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If What is going to happen will happen, Why to chant?

10 years ago
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Bhavi

In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force. But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.

I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?

Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us, back again to chanting and praying?

Naran

You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.

It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?

After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins. It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.

If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always.

Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.

Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness.  Chanting or healing aims at changing the mind to accept what is happening.

Best of luck!!

Give birth to good children

10 years ago
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Naran

“LALITHAM SRINIVASAM LALITHAM PADMANABHAM LALITHAM DAMODARAM”

This mantra can be chanted by pregnant women, so that they will give birth to good children.

It will build up the relationship between the mother and child.

Thus, for child-bearing, for good foetus growth and for development of good mother-child relationship this mantra is very useful.

Whoever wants to get pregnant can chant this mantra too. It will develop the relationship between mother and child. Especially for single parent, this mantra will be useful.

Related Posts

Mantras Discussed on 4th Sep 2010: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/13/mantras-discussed-on-4th-sep-2010/

Open up to Abundant Love, Life: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/30/open-up-to-abundant-love-life/

Roles People Play

10 years ago
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Reddy

Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.

At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.

In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.

However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.

In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.

However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.

At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.

Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.

Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.

Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.

Naran

Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.

What is that we lack in any role?

Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?

The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.

BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.

What are the negative mental states of Beech?

  • Unable to understand other man’s point of view
  • Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
  • Intolerance
  • Fault-finding
  • Desire to control or change the other person

If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?

BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.

WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.

For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.

“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.

Rushrush

Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.

I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….

I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….

I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!

Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……

Seek the Help of the Universe – Your Friend

10 years ago
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I am jobless and I don’t know who will call me for an interview

  • When you send your CV to a company, imagine the Universe as the postman, who delivers your CV to the concerned person. “Universe I am sending this CV to you. Please deliver to ……(name of the company)
  • Wait for five minutes.
  • You don’t know who will be handling your CV. Imagine yourself as that person. Say within the mind, “I have received this application. I am happy about the qualification of this person. He is the right guy for me” and so on.  He sends a reply back to you through the Universe – the postman, saying, “I would like to meet …….. (Insert your name) on ……. (mention the date)
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Imagine that you are receiving letter requesting you to attend the interview. Send a reply back that you will attend the interview. Follow the first step.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Become the person who is going to do the interview. Whatever the next step that will happen in a typical interview, imagine as though that is happening.
  • Do all the necessary steps that will culminate in you getting a job.
  • Go back to your normal day-to-day life, leaving it (your job) to the Universe to make it happen.
  • Till manifestation of what you want, chant “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX.”

 I am jobless, I was interviewed and waiting for the result

  • You (Ravi) have attended an interview in a company XYX. You were interviewed by let us say by person named James
  • Ask the Universe to convince James that you are the right person for the job.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Take the role of James. Imagine, “Ravi is the right guy for the job. I am going to call him to come tomorrow to give the offer to him”. He passes the message to the Universe to deliver it to you.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Accept the meeting and pass the message through the Universe.
  • Continue the steps needed until it ends in getting you the job, with the salary and the position desired by you.

I am looking for an investor

You have a great business case, but lack money to start the business. Ask the universe to pass your business proposal to the person – who can invest and who is looking for a good business idea. Universe helps you to meet him. Again, use your imagination, figure out the steps and using the Universe, execute one step at a time, by switching to the required role.

How does this work?

Every thought and every word goes to the universe. The Universe is a meeting place of desires, intentions and fulfillment. It is the Main Post Office, where everything is sorted out and delivered to the right person.  It decides what we get, how we get it and when we get it.

That is why one has to quite the mind, open the heart and be relaxed.

Treat Universe as your friend, who helps you to get your desires fulfilled. You don’t need elaborate rules to talk to a friend. Try this simple technique, with your imagination set free, and you are sure to fulfill your dreams.

Some example from ancient Indian literature

In the story of Nalan and Damayandhi, Nalan will ask the Swan to deliver a message to Damayandhi, when they were living in different countries.

In Nutshell

Here, we are asking the Universal mind to reach the concerned person and deliver the required message. In the first case, we don’t know who is going to give us the job, but the universal mind knows. In the second case, we know the person, but we don’t know how to get across the person, for it might be considered as an intrusion.

So, seek the help of the Universe to work for you, be it a job, business or relationship.

Successful IUI Procedure

10 years ago
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Neelu

This month again I’m undergoing IUI procedure for conceiving. Previously in the month of Nov’13, I lost my pregnancy.

For this cycle, I want to prepare myself in advance. The procedure is scheduled for last week of May’14.

Please let me know which switch word I should chant this time for achieving success. This would be my last chance to undergo IUI procedure.

Naran

Chant “CRYSTAL, GORSE, HONEY SUCKLE”

Neelu

I want to share good news with you. My IUI procedure was successful and I’ve conceived. I thank you for your support and blessings.

I need your help, please let me know the switch word for the safety of my child, I don’t want to lose it this time.

I’ve already started listening to your TOGETHER DIVINE CD. Also I’ve asked my father to give me Reiki (he has learnt the same from you).

Naran

Reiki is enough!

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Pregnant after 2 Miscarriages: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/12/16/pregnant-after-2-miscarriages/

Why to chant when everything is destined

10 years ago
by admin in

Bhavi

In the past, I have chanted, prayed a lot, with full faith in universal divine force.

But, I was always told you can’t change anything. What is going to happen will happen? Nobody can change anything.

I still have faith and trust. However, I always had a question in mind then why do we pray and chant the mantras if they are not going to bring positivity to the concerned situation?

Is it fear of something negative happening to us and our family, which brings us back again to chanting and praying?

Naran

You cannot always get what you want. Sometimes, you can get what you don’t want. These are two life rules, which we have to accept.

It is the mind which plays the game. If something does not happen, we wallow; if something happens, we elate. How long is this elation?

After some time, we need something else and again mental emotional drama begins.

It is because we attach importance to the result only and not to the action.

If the action is done, and the result is surrendered, you will remain peaceful always. Ultimately, what we want in life is either peace or happiness. To get happiness or peace is the aim of all.

Surrendering the result to the hands of Divine only can give you peace or happiness.  Chanting or healing, aims at changing the mind, to accept what is happening.

Best of luck!!

Harmony in Family and Office Relationships

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

Switch words for family and office harmony

When you think problems are unbearable or mounting do the forgiving exercise and chant “THANKS TOGETHER DIVINE”

When this ordeal will change – “ADJUST TOGETHER CHANGE NOW DIVINE”

I am constantly worrying over my state of affairs – “MOVE ON FIND DIVINE ORDER”

I feel unloved; lonely; isolated – “TOGETHER GIVE CIRCULATE ME”

When this problem will end – “TOGETHER HALF WAY DIVINE”

He is not listening to me, if my mother-in-law is not there, we can be happy – “GIVE TOGETHER DIVINE LOVE”

He is aggressive – “BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE”

So much frustrated – “OVER / TOGETHER DIVINE”

He is holding a grudge against me – “REVERSE TOGETHER FIND DIVINE LOVE”

What is the solution – “TOGETHER REACH DIVINE ORDER”

Related Posts

Flowers for Harmony in Relationships and Family: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-for-harmony-in-relationships-and-family/

Establishing harmony with a person: http://reachnaran.com/establishing-harmony-with-a-person/

Hindrance to a Peaceful Family Life: http://reachnaran.com/hindrance-to-a-peaceful-family-life/

Stop! Craving for food!!

10 years ago
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Naran

Give the Bach Flower Remedy CHICORY, as greediness is expressed through food. Add it with ROCK WATER and CHERRY PLUM.

WALNUT should be taken separately.

Explanation

Rock Water is prescribed for thinking, “I want to be strict with myself. I want to be self-disciplined”.

Cherry plum is for temptation and Chicory to come out of self-gratification (compensatory behavior).

Cherry Plum is added as they will feel, “I want to control my craving”.

Rock Water and Cherry plum go together, because if somebody says, “I want to control”, then they will lose their control”. 

Walnut is given to form a habit of eating properly.

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Think Differently Says the Rabbit: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/09/24/think-differently-says-the-rabbit/

Mantras for Lungs, Digestion and Back Pain: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/mantras-for-lungs-digestion-and-back-pain/

Addiction to drink: http://reachnaran.com/addiction-to-drink/

Chicory

10 years ago
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The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory

Key words

Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention

Indications

  • They try to attract others attention: for example, infants attract attention by crying when you leave them alone or we try to impress others sometimes by flattery.
  • Will be overeager to help.
  • They get angry, if they find no gratitude from the person benefited by them.
  • Their possessive nature can make the opposite person as a Centaury. Please note here, fear of rejection indicates a Centaury, while the person who instils a fear of rejection on others is Chicory.
  • Chicory will not give anything free – there is a hidden agenda behind every transaction he makes.
  • A Chicory person always attracts the attention of others.
  • Always demanding and expects a great deal from others.
  • He is possessive, extremely interfering, secretly manipulating and easily hurt.
  • He has a feeling of unwanted.
  • Over protection and too much parenting.
  • Constantly concerned with the affairs of the family, always interfering.
  • Behind all Chicory type, there lies a deep lack of fulfilment, often a feeling of not being loved.
  • Desires for company for his selfish ends.
  • He is a stingy person.
  • Easily offended or hurt – self-pity.
  • Pretending illness to attract others pity.
  • Always speaks about what others owe her.
  • Extremely nagging – the in-laws remedy.
  • Thinks, feels that everyone is there for his help.
  • Goes to the extent of weeping or pretending to be ill to get his things done.
  • There is constant fear of loss.
  • Emotional demanding always.
  • Behind the Chicory state, an internal emptiness is more.
  • Watching over the needs, wishes and progress of family and friends.
  • Always ready to comment, to correct others or to advise others.
  • The emotional control is subtle, making others dependent.
  • He will manipulate to impose his will.
  • The Chicory finds it hard to let go, feels easily offended or hurt; becomes ill to gain sympathy, always expecting others to live in the feeling of gratitude to her.
  • Chicory children throw temper tantrums.
  • The Chicory child will weep and get things done.
  • If weeping doesn’t pay, he will indulge in flattery or helps you in house hold work.
  • Always demanding, tries to seek attention.
  • The Chicory baby always wants her to be held in the lap all the time.
  • The Chicory child likes to be carried always.
  • Would weep if said anything.
  • Over care and over concern for hurt feelings.
  • Always seeks company.
  • Heart Chakra is closed for Chicory people.  Pray to Chicory to be active in the Heart Chakra.

Chicory says

  • Threatening: “I will do homework, but I will not go to the music class.  If you agree for my condition, then I will finish up all my homework now”.
  • “I am angry at his ingratitude, and he cheated me. I have done so much to him” – Chicory + Chestnut bud.
  • Chicory person makes others feel guilty by saying, “You have just used me.”
  • “After all that I have done for you, this is how you treat me”.
  • “I have given her a sari on her birthday and all that I get from her on my birth day is a card.”
  • Emotional black mailing – “How can I live without you?”
  • “Think of what I have done for you” and then bursting in to tears.
  • “My dear son, I miss you so much, the house is vacant.”
  • He sometimes become ill, he may resort to black mail. “I will study after this, if you allow me to browse the Internet.”
  • “People should respect me.”

Ailments

  • Eating disorders
  • Hysterical Neurosis  – convulsion type
  • Histrionic personality disorder

Usage

  • “Live and let live” is the positive Chicory.
  • Chicory + Walnut – when the child starts schooling
  • Chicory + Walnut – for a second wife
  • Chicory + Star of Bethlehem – if a person whom you love is dead
  • Chicory – for separation.
  • Chicory: I want love and attention
  • Chicory: I feel that nobody recognises my importance
  • Chicory: I have a fear of loneliness
  • Chicory: I feel I am neglected
  • Chicory: I feel unloved by my loved ones
  • Chicory: Others say that I am of a highly interfering type
  • Chicory: I can’t be alone; I always need company
  • Chicory: I often enjoy giving my opinions and advice to others; but I feel hurt/offended when they reject my advice
  • Mimulus, Chicory: My child stays close to my side; rarely goes alone; does nothing alone
  • Chicory: Cries a lot when starting for the school
  • Chicory, Mimulus: The child becomes upset even if mildly criticized
  • Mimulus, Chicory: Burst into tears for no apparent reason
  • Chicory: The child clings to mother

Solution to get back money given to others

10 years ago
by admin in

Richard

I run a naturopath in UK. Could you please advise me about Bach flower remedy for getting the money back, which we had given to others.

Naran

  1. Take CENTAURY, CHICORY, ROCK WATER and CHESTNUT BUD, 3 pills each three times a day.
  2. Take MUSTARD + AVENTURINE separately one dose in the morning and one dose in the night.

Explanation

When the other person says, “I will give the money tomorrow or later”, he is not in a position to resist him and say anything against what he says. He cannot antagonize him at any point of time. Such a person needs CENTAURY.

Now you wanted the money back (CHICORY). They dodge paying you (CHESTNUT BUD). The opposite person to such a person will be a ROCK WATER person.

To find a solution to this problem: MUSTARD.

The gem remedy AVENTURINE activates the heart center. It is available at the Centre.

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Gem of a Luck: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2013/09/17/gem-of-a-luck/

Converting unwanted to wanted: http://reachnaran.com/converting-unwanted-to-wanted/

Make them pay my money: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/09/16/make-them-pay-my-money/

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