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How to handle people who are angry?
Naran
If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.
To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.
The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.
When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.
We can also reduce our Anger.
Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?
Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.
Naran
One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.
Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?
Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.
Naran
I will teach you a simple method here.
Affirm as many times as possible:
“I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”.
“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.
You can write them too.
The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.
Doing Well in the Examination Hall
Naran
During the examination, a student makes silly and careless mistakes. Probably due to lack of time, he is writing answers without any thinking.
While going through the question paper, he may find a question, for which he doesn’t know the answer.
He will become restless suddenly and will start writing the exam hastily. So his answers will tend to be wrong.
He may also go into a negative HORNBEAM state. Starting problem leads to mental weariness.
Immediately a crisis of confidence may occur – ELM.
A sudden regression may lead to sudden loss of memory – state of GENTIAN, and nothing seems to be remembered.
To avoid all these possible negative states in the examination hall, one can take the following flower remedies:
- Impatiens: not to do anything in a hurry
- Hornbeam: overcome mental weariness
- Elm: overcome any sudden crisis of confidence
- Gentian: prevents any regression and
- Wild Rose: when you try to speed up doing something, your mind has to be calm. Wild rose gives that to you and will liven up your enthusiasm throughout the examination. Also, you will have plenty of time to complete the exam!
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Impatiens Discussion with Naran: http://reachnaran.com/impatiens-discussion-with-naran/
Deserve A Better Life Through Reiki: http://healbyreiki.wordpress.com/2009/08/09/deserve-a-better-life-through-reiki/
Exam Mantra: https://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/11/05/exam-mantra/
Changes begins from us
Question: What is a Rogue husband? Do we refer to infidelity or incompatibility or uncaring?
Naran
It means all.
It is her view. We don’t know whether a person is a rogue or not.
However, the healing is always given to a person who makes a complaint about the other. As a healer, we assess the mental state (of the person complaining) and give the remedies.
Question: Is it possible for a man who has led a wayward life since his teens change into a good man with the help of remedies?
Naran
Anybody can change into a better person, provided he wants to.
However, the healing is always aimed at the self.
If you are putting up with a person, who is wayward, you have to change yourself. Heal your emotions; heal your reactions; heal your way of thinking.
If you are able to change effect in yourself, by taking the appropriate remedies, the opposite person will change.
In any relationship, one has to change to see the change in the other. This is the rule.
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I hate my father-in-law: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/07/25/i-hate-my-father-in-law/
Pluses and Minuses: http://reachnaran.com/pluses-and-minuses/
Managing a Rogue Husband: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/managing-a-rogue-husband/
Keep letting go of blame
Grace
http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/09/03/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
Thank you.
This was a big black in my mind before.
Stopping blame has been difficult for me. It makes you happier for sure.
I will keep letting go of blame.
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I love to take control of my life: http://reachnaran.com/i-love-to-take-control-of-my-life/
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Mantras for Bliss: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/11/14/mantras-for-bliss/
Move on to a better position in life
Naran
To CHANGE one has to MOVE.
MOVE BACK, MOVE AWAY: not to do a shameful act, move away from it: Walnut is the remedy.
MOVE-IN means to Enter – for example, to enter into an agreement.
When an agreement is signed, chant “WALNUT and WALNUT”
Nobody will break the agreement. They will adhere to the policy of a gentlemen’s agreement.
When somebody makes a commitment to you, think about Walnut and he will not move away or depart from the commitment.
To make progress – to MOVE UP: WALNUT
We have to consider the opposite meaning of a particular expression to find the negative mental state and then to figure out the deeper action spheres of the Flower Remedies.
The opposite meaning of the word Enter is Depart or Remove: fear of removal from service, there will be no dismissal if you take WALNUT. Walnut will eliminate fear of removal. So you will feel safe and secure.
To prevent amputation, give WALNUT. It will be prevented.
The doctors had advised to remove Sajeevanam’s mother’s leg, as she was suffering from acute diabetes. She took Walnut for two days.
The doctors felt may be they will wait for some more time, before they consider amputation again. Amputation also means Disconnection. Walnut prevents disconnection.
If a wife doesn’t want to divorce, with help of WALNUT she can achieve her objective.
If you feel that you are not connected to the family and say, “I don’t belong here. I am out of place,” thanks to WALNUT it will happen.
You will make the necessary adjustments and changes required for the new place. This is required for a newly married girl.
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Letting go the unwanted: http://reachnaran.com/letting-go-the-unwanted/