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Life is Divine
“I Trust Life” – from the “I Love Myself” Workbook
Naran
1. So far divine has taken care of you in this life. In what ways you are divinely guided or helped?
My Life is Divine
I trust life means, I trust Divine. Life is Divine – the one energy which is leading my life.
How can you cultivate the trust in the Divine?
So far we have lived our life, which has been taken care of by the Divine.
This we can understand by the happening of certain events and situations. In certain important events you would have felt the presence of Divine.
2. You must identify such events and situations. You must identify, in what ways you were helped or guided?
This we can understand only when we go deeper and find out.
Sometimes, your life has been saved by the Divine. In some situations, you would have cancelled your journey and that plane or train would have met with an accident.
Our very presence proves the existence of Divine
My very presence is because of the Divine, somebody is giving me something, and I am living. My very living is the proof that some Divine is protecting me, nurturing me, nourishing me, and guarding me.
Healing has come to us and it’s a great boon
Everybody cannot come into the healing profession.
How ignorant people are? Who has brought me in this line? Which has made me learn so many healing techniques?
So then, I am not an ordinary human being. The Divine wants to me to learn more and move spiritually at the same time.
In this profession, we cannot find out concrete profit. But lot of changes will take place in our mind, in our life and the way we look at life.
If a problem comes for a common man then he will start worrying, go to temple and pray. But, what we will do?
We will do the necessary healing and that too with a mentality of non-attachment to the result.
Why do we need to have a fear of future?
When the Divine is doing so much for me, why not divine will protect me in future also? Why should I fear about my future?
Whenever the fear or worry comes, repeat the words, “I TRUST LIFE”.
When you say these words, you feel confident, thinking, “So far the Divine has protected me. Even here afterwards the Divine will protect me. Therefore, why should I worry?”
How to solve your problems?
If there is any problem means we are not submitting ourselves to the Divine Order and we fail to see the Divine Order in operation.
When we fail to see the Divine Order in operation, we lack in love.
When you chant the switch words, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER”, it completes the love, and problem is solved.
Related Posts
Surrender to win the battle of life: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/to-surrender-is-to-win-the-battle-of-life/
Sleeping pill: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/07/18/sleeping-pill/
I lost all hope that I will succeed in Life: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/08/01/i-lost-all-hope-that-i-will-succeed-in-life/
Worried About Losing My Friendship
Client
I have a misunderstanding with a friend of mine. I am not sure, next time when I meet her, whether she will properly talk to me or not.
For the last two days, I have this anxiety. So, I released all my anxiety. Now I feel ok.
However, I am worried, when I meet her next time how she will react and how will I handle it.
Naran
1. Release the anxiety (worry).
2. You are having a desire to keep the friendship going. Release this desire too.
You are only releasing the thought, emotions and desires. You are not stopping the actions (to be her friend).
Here, instead of the enacting the usual drama we create, we simply observe what is happening in our mind. We release and observe the whole incident as a third person.
Which is convenient – fearing about something or releasing?
In the end, we keep the mind blank – free from worries, anger and fears.
What are the ultimate results we gain due to this technique?
As long as we are working from a noisy mind, there will not be any solution to the problem.
By releasing all the emotions (and thoughts and desires) one after another, we are taking one step after another towards a litter-free (mind) zone, where we will be free of our emotions and thoughts.
Then the solution for the problem will be found automatically as that part of the mind (litter free zone) knows how to tackle the problem.
In this technique, we do no prayers.
If my house is full of garbage what will I do?
I will simply clear them isn’t it? When I remove all the clutters in the house it becomes good.
In the same way, I release all the clutters from my mind.
Desire is the motivator behind our actions. For me what is motivating me to seek friendship in my friend? There is a desire for approval operating in it. Release it.
When anything comes inside your mind, Just say, “Can I release? Yes. I release this. I let go this…”
Related Posts
Old One Dies New One Blooms: http://reachnaran.com/old-one-dies-new-one-blooms/
The Driver for Relationships, Desires and Talent: http://reachnaran.com/the-driver-for-relationships-desires-and-talent/
Opening the chakras with mantras: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/opening-the-chakras-with-mantras/
Life situations where Walnut is helpful
Naran
When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT
To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET
Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM
To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)
To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.
To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT
Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT
When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT
Work is not challenging: WALNUT
Puberty: WALNUT
To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS
WALNUT protects our boundaries
First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT
I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT
I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT
The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM
When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT
When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.
The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit).
When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT.
When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)
All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT
He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT
When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT
When anybody is merciless: WALNUT
When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT
Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT
For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT
Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy.
Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT
If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)
If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT
To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT
Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time
Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child
The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self).
Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy.
Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.
Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT
Give the remedies always separately.
In Nutshell
The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!
Life situations where Walnut is helpful
Naran
When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT
To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET
Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM
To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)
To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.
To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT
Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT
When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT
Work is not challenging: WALNUT
Puberty: WALNUT
To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS
WALNUT protects our boundaries
First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT
I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT
I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT
The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM
When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT
When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM
Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.
The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit). When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT. When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)
All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT
He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT
When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT
When anybody is merciless: WALNUT
When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT
Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT
For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT
Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy. Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT
If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)
If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT
To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT
Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time
Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child
The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self). Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy. Walnut tree is big. When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.
Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT
Give the remedies always separately.
In Nutshell
The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!
Self Defense for Women
Protection against bullying, ragging, eve-teasing
Deeya
Although I live in Canada, I am very much in love with my motherland India.
In the last two months so much crime in the form of rape is happening in our society. It is really painful to see that even 4-5 yrs old-young girl child are being the target of sick mentality animals with a body of human are in our society.
How to prevent such animals to commit these heinous crimes? I know if we chant, pray or meditate together then any problem can be solved and we can save more girls to fall prey to this heinous crime.
Any words or meditation will be good to keep our kids, daughters and sisters from another mother safe in today’s society.
Naran
The combination is: CENTAURY + MIMULUS + PINE + ROCK WATER + CHESTNUT BUD + ROCK ROSE + VINE + GUARD
CENTAURY – mental will to resist
MIMULUS – not to be bullied
PINE – not to be a victim
ROCK WATER + CHESTNUT BUD + VINE – for protection against getting beaten up or sexually harassed
ROCK ROSE – to be helped instantly
This combination is available as a picture card, with the pictures of the Bach Flowers Mentioned in the combination along with the switch word GUARD. Please contact the centre to buy the card.
Related Post
Protection from ragging and terrorism: http://reachnaran.com/protection-from-ragging-and-terrorism/
Why we need to be happy?
Naran
Why we need to be happy?
To be wealthy, we need to be happy.
How we can make ourselves happy? Read the blog on changing mental compartments here: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-become-happy/
What is the basis of changing mental compartments?
Whenever you think that there is no source for money or today there is no money, especially for business persons, at that time you have to do this exercise.
Because, whenever there is fear or worry Lakshmi will not come. Therefore, you have to change your mental attitude.
It is one of the best NLP programs.
This is how brain stores everything…
Worry will be in one compartment…
Fear will be in some other compartment…
And joy will be in other compartment.
Some event is happening outside. Immediately, your reaction goes to the any compartment which you are used to.
For example, when there is no money immediately you will have fear – some type of fear, and worry.
If the event invokes fear means, immediately the brain will go to that compartment and will make you feel like that.
You won’t feel differently as you don’ have the habit of reacting differently.
If you do this exercise, then immediately there will be a shift in your thought pattern and emotional mind.
You can do this for any type of situation where you want a change in the (mental) situation.
Don’t beg from the divine
Lakshmi
You have asked me to write “release resistance find divine order count now” for 51 times daily. I do that. I chant Ambika Sloka like mad, beg wolf every day and still no job interviews.
I ask loads of people but no one helps me–what more should I do? I need a job as soon as possible and am helpless. I beg divine so much and what more can I do?
Naran
Don’t beg from the divine. Take it from the Divine.
Daily in the morning say three times,” I thank divine for giving me a job of my choice. Then forget about it.
Lakshmi
Why is this happening to me? The only thing I ever ask god for myself is a job. I help loads of people and never I think ill of others and genuinely pray for people – why am I being punished?
Naran
You will definitely get a job. Instead of having a victim feeling, have the attitude of gratitude.
Instead of “why me” question, understand God is doing everything perfect. He will do everything at the right time.
What is the right time? Think and thank the divine that you have had already right time.
Every day, morning, say, three times, “I open up all parts of my mind and align them to resonate to the Divine grace of money. I thank the Divine for providing me the job of my choice now. I release this intention to the all providing divine field.”
Forget about this and concentrate on something else.
Daily in the night think back and thank god for everything that happened in your life. Each and every incident leads to the other. Nothing is unwanted or not needed.
Whatever happened – bad or good – thank the divine for that.
Shed tears of gratitude towards your parents, your friends, relatives, your house and your environment, the air you breathe, the dress you wear, the food you take, the water you drink.
Do you know how many, how many persons are behind your one day food? Thank all those persons – right from vegetable grower, seller, his storage place, vendor, and his cart – so many are there.
Think about the link of the persons to your one day food and thank everyone.
Why not this internet which connects you and me? Thank the Internet too.
Build up the energy of love in your heart and start living with contentment. You will get the job.
If your victim feeling can help you to get the job, be in that state. Otherwise be in a state of gratitude.
You are not helping anybody. You are privileged – you are selected by god – to help those people. You are indebted to them.
Help them with full heart. But don’t expect anything from them. If you do the help without expecting any appreciation, you will advance the Time.
- FORGIVE LOVE THANK is the mantra for your life.
- To come out of victim feeling, take Bach flower remedies WILLOW and PINE each two pills two times a day for one month.
Best of luck
Related Blogs:
When Jobless: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/05/26/when-jobless/
Thank you for the Divine Help: http://naranonline.wordpress.com/2012/05/29/thank-you-for-the-divine-help-during-this-time-of-my-life/
Fear manifests what we do not want
Madhu
There is always a saying that marriages are made in heaven. Is that true?
And if so then why there is negativity like divorce, extramarital, and even more than that?
I am very much afraid of this issue as it’s a lifelong decision and relationship.
Is there any switch word which all can chant to have a successful, happy and respected marital life either love or arranged.
Any switch words that can keep harmony not only in couple but also between two families because sometimes we see that due to family distances, fights arise.
And also anything after which there should not be any regression about marriage decision?
I know you are the only one who can clear my questions and hope so many people wants know it.
Naran
Fear is hallucination.
Fearing about something is happening in the mind only.
The mind is unable to perceive the future and therefore indulges in thoughts that produce fear.
Instead of becoming inquisitive, the mind pushes you in fear or in darkness.
What is this fear? Fear manifests the very same event which we do not want.
Understand that every emotion has got individual consciousness.
Fear is born because future is unknown. Anything unknown is darkness. Darkness – fear – will be no more, when there is light.
When the fear appears, think that it needs light. Say, “Fear SET FREE, OPEN, ALIGN yourself with the LIGHT and RELAX me.”
Read again and again all the answers and blog postings and meditate on each and every answer.
You will know everything that you need to know.
Too much of thoughts – unwanted thoughts – obsess you and you have forgotten to listen. Listening happens when we become silent and Truth will reveal itself when we introspect.
It is not my reply but your understanding is more important.
How and why we need to forgive others
For more detailed explanation on Why we need to forgive others and How to forgive others, please refer the book: “Forgiveness How and Why”, written by Naran S. Balakumar.
Jay
I have a problem letting go or forgiving people. Is there any switch word for it?
Naran
If you don’t do the forgiving exercise, you will undergo same emotions, even though situations may be different.
If you do not want to meet or interact with same people in future, Forgiving is the only way.
There is no shortcut for letting go the resentment and anger.
Do not act from ego; have higher perception and think that every event in our life is happening as per our desire. Before taking the birth, I want this life with these people to mend my life. But unfortunately after taking birth, we forget our commitment. When the situation is created as per our desire, instead of learning lessons and moving forward, we get stuck and we refuse to forget or forgive.
What is the one that prevents you from forgiving? Release that and do it.
I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me. This can be done mechanically without the involvement of the heart.
Jay
Do I just have to fill the name or action that upsets me?
Naran
“I Jay forgive you —–(name of the person). You please forgive me and release me”.
Take a person with whom you are angry. Insert his or her name in the space given above. Chant the same for 200 times a day.
Forgiving Exercise
Affirm, “I (your name) Robert forgive you Ashok (replace with name of the person to be forgiven). You please forgive me and release me”.
Questions regarding Forgiveness Exercise
Nayana
I have two queries related to Forgiving exercise.
I have too many people to forgive in my life, so please guide me how to forgive them with once for all.
I see my husband is having so much resentment in his life with so many people but he doesn’t try to do any of the exercise to forgive and forget. So is there anything I can do on behalf of him, as it’s affecting my life all the time.
Naran
Take a list of all of them. Do the forgiving for all. Take one at a time. Chant 200 times for each.
You cannot do anything for somebody’s sake. What is your predominant thought or emotion when you deal with him? Release that one by one. If one goes, another will come. Release that also.