaning now.
Only after I become your student, lot of changes has happened in my life as well as with my family members.
Even though it was slow, it is good. I experienced lot of good things.
Every time, I attend your class, good things happen to me and I am able to propagate the power of divine flowers to my friends and relatives who had faith in it.
I should thank my sister for introducing you as my guru. I can feel myself that my confidence level is grown and health also. Though I look lean, I am strong.
According to my wish, my husband got job at Chennai and my daughter got admission in the group she wished for.
My mother-in-law is not well now but all these years she was taking care of my daughter and me and she is a great moral support to me.
Her breast cancer also got cured without spending lot of money and now she comes to Chennai for few days and goes to her daughter’s house in Mysore.
My husband is also feeling more responsibilities towards his daughter and takes care of her.
All these are due to your blessings and being your student. More than 15 yrs of wonderful spiritual journey I am undergoing. Even though I had ups and downs, they didn’t affect me.
Without Reiki I am nowhere. Daily like eating, bathing, I am practicing Reiki and I thank Reiki energy and to flowers and to you.
Whatever problems come to me, I am able to solve them, and even negative people or situation is not touching me and my family.
I have no words to express my gratitude to you but with my tears I bow to you and respect your spiritual path and I follow you. You have lot of divinity in you.
I wish you good luck and long healthy life.
Thank you once again.
Related Posts
Job satisfaction: http://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/03/03/job-satisfaction/
Tears of joy: http://reachnaran.com/tears-of-joy/
Coming out of LOSS pangs: http://reachnaran.com/coming-out-of-loss-pangs/
Break from the past
Madhu
I am chanting as you say for my relationship. But he is still not talking or feeling as before.
I know love is for giving not for receiving but after losing my 3rd relationship, I have lost my confidence.
This guy again created faith and love in my life but don’t know why suddenly he changed his mind.
So, this time, I don’t want to lose him.
By the way he is a Muslim and lives outside India.
Naran
Chant “SCLERANTHUS, WALNUT, FIND DIVINE LOVE THANKS”
Explanation
SCLERANTHUS and WALNUT are Bach Flower Remedies
To come out of this confusing situation: SCLERANTHUS (confusion) and WALNUT (come out of the past and create something new)
THANKS: gratitude is necessary to make your desires come true
Related Posts
Becoming happy is in your hands: http://reachnaran.com/becoming-happy-is-in-your-hands/
Mental State and Switch Words: http://reachnaran.com/mental-state-and-switch-words/
Coming out of Love Pangs: http://reachnaran.com/coming-out-of-love-pangs/
A good sleep mantra
Mangala Ayre
My mother practices the mantra, “Hare Rama Hare Krishna” daily.
She sleeps well after chanting the switch word “OFF”.
Related Posts
Sleep Well with Mudras: http://healbymudra.wordpress.com/2011/11/30/sleep-well-with-mudras/
Sleep Well Mantra: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/sleep-well/
Office Remedies Part II
Naran
Gain Respect in the Office: WILLOW and WATER VIOLET.
Male domination: women resenting it are in WILLOW state. When the resentment vanishes, the domination will vanish too.
LARCH AND MIMULUS are twins.
MIMULUS is about a third person/entity – for somebody
LARCH is about oneself – no confidence in oneself
Won’t be able to complete – too much to do, a feeling of inadequacy: ELM
First Day in Office: WALNUT – will help us to adjust with the new place and people, WATER VIOLET will get us friends and get the required assistance to get settled down.
Effortless Completion of a Task: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Verify some document: BEECH
I am stuck with this management. The management is wrong by all means. I am stuck with this person even though I don’t like him: WILLOW, BEECH and WALNUT.
Friendly with my own group: I will talk only with people from my region – WATER VIOLET.
On the contrary, if one says people from a particular region/group/country are bad then it is WALNUT.
BEECH and WALNUT will help us to build a rapport among colleagues.
Sacking an associate: I have to fire somebody for some valid reasons. I am in CENTAURY state if I don’t want to hurt them. I am in PINE state, if I feel guilty after firing him.
My inquisitive associate: My associate will dig lots of information from us. He will ask numerous questions. But will not answer to any of our questions: HOLLY, WILLOW.
Not to be disturbed by the colleague: WILLOW, AGRIMONY, CRAB APPLE (to get rid of)
Related Post
Office Remedies Part I: http://reachnaran.com/office-remedies-part-i/
Flowers @ Work: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-work/
Peace always
Alamelu
My husband lost job and not got one. Some days feel pity and some days I feel why I deserve this while all are happy and I have to suffer. We never indulge in anything negative, yet we suffer.
How I keep my mind every day in same status, neither sad nor very happy?
Naran
Write “WILLOW, PINE” in a notebook daily for about 51 times.
Chant “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX”
Explanation
For the mental states – feeling pity (PINE) and why I deserve this, while others are happy – resentment (WILLOW), Bach flower remedies were suggested.
To keep mind balanced always the affirmation QUIET MIND was suggested.
Related Blogs
Peace brings a job: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/03/28/peace-brings-a-job/
Fighting for happiness and success: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/04/10/fighting-for-happiness-and-success/
Found Hope: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/03/29/found-hope/
Imaginary Fears
The fear group consists of four remedies – Aspen, Mimulus, Red Chestnut and Rock Rose.
Fear of imagination
I am giving this story so that you will learn how to use the flower remedy in a particular situation.
There is a newly married couple.
They went for the customary activity of honeymoon. They went to Kodaikanal. The girl couldn’t sleep in the hotel room.
She was trying to put on the lights, while her husband was trying to put off them.
She told him that she can’t sleep without the lights on as it was her practice right from childhood.
And that too in the Kodaikanal, which was 6000 feet above the sea level, when she saw the darkness outside, she felt afraid and needed the lights to be on.
However, as her husband is tired, he slept off easily.
When she put off the lights, she heard a whisper in her ears. She got startled – especially by the darkness outside seen through the windows.
Her fears got increased and her pulse rate became very high. The leaves of the plants grown outside the house looked like ghosts to her.
Again, when she put on the lights, she became normal. Any fear of darkness or fear and worry about ghosts or anything unspecified is ASPEN fear.
It is because in darkness, you always get imaginary fears. All sorts of imagination will happen.
This combination is the standard one I give for ghost busting.
I give this combination also for any unnatural deaths – either by murder, suicide or accident. Then that place will be a haunted place. Definitely, their energy will be present there.
This combination will help them to evolve into the next stage (of life).
If you feel not comfortable about the place or have a premonitory feeling that something bad is going to happen that day, then Aspen is the remedy to address those feelings.
Wherever you couldn’t specify the cause of the fear and say “I don’t know the reason for my fear” – Aspen is the remedy,