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Husband is angry, while I am smiling

Sreelu 

I am chanting “OM HREEM TAHA” and also giving it to my family members. I feel good.

I am even chanting it holding my husband’s photo and my daughters too, as ours is a short-tempered family. I am feeling a difference in the way we are handling things.

When my husband is angry I am smiling and answering. Sometimes, he is ignoring my comments.

However, I see good results. How many days shall I continue doing this?

Naran

Continue.

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Handling side effects of medicines

BDASH

Please advise Bach flower remedies to prevent side effects of allopathic tablets that I am taking for high BP, anxiety and depression as prescribed by my doctor?

Naran

Take the flower remedies CRAB APPLE and WALNUT.

Explanation

The Bach Flower Remedy CRAB APPLE is a physical cleanser, and thus it will remove unwanted stuff from the body. The remedy WALNUT will help overcome the side effects.

The Flower BEECH (not suggested here) will correct the disorder created by drugs.

Seek the Help of the Universe – Your Friend

I am jobless and I don’t know who will call me for an interview

  • When you send your CV to a company, imagine the Universe as the postman, who delivers your CV to the concerned person. “Universe I am sending this CV to you. Please deliver to ……(name of the company)
  • Wait for five minutes.
  • You don’t know who will be handling your CV. Imagine yourself as that person. Say within the mind, “I have received this application. I am happy about the qualification of this person. He is the right guy for me” and so on.  He sends a reply back to you through the Universe – the postman, saying, “I would like to meet …….. (Insert your name) on ……. (mention the date)
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Imagine that you are receiving letter requesting you to attend the interview. Send a reply back that you will attend the interview. Follow the first step.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Become the person who is going to do the interview. Whatever the next step that will happen in a typical interview, imagine as though that is happening.
  • Do all the necessary steps that will culminate in you getting a job.
  • Go back to your normal day-to-day life, leaving it (your job) to the Universe to make it happen.
  • Till manifestation of what you want, chant “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX.”

 I am jobless, I was interviewed and waiting for the result

  • You (Ravi) have attended an interview in a company XYX. You were interviewed by let us say by person named James
  • Ask the Universe to convince James that you are the right person for the job.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. Take the role of James. Imagine, “Ravi is the right guy for the job. I am going to call him to come tomorrow to give the offer to him”. He passes the message to the Universe to deliver it to you.
  • Wait for five minutes. Now switch roles. You become yourself. Accept the meeting and pass the message through the Universe.
  • Continue the steps needed until it ends in getting you the job, with the salary and the position desired by you.

I am looking for an investor

You have a great business case, but lack money to start the business. Ask the universe to pass your business proposal to the person – who can invest and who is looking for a good business idea. Universe helps you to meet him. Again, use your imagination, figure out the steps and using the Universe, execute one step at a time, by switching to the required role.

How does this work?

Every thought and every word goes to the universe. The Universe is a meeting place of desires, intentions and fulfillment. It is the Main Post Office, where everything is sorted out and delivered to the right person.  It decides what we get, how we get it and when we get it.

That is why one has to quite the mind, open the heart and be relaxed.

Treat Universe as your friend, who helps you to get your desires fulfilled. You don’t need elaborate rules to talk to a friend. Try this simple technique, with your imagination set free, and you are sure to fulfill your dreams.

Some example from ancient Indian literature

In the story of Nalan and Damayandhi, Nalan will ask the Swan to deliver a message to Damayandhi, when they were living in different countries.

In Nutshell

Here, we are asking the Universal mind to reach the concerned person and deliver the required message. In the first case, we don’t know who is going to give us the job, but the universal mind knows. In the second case, we know the person, but we don’t know how to get across the person, for it might be considered as an intrusion.

So, seek the help of the Universe to work for you, be it a job, business or relationship.

Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance

LLM

My neighbors are very inconsiderate. We live in apartments. The one on next to me filled the corridor with their own stuffs and smelly shoes, make a lot of noise shouting at one end of corridor to the other, openly criticizes us and do damage to our plant tearing the leaves (we only put one pot of plant and door mat at my door and nothing else not even shoes). We only keep quiet, to maintain peace.

The neighbor above us, throw litter into our house and make a lot of noises (such as jumping in wee hours of the night after 12 am), and also hang wet laundry above our laundry. On one case, we even saw a packet of urine caught on our window.

We really don’t know what to do.

Naran

Chant “BEECH HOLLY WILLOW IMPATIENS” over a glass of water and drink it.

Download a picture of PISCES and paste it on your flat door.

Do the forgiving exercise for them.

In the morning thank them mentally for not disturbing you.

Pray to The Mother for keeping these elementals away from you.

LLM

May I ask how many times do I need to chant the flower remedy each time? Do I have to chant everyday or just once?

Do I do the forgiving exercise and thank them everyday also?

The picture of Pisces can be just the symbols or need to have images of fish?

At the last sentence, you mentioned praying to the mother. ‘The Mother’ refers to?

Naran

When the problem comes, you can chant.

Chanting what is given is just an alignment with the divine. Forget your identity. Just merge with the Grace Words which are nothing but divine. Enjoy chanting. Do it any number of times.

These words do not bring about any result. They want you to surrender. Surrender to the divine and start chanting. While chanting do not think about anything.

Download zodiac picture of Pisces, and paste it on the door facing outside.

The mother means Aurobindo mother. That divine mother only knows how to drive out the unwanted elementals. Just say once to her daily.

LLM (after a month)

I can see improvement on the issues with my neighbor next door, no more torn leaves and cleaner corridor.

Managing a harsh person

Deepti

I am writing to thank you, for the Amazing Gift of ‘TOGETHER DIVINE” Switch word CD.

I have been playing the CD at home for the past one and a half months. The results are amazing!

I have had problems with my mom since long. She is very harsh and very difficult as a person.

You would always tell us to heal the relationship with one’s own mother, during your workshops in Chennai.

TOGETHER DIVINE CD is slowly but surely changing that aspect in her.

She is calmer and fights have come down to a large extent!

It’s amazing how it works on our subconscious Mind!! Thank you Naran for this amazing Gift!!!

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Our future is not determined

Naran

Let me give an example to make you understand that our future is not determined

In a typical office there is a conflict and arguments between office manager and the staff.

A staff member will have two options.

Either he can straightaway throw his job by getting angry and argumentative.

Many a time we succumb to our emotions and they guide your actions. We all know that. If you are able to be only like this, then the result is determined as what we expect to happen.

Or you can do the following, based on NLP:

Step One: Identify the emotion.

Let us say, we get angry. 

It’s ok. If we say then, “This is my anger”, it will be automatically gets reduced. This is one way of handling your emotions.

Step Two: Create the outcome you want.

Now ask the question, “What do I want from this situation”.

Analyze, “What’s my present state”. 

Then ask the question, “What do I want” or “What is the desired outcome I want here”.

Now we are forming a strategy here.

For example, if the strategy to create a situation is formed by the staff member then he won’t resign.

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How to deal with negative energy?

Kittu

My neighbour is a very good friend of my father. He claims to be very good astrologer with accurate predictions.

Whenever he comes at our home he says that I won’t get married for next one more year, no matter how much efforts we put or good proposals come coz I have debilitated mars and ******.

My parents do not believe much in astrology but that uncle always says something negative regarding my marriage and now whenever any proposal turn down. My parents have also started saying that may be that uncle is right and this in turn affects my thoughts and positivity.

As we have familiar relations with their family, we can’t say directly anything to them. How to deal with this negative energy (thoughts) that he brought as he always discourages me and my parents.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for 100 times daily: “I Kittu forgive you … (name of the uncle). You please forgive me and release me”.

Everyday morning when you wake up, say three times, “I thank Mars and ****** for keeping this person away from influencing me”.

Kittu

I am glad to inform you that after doing that forgiving exercise for a week, that uncle have said nothing negative. In fact, he came only twice in this month and both the time I was not at home.

He sent me some sweets and a gift also telling that he treats me like a daughter, so things are at peace.

Should I continue this or anything else?

Naran

Continue.

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Moving into the Prosperity Zone

Naran

“SURYA NARAYANAM LAKSHMI NARAYANAM” is the mantra for memory, and property.

Mantra for handling financial property

Anything regarding land, selling etc. for example, one person wants to sell the land. It is his own land got it in the right manner and he has not cheated anyone. It is a 40 year old property. When he wanted to sell the same, he observed that his initial is not proper in the document.

That is, his name is R. Rajagopal but in the document it was mentioned as S. Rajagopal. He chanted the mantra.

In the Registrar Office, they did not bother. The registrar office people verified the relevant old documents and gave a letter stating that it is a typographical error.

For buying the property also you can chant this mantra so that you will buy the right property.

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Handling unresolved issues

Naran

Suppose we have an unfulfilled desire, like marriage, “I have to study this degree”, etc. That project or desire should be termed as a divine project.

Chant, “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME LOVE THANKS DIVINE MARRIAGE/STUDY/PROJECT”.

Any issue has a self (living consciousness) and that self has lack of love. Therefore, the issue is unsolved or it is not happening. Thus, we have to give lot of love to that issue. We do that with the “I Am Sorry” mantra.

Expand the powers of the I am sorry mantra

How to make the mantra more powerful?

Take one issue. One is give love (which is always less) to the solution.

Another consideration or step we could take is by asking a question, “For this issue from where we could bring love and give it to the issue”.

Let us see that.

SUN gives unconditional love. So, bring in solar rays of love and compassion (from Sun) to this issue. Likewise, whatever rubbish we do, Mother Earth is always gives us unconditional love. So I can also fill up the issue with the unconditional love of Mother Earth.

Who else can give us unconditional love? Sun, Mother earth, Buddha, whoever you think is fit you can take the love from them and send it to the issue.

Now, chant the mantra like this, “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME LOVE THANKS DIVINE ___________ (issue)”.

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