Posts tagged forget

Boyfriend’s wedding is postponed

Client

My boyfriend’s wedding had been postponed indefinitely. 10 months have passed since his engagement, but a new wedding date has still not been decided.

Both families are unhappy with the engagement. They are having a lot of problems, but somehow no one is breaking the engagement also.

He says he is still not talking to his fiancée.  I want to know whether he still wants to marry me. I don’t want to be an obstacle for him if he has moved on and I don’t want to be fooled either.

Naran

Forget him and move ahead.

Client

Today my parents told me that they have received a good proposal for me. But my heart is not in it. I love my boyfriend a lot and still want to marry him only. 

Is there no hope for this to work out? Please help to make the situation work out somehow.

Naran

No! Forget him.

Client

Thank you for your divine guidance. Now only, I am realizing the wisdom of your words. I was using Power Life Symbol 46.

After 2-3 days, I found out that my boyfriend had been cheating on me for the last 3 years. He is not planning to marry either me or his other girlfriend.

He has been cheating on his fiancée too. However, he is a very good person in all other aspects of life.

I want to forget him now. I have been listening to the FORGIVENESS and WELCOME CHANGE cds. Please tell me what else I can do.

Naran

Symbol 46 is true love. It has revealed to her whether he is true to her or not.

96-Regain-Employment

96 Regain-Employment

Think about what job you want to have, which you had previously.

The bigger mind or subconscious mind is recording every experience, every emotion.

In the course of time, we forget our own experience and we find it difficult to retrieve what we have achieved.

A person might have been employed before.

To regain it, chant the switch words, while looking at the symbol, “TOGETHER REACH DIVINE JOB COUNT NOW DONE

If you are doing it for somebody, write their name in the empty circle. Looking at the final picture, chant the switch words.

Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance

LLM

My neighbors are very inconsiderate. We live in apartments. The one on next to me filled the corridor with their own stuffs and smelly shoes, make a lot of noise shouting at one end of corridor to the other, openly criticizes us and do damage to our plant tearing the leaves (we only put one pot of plant and door mat at my door and nothing else not even shoes). We only keep quiet, to maintain peace.

The neighbor above us, throw litter into our house and make a lot of noises (such as jumping in wee hours of the night after 12 am), and also hang wet laundry above our laundry. On one case, we even saw a packet of urine caught on our window.

We really don’t know what to do.

Naran

Chant “BEECH HOLLY WILLOW IMPATIENS” over a glass of water and drink it.

Download a picture of PISCES and paste it on your flat door.

Do the forgiving exercise for them.

In the morning thank them mentally for not disturbing you.

Pray to The Mother for keeping these elementals away from you.

LLM

May I ask how many times do I need to chant the flower remedy each time? Do I have to chant everyday or just once?

Do I do the forgiving exercise and thank them everyday also?

The picture of Pisces can be just the symbols or need to have images of fish?

At the last sentence, you mentioned praying to the mother. ‘The Mother’ refers to?

Naran

When the problem comes, you can chant.

Chanting what is given is just an alignment with the divine. Forget your identity. Just merge with the Grace Words which are nothing but divine. Enjoy chanting. Do it any number of times.

These words do not bring about any result. They want you to surrender. Surrender to the divine and start chanting. While chanting do not think about anything.

Download zodiac picture of Pisces, and paste it on the door facing outside.

The mother means Aurobindo mother. That divine mother only knows how to drive out the unwanted elementals. Just say once to her daily.

LLM (after a month)

I can see improvement on the issues with my neighbor next door, no more torn leaves and cleaner corridor.

How to love parents who are cruel

Grace

My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?

Naran

The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?

While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.

We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.

By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.

In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.

You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?

See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.

When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.

Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.

Grace

Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.

I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).

Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.

Naran

Don’t drag them into your life now.

Unite all the parts.

Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.

Related Posts

There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/

Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/

Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/

Nothing comes easily

Vijayalakshmi

My husband is not satisfied with the job that he is doing right now and our financial condition is not so good.

Naran

For financial improvement:  CHICORY, GENTIAN and CLEMATIS.

This combination is available as a picture in the centre. You may also download them and paste it in the wall, where you can see them frequently.

Vijayalakshmi

How many times should “CHICORY GENTIAN CLEMATIS” be chanted for?

Naran

One has to have belief in whatever one does. If belief is there, such questions do not arise.

Nothing comes easily.

Divine grace will shower, when there is dedicated effort.

What is a dedicated effort?

It is that effort, which does not allow the mind to think about the result.

When you do as many times as possible concentrating on chanting only, the mind is ready to accept any result and one moves on in life without getting stagnated.

However, questions arising from doubts will keep you in doubts.

Every name and every word given is coming to you from the source of Divinity.

When divine is offering its help, surrender and start chanting as many times as possible and forget you in chanting.

Explanation

To become optimistic and get over the need for necessities: CHICORY, GENTIAN

From ideas into action: CLEMATIS

Related Posts

Be Smart: http://reachnaran.com/be-smart/

Beyond your expectations: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/08/12/beyond-your-expectations/

Method of Chanting: http://naranshealingmethods.wordpress.com/2013/04/11/chanting-method/

Want to forget everything now

Jayati Banerjee

I got married in 2006. I loved my husband but he had extra marital. The marriage lasted only two months. I want to forget everything now but cannot.

Please help me. I am going into depression.

Naran

Take the flower remedies RESCUE REMEDY, WHITE CHESTNUT, HOLLY, WILLOW, and WALNUT – put 6 pills of each in a bottle of water (200 ml is enough). Have about 5 to 6 sips from that water daily for about a month

Explanation

Manage this unbearable situation: RESCUE REMEDY

By coming out of the thoughts: WHITE CHESTNUT

Anger: HOLLY

And resentment: WILLOW

Once for all: WALNUT

Related Posts

Fear manifests what we do not want: http://reachnaran.com/fear-manifests-what-we-do-not-want/

I am a divorcee, want to marry again: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/i-am-a-divorcee-want-to-marry-again/

It is truly amazing

Sanika

Black Tourmaline truly is amazing!

I have just got one for myself and anytime I have aches and pains in the body and I place it on the corresponding Chakra and pain is gone within few minutes!!!

Overall too, I feel more energized with positivity, don’t feel dull especially due to the seasonal change.

 Another important thing is I have come to notice is that I feel safer and secure with my Black Tourmaline on me, like when I am driving or working late hours etc., because of its ‘Feel Good’ factor.

Now, I don’t like stepping out anywhere without my Black Tourmaline ‘Angel’. Even if I do forget it, I can immediately sense that something is amiss and I am forgetting something 🙂

Thank you Naran for the infinite Divine help!

When troubles pass we forget the blessings

Jay

Dear Naran,

Today, I visited your website after many days and was pleasantly surprised to see the blog back. I looked at some of old mails to you and the way you have responded in my times of need.

It is amazing!! What all experiences and times you have been there with me!!! I have confided in you at times more than anybody else in the world. How much you have given me!!! I love you!!!

I am so deeply grateful for all love and support in the face of the perpetual troubles – big and small. 

Ever since I found your blog, my life has almost invisibly and gently improved for the better. I have had many miracles, many blessings, many glorious experiences and I am so grateful for every one of them until this point.

I look forward by your blessings, the blessings of all compassionate beings, enlightened beings and gods. When troubles pass, we forget the blessings. It’s an eternal human frailty.

So, when I feel a moment of pure gratitude, I want to thank you and not leave in unsaid…god bless you!!

I look forward again to read your blogs. I wish you happiness, health and love.

Do keep your love and blessings on me and my loved ones. LOVE THANKS PRAISE DIVINE

How and why we need to forgive others

For more detailed explanation on Why we need to forgive others and How to forgive others, please refer the book: “Forgiveness How and Why”, written by Naran S. Balakumar.

Jay

I have a problem letting go or forgiving people. Is there any switch word for it?

Naran

If you don’t do the forgiving exercise, you will undergo same emotions, even though situations may be different.

If you do not want to meet or interact with same people in future, Forgiving is the only way.

There is no shortcut for letting go the resentment and anger.

Do not act from ego; have higher perception and think that every event in our life is happening as per our desire. Before taking the birth, I want this life with these people to mend my life. But unfortunately after taking birth, we forget our commitment.  When the situation is created as per our desire, instead of learning lessons and moving forward, we get stuck and we refuse to forget or forgive.

What is the one that prevents you from forgiving? Release that and do it.

I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me. This can be done mechanically without the involvement of the heart.

Jay

Do I just have to fill the name or action that upsets me?

Naran

 “I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me”.

Take a person with whom you are angry. Insert his or her name in the space given above. Chant the same for 200 times a day.

Forgiving Exercise

Affirm, “I (your name) Robert forgive you Ashok (replace with name of the person to be forgiven). You please forgive me and release me”.

Questions regarding Forgiveness Exercise

Nayana

I have two queries related to Forgiving exercise.

I have too many people to forgive in my life, so please guide me how to forgive them with once for all.

I see my husband is having so much resentment in his life with so many people but he doesn’t try to do any of the exercise to forgive and forget. So is there anything I can do on behalf of him, as it’s affecting my life all the time.

Naran

Take a list of all of them. Do the forgiving for all. Take one at a time. Chant 200 times for each.

You cannot do anything for somebody’s sake. What is your predominant thought or emotion when you deal with him? Release that one by one. If one goes, another will come. Release that also.

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