Posts tagged HOLLY
Create positives out of a situation
Naran
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
What’s patience?
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
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Audit your thoughts:
https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/
The Universal Lover:
https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/
Husband wants to marry again
Bagyalakshmi
I was married for 16 yrs and got 3 girls. Ours is a middle-class family. Mine was a love marriage
Initially, everything was very well. He took good care of me and family but for the past 6 yrs there’s a lot of change in his attitude and behavior.
He yelled at me and kids in front of everyone, treating us very badly.
Last month, he brought one lady home and told us that he’s going to marry her.
My girls and parents launched a police complaint and with the help of a police officer that marriage was stopped.
He did not want to divorce but want to lead a new life with that lady. I told him that I will not agree for that.
After this he stopped coming home and eating from home. He will come as and when he wished but will not eat anything.
He gives money for the home expenses. I want to lead a happy married life with him. I want him to be genuine and truthful to our family.
Recently, he started hatred towards me. Pls help me to change this and lead me a happy life.
Naran
Take the flower remedies CHICORY, HOLLY, and ASPEN.
Put each 5 pills in a glass of water and have small sips from that water, every one or two hours, from morning to evening.
In the night, take the flower remedies WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT before going to sleep, 5 pills each.
Chant “TOGETHER DIVINE”
Explanation
A CHICORY person turns easily into HOLLY. Husband is the shadow-self of wife and hence, and therefore, his remedies are given to her.
Every day, she has to lead her life with the constant fear of what will happen, for which ASPEN will help.
To come out of persistent, constant worry: WHITE CHESTNUT and WALNUT
Related Posts
I follow my father’s footsteps: https://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2010/02/03/i-follow-my-father%E2%80%99s-footsteps/
Why a person is not married: https://healyourpastlife.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/why-a-person-is-not-married/
Feel Depressed Due to Menopause
Lavanya
I am going through menopause symptoms. I am aged 46.
I feel very depressed, sometimes too much angry, want to cry loudly on some old issues of family, feel lonely and think that life is useless.
Please help me.
Naran
Take MUSTARD and SCLERANTHUS when you are depressed.
When you are angry, take HOLLY and WILLOW.
Daily take WALNUT, GENTIAN and HORNBEAM.
Explanation
Depression: MUSTARD
Mood swings: SCLERANTHUS
Too much anger: HOLLY
Anger due to resentment: WILLOW
Transition to new phase of life: WALNUT
Sudden regression due to menopause: GENTIAN
Tired due to this new situation: HORNBEAM
Related Posts
Prescription of Bach Flower Remedies: http://reachnaran.com/prescription-of-bach-flower-remedies/
Might be Menopause: https://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/08/05/might-be-menopause/
Affair with another man
S
My husband is having an affair with another man.
We live in same house but separate room since 7 yrs. He’s not interested in me.
We have two children. I want him to leave the house and go far from us as I’m only 33 yrs old and I want to start a fresh life.
Pls help me as I’m so lonely and feel rejected. Help me brother! I want a way out!!
Naran
- Chant “RUBY, HOLLY, VINE”.
- Write these names also in a notebook daily 51 times.
Explanation
To break the relationship with the husband: (Gem) Ruby.it gives the needed courage to start life independently.
To heal the rejected feeling and to re-align with the energy of love, HOLY and VINE will help, because the new life is to start with love in the heart.
Viral Conjunctivitis Problem Resolved
Sridevi
I have viral conjunctivitis since Friday and it is very troublesome…Please suggest a remedy for me.
Naran
Chant “HOLLY, CRAB APPLE, CLEAR POINT”
Sridevi
Thank you for the remedy, the problem with my eyes is resolved.
Explanation
Both Holly and Crab Apple are Bach flower remedies, while CLEAR and POINT are switch words.
HOLLY: is prescribed when a part of the body becomes inflamed (red.) Here the eyes become red after Conjunctivitis.
CRAB APPLE: is prescribed as it acts as a cleanser – both physical and mental. It is the base remedy for any type of skin diseases for the same reason.
CLEAR: to clear of obstructions (in this case inflammation)
POINT: is the switch word for eyesight. Anything to do with the eye, it has to be included as part of switch word combination.
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Detoxify Your Body: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2011/10/22/detoxify-your-body/
Catch the Viral, Don’t let it spread: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2011/01/02/catch-the-viral-don%E2%80%99t-let-it-spread/
Afraid my family members will hurt me
Sankar
I am from a joint family. We are living under the same roof.
I had used my extended family’s assets and had failed in the business venture that I had undertaken. I had pledged our ancestral property – which belongs to my extended family.
Now, I am forced to sell it and as one could expect they are not happy and they curse me openly. I am afraid that while sleeping, one of them could hurt me gravely, out of intense anger on me.
Naran
Take the flower remedies MIMULUS and HOLLY.
Explanation
Fear of getting hurt: Mimulus
Not trusting (family members): Holly
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I want to die before you: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2013/03/09/iwanttodieforyou/
Holly: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/
Pat yourself in a big way: http://naranhealingproducts.wordpress.com/2012/05/24/pat-yourself-in-a-big-way/
Love thy neighbours even if they are a nuisance
LLM
My neighbors are very inconsiderate. We live in apartments. The one on next to me filled the corridor with their own stuffs and smelly shoes, make a lot of noise shouting at one end of corridor to the other, openly criticizes us and do damage to our plant tearing the leaves (we only put one pot of plant and door mat at my door and nothing else not even shoes). We only keep quiet, to maintain peace.
The neighbor above us, throw litter into our house and make a lot of noises (such as jumping in wee hours of the night after 12 am), and also hang wet laundry above our laundry. On one case, we even saw a packet of urine caught on our window.
We really don’t know what to do.
Naran
Chant “BEECH HOLLY WILLOW IMPATIENS” over a glass of water and drink it.
Download a picture of PISCES and paste it on your flat door.
Do the forgiving exercise for them.
In the morning thank them mentally for not disturbing you.
Pray to The Mother for keeping these elementals away from you.
LLM
May I ask how many times do I need to chant the flower remedy each time? Do I have to chant everyday or just once?
Do I do the forgiving exercise and thank them everyday also?
The picture of Pisces can be just the symbols or need to have images of fish?
At the last sentence, you mentioned praying to the mother. ‘The Mother’ refers to?
Naran
When the problem comes, you can chant.
Chanting what is given is just an alignment with the divine. Forget your identity. Just merge with the Grace Words which are nothing but divine. Enjoy chanting. Do it any number of times.
These words do not bring about any result. They want you to surrender. Surrender to the divine and start chanting. While chanting do not think about anything.
Download zodiac picture of Pisces, and paste it on the door facing outside.
The mother means Aurobindo mother. That divine mother only knows how to drive out the unwanted elementals. Just say once to her daily.
LLM (after a month)
I can see improvement on the issues with my neighbor next door, no more torn leaves and cleaner corridor.
I am the victim! I am the villain!!
R Mohan
Five years back you told me that we invite people who mirror us. Specifically you said the people around me are in PINE state (low self-esteem, guilty), because I am in the same state.
Recently I observed, I create a scare in the people around me (MIMULUS). So I chanted MIMULUS and the opposite states (the opposite person who will create Mimulus) of it – HOLLY and VINE.
Immediately, I felt very happy. My question to you is, how did MIMULUS make me happy?
Naran
The positive aspect of Mimulus is sympathy. That’s why I suggested Mimulus. The Holly and Vine persons will kindle fear in others. By taking Mimulus, you turn the Holly, loving and sympathetic.
In the same way, when you chanted Mimulus, you become sympathetic to the different parts inside yourself namely, the part of HOLLY and the part of VINE. So, in turn you felt relieved and happy.
Several years back, I suggested you to take Mimulus when you were fearful to buy a property. The same fear is still inside you, which is normal.
Just take MIMULUS for the next few days, to be sympathetic, which comes from higher state of love that believes in co-existence.
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I am the Hero and the Villain, in the Movie (Life) Directed By Me: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/i-am-the-hero-and-the-villain-in-the-movie-life-directed-by-me/
Chain snatching: http://reachnaran.com/chain-snatching/
Complementing and Opposing Companions of Life: http://reachnaran.com/complementing-and-opposing-companions-of-life/