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Create positives out of a situation
Naran
Let us see an example
“My husband is not good. He is irritating too”, says the wife.
She is blaming her husband here.
If she has to handle this situation, then what resource (quality) she needs to handle it?
Does she needs to be courageous, be more loving and caring, or be bold?
When there is a problem, you need to ask yourself, “What one resource will enrich me and will help me to handle this life situation”.
This way you are healing yourself. Instead, if some person is angry and you also get angry, then you are gone.
So what do we need here?
People would say she needs patience and tolerance.
What’s patience?
Patience is the quality or ability to withstand a situation without getting angry or upset.
If that’s the case, then the Bach Flower IMPATIENS is the remedy. Impatiens will create patience inside you.
You need tolerance also. BEECH is the remedy for it.
Beech and Impatiens go together in cultivating tolerance and patience.
Developing a Life Strategy
Quality of patience, without getting upset or angry about the other person, is waiting inside us, waiting for the right opportunity.
We all need it. If I have it, then I will be striking at the right moment. It’s a Life Strategy.
If we have this quality, we will have more consideration and caring for other people. To develop this strategy, take the flower remedy IMPATIENS.
If I cultivate patience and tolerance (Beech and Impatiens), then I will become more considerate.
Consideration means, there is more love and affection for other person. Then we will become accommodative.
To be more caring, after being considerate, HOLLY is the remedy.
Related Posts
Audit your thoughts:
https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/audit-your-thoughts/
The Universal Lover:
https://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/09/05/the-universal-lover/
Coming out of Love Pangs
Naran
Raja and Rani were good friends and loved each other deeply. They would meet each other every day and spend time together. They decided to get married.
Suddenly one day Rani’s father brings a boy who has come from U.S.A. and fixes the marriage for Rani. Rani respects her parent’s words and agrees for the wedding. Since there was not much time, the marriage takes place and immediately she leaves for U.S.A.
There was no communication from Rani.
Raja was shocked when he comes to know about the marriage. He is dejected in life. Loses interest in life, grows a beard.
At this state, for pangs of love due to separation give the Bach Flower Remedy CHICORY.
Raja will get over his separation and starts to lead his life.
The person who is highly possessive will be sentimental and so a love failure affects him a lot. They will say after their love failure they will not get married as they prefer to live in the memories of their beloved. They might get ready for marriage after taking CHICORY.
Why this person is unduly influenced by love? If you give them the Bach Flower Remedy WALNUT it will remove their sadness as Walnut is a great unwanted-link-breaker.
Raja was given Chicory and Walnut. And as expected he could come out of his love pangs.
Related Blogs
Say goodbye to lover of your past: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2011/06/16/say-good-bye-to-lover-of-your-past/
Find Mr. Right: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/04/08/find-mr-right/
Gem Remedies Part I: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2009/07/10/gem-remedies-part-i/