Posts tagged marriage

Should I divorce?

10 years ago
by admin in

GDS

Mine was a love marriage. With parents’ consent we got married 1.5 years back. But, I am not happy with my marital life.

There is always interference of in-laws. We don’t lead a very happy and peaceful life.

On top of that, my husband hits me, when his temper goes out of control. We argue and fight for small things and end up with hatred. There is no romance and happiness.

Should I divorce, or is there any other remedy?

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise.

Chant “BOW CONCEDE, END SHUT LIMIT, TOGETHER DIVINE”

Explanation

BOW CONCEDE END SHUT LIMIT: Surrender the ego, which comes in the way of harmony, and allowing the inner self to take control of the life.

TOGETHER DIVINE: Find harmony

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No love from husband: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/10/20/no-love-from-husband/

Double Bubble: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/10/31/double-bubble/

Giving up arrogance: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/06/28/give-up-arrogance/

Earn Without Employment

10 years ago
by admin in

Student

After attending Naran Abundance workshop I did the “ABUNDANCE PROGRAMME”. 

I started it almost after 15- 20 days attending the workshop. 

Here I am listing all things regarding money or somehow related to it.

In the past I was penniless

Before that I like to tell you few words about my situation.

Right now I am not working. I left my job after marriage, due to some family issues.

It was almost 3 years back. And that was hard time for me.

Even though we have enough money in house, I couldn’t spend.

Even for small amount of money or small expenses too, I felt like beggar, jilted and distress as Hubby not used to give me money in hand due to our loans and not even for day-to-day expenses.

Today my situation has changed

In all these days, there was not any single moment of denial or refuse from husband, while giving me money.

And that was the biggest surprising part for me.

In this period I paid all my debts. (It was not very heavy, every time when my husband denied giving me money).

It was with my sister and friend. Now only remaining part is my mother – who helped me in form of money, when we bought a house.

She didn’t ask me to return anything. But still I feel I should give all her money back and other is workshop fees that I attended in Mumbai.

4th day – I got a call from old colleague. He is going to start his own company and he wants me to join there, but this is after few months in this year.

6th day – I wanted to return some money to my friend, which he gave me in my need,(3 months back)  when I was afraid to ask/ demand money from my hubby.

Somehow, I wanted to return it at earliest. But, there was no money source for me. And after writing 5th statement I was crying. Hubby asked me the reason.

And for the first time I had the courage to tell truth to him that I borrowed money from someone and that I was feeling guilty on how I will repay to them.

The person who used to get so furious on such things was completely calm and gave me money to return, without saying a word.

10th day – without applying anywhere, got a call from some job site, that too on my 3-year-old resume.

11th day – surprise shopping for me from hubby.

13th day – been to interview. Same day got another job call.

15th day – 2nd interview.

16th day – got selected in 1st interview, but I was not keen to join. Again hubby gave me some money, without asking.

17th day – got a credit note of almost 25,000 Rupees from Mobile Company.

5 months back my hubby gifted me a smart phone, which suddenly stopped working. Service center people said that it got damaged and un-repairable.

And that same service center gave us a credit note same as the original purchase amount of phone. It will get cleared within a month. Nobody could believe that I am getting money instead of replacement!

27th day – Hubby gave me some money for doctor visit, which was 3 times extra of normal fees. He didn’t even ask me about remaining money, or bills, which he used to ask after every visit.

29th day – 2nd interview, cleared 2nd round. Got selection call in evening.

Again I couldn’t join here, because of family issues. Was little upset, but knew something good might come in future. 30th day- again some surprise money from hubby.

Will keep updating more!!

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Instructions to listen to the Abundance Set of CDs: https://www.google.co.in/#q=Instructions+to+listen+to+the+Abundance+Set+of+CDs+reach+naran

Doesn’t love me right from marriage

10 years ago
by admin in

Srividya

My husband does not love me from my marriage. I don’t know what his problem is. He didn’t talk to me. Behaving like a neighbor. I talked to him many times regarding this. Yet, no proper response from him. Plz save my life!!!

Naran

Take the flower remedies WILLOW, CHICORY, WALNUT, BEECH and AGRIMONY – one of the Harmony Packs available in the centre as a combination. Buy these remedies in any homeopathy shop. Mix 5 pills of each in water. Sip the water 6 to 7 times in a day.

Chant the mantras “OM HUM NAMAHA, OM YUM NAMAHA, OM RUM NAMAHA, OM VUM NAMAHA, OM LUM NAMAHA” for 20 minutes in the morning and 20 minutes in the evening.

Keep CHIMPANZEE picture with you.

Notes from Animal Spirit Guide Manual

Chimpanzee

You want to resolve a conflict; you want peace and harmony to prevail, but don’t have it. Whenever we want something then it means we lack that in our lives.

To make amends with someone, call upon CHIMPANZEE. Ask Chimpanzee, “Please solve this misunderstanding for me”. It will heal the situation for you.

We always have problems and quarrels – either with somebody in the family or on the road. To have no problems inside your family call upon BLUE WHALE and CHIMPANZEE.

BLUE WHALE, JELLY FISH, PIGEON and CHIMPANZEE combination is the best combination for harmony.

Related posts

Handful of messages from our body: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2011/09/29/handful-of-messages-from-our-body/

The embodiment of love: http://reachnaran.com/the-embodiment-of-love/

Can’t think of him as my husband: http://reachnaran.com/cant-think-of-him-as-my-husband/

Don’t worry about your future

10 years ago
by admin in

Madhu

How can we give up thinking about future? As we see so many broken and unhappy marriage in my surrounding this kind of fear comes.

Naran

When a thought comes, check the mind saying if this thought gives me fear, why don’t I release this?

Can I release this?

Just say, “I let go this thought which gives me fear”.

You can also ask another question, “What thought gives fearlessness”.

Come with as many thoughts as possible.

When a thought that gives you safety or trust appears, welcome it and release it.

It is a game! Play!

Related Posts

Sometimes we have to think sentimentally too: http://reachnaran.com/sometimes-we-have-to-think-sentimentally-too/

Switch Word from Lord Krishna: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/%E2%80%9Catmavan-bhava%E2%80%9D-%E2%80%93-switch-word-from-lord-krishna/

Letting GO in Action: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/02/11/letting-go-in-action/

Life situations where Walnut is helpful

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT

To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET

Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM

To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)

To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.

To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT

Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT

When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT

Work is not challenging: WALNUT

Puberty: WALNUT

To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS

WALNUT protects our boundaries

First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT

I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT

I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT

The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM

When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT

When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.

The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit).

When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT.

When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)

All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT

He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT

When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT

When anybody is merciless: WALNUT

When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT

Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT

For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT

Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy.

Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT

If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)

If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT

To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT

Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time

Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child

The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self).

Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy.

Walnut tree is big.  When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.

Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT

Give the remedies always separately.

In Nutshell

The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!

Adjust to Improve

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

Adjust and Change means improvement. If there is no development or improvement: WALNUT

Want to improve handwriting of children: WALNUT

For total communication with the body and to enable child bearing: WALNUT from the first day of marriage. As giving birth is a transition and a change. If there is no physical problem, then Walnut is the remedy for two bodies to unite and give birth to a baby, with help of Divinity.

To adapt or Adjust, one has to be flexible to difficult circumstances, free from rigidity (unable to change), and adamancy. For rigidity and adamancy WALNUT is the remedy.

In an exam you want easy question paper (I don’t want a difficult question paper): WALNUT

When there is a hard person too difficult to deal with – a hard nut to crack: WALNUT.

Related Posts

Just Married: http://healbyanimalspirits.wordpress.com/2012/10/18/just-married/

Adjust to difficulty:http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/11/06/adjust-to-difficulty/

Want to forget everything now

10 years ago
by admin in

Jayati Banerjee

I got married in 2006. I loved my husband but he had extra marital. The marriage lasted only two months. I want to forget everything now but cannot.

Please help me. I am going into depression.

Naran

Take the flower remedies RESCUE REMEDY, WHITE CHESTNUT, HOLLY, WILLOW, and WALNUT – put 6 pills of each in a bottle of water (200 ml is enough). Have about 5 to 6 sips from that water daily for about a month

Explanation

Manage this unbearable situation: RESCUE REMEDY

By coming out of the thoughts: WHITE CHESTNUT

Anger: HOLLY

And resentment: WILLOW

Once for all: WALNUT

Related Posts

Fear manifests what we do not want: http://reachnaran.com/fear-manifests-what-we-do-not-want/

I am a divorcee, want to marry again: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/i-am-a-divorcee-want-to-marry-again/

Life situations where Walnut is helpful

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

When I go to a person for request: (Bach Flower Remedies) BEECH and WALNUT

To make person easily approachable: WALNUT and WATER VIOLET

Uphill task: WALNUT and HORNBEAM

To begin: WALNUT is like ‘PILLAYAR SULI” (a symbol in Tamil that invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha – the remover of obstacles)

To end: WALNUT because beginning is end of something else.

To begin communication, to re-establish communication and I don’t know how to start the communication: WALNUT

Sharing the ancestral property: WALNUT

When one withholds info, as in a therapy: AGRIMONY and WALNUT

Work is not challenging: WALNUT

Puberty: WALNUT

To come out of too much of TV watching and speaking on mobile phones, or any other form of addiction: WALNUT, SCLERANTHUS

WALNUT protects our boundaries

First marriage ended in a divorce, not to attract the same type of person in the second marriage: WALNUT

I feel rejected: CHICORY, WALNUT

I am easily offended (highly sensitive): CHICORY, HOLLY, and WALNUT

The antonym of attraction is Resistance – resistance means to fight against or refrain from temptation. To refrain from any temptation: WALNUT and CHERRY PLUM

When the child revolts and throw temper tantrums: CHICORY, HOLLY and WALNUT

When completion is not happening in any work, for example not completing the book you promised to write and it’s half-done: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Defense against a verbal attack – WALNUT, PINE (when you are constantly criticized) – for example, due a strict father his son is afraid.

The antonym of attraction is Hindrance. Therefore, to give/get a helping hand: WALNUT (it works like Wolf animal spirit). When there is Delay, Obstruction, and Resistance: WALNUT. When somebody prevents (hinders) promotion: WILLOW and WALNUT (“if he wants, he can help but he didn’t or he spoiled it”)

All of us worried about ****** (7.5 years itch): WALNUT

He is afraid he will fail in the exam (transition from one class to another), Interview or reapplying for a new passport: WALNUT

When others are unreasonable: WILLOW, WALNUT

When anybody is merciless: WALNUT

When a person is avoiding you: ROCK WATER, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT

Reconciling to the situation: WALNUT

For a caring, co-operative, friendly, generous, helpful, kind atmosphere: WALNUT

Any stiffness: WALNUT, ROCK WATER. When the atmosphere is tensed, when there is tension, WALNUT is the remedy. Walnut is the remedy for relaxation. Antonyms for stiff are easy and relax. For relaxation – WALNUT

If you are uncomfortable to attend a VIP’s marriage: WALNUT, WATER VIOLET and LARCH (you will be treated well)

If anyone is possessive, selfish, greedy, demanding, stingy: CHICORY, WALNUT

To stop the bleeding: RESCUE REMEDY, WALNUT

Want to hurry up: IMPATIENS and WALNUT – then the program may not start on time

Children during teenage — not to be influenced by peers and friends – WALNUT protects the child

The child will cry, whenever parents criticize: RESCUE REMEDY and WALNUT (it will find balance and protect self). Due to constant criticism a child will become HEATHER. To prevent that from happening in the future, Walnut is the remedy. Walnut tree is big.  When the flower blooms its smell is so strong, insects and other flies will keep away. So it can protect the self.

Allergic to smell – (gem remedy) YELLOW SAPPHIRE and WALNUT

Give the remedies always separately.

In Nutshell

The goal of Walnut’s healing is to have constancy and stability in one’s life!!!

REGAINED My Faith

10 years ago
by admin in

Student

Today, I listened to your SPECIAL MANTRAS CD while travelling to office. I felt immense gratitude in heart while listening to the DIVINE VOICE (I mean it).

There were some SPECIAL changes happening within when I completely concentrated with closed eyes and listened to “VALLABAM GAJAANANAM EKADHANTHAM”

As I had expressed my worry during our session in Mumbai that my entire marriage story/receipts in a file given to the lawyers was lost in mid-March by them.

This shattered my faith in lawyers, who happens to be very good to me and my parents, yet politically smart.

To my surprise, my lawyer calls me today the moment I enter office, when I stop the Mantra CD midway.

He told me that another lawyer has brought the file as he had forgotten the file in his room which they had not SEARCHED. My file was all alone, unhampered, and safe.

I regained my faith in my lawyers and totally BELIEVE NOW that they will get me JUSTICE.

Related Blog Post

Meditation and Healing CDs from Naran: http://reachnaran.com/meditation-and-healing-cds-from-naran/

How to deal with negative energy?

10 years ago
by admin in

Kittu

My neighbour is a very good friend of my father. He claims to be very good astrologer with accurate predictions.

Whenever he comes at our home he says that I won’t get married for next one more year, no matter how much efforts we put or good proposals come coz I have debilitated mars and ******.

My parents do not believe much in astrology but that uncle always says something negative regarding my marriage and now whenever any proposal turn down. My parents have also started saying that may be that uncle is right and this in turn affects my thoughts and positivity.

As we have familiar relations with their family, we can’t say directly anything to them. How to deal with this negative energy (thoughts) that he brought as he always discourages me and my parents.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for 100 times daily: “I Kittu forgive you … (name of the uncle). You please forgive me and release me”.

Everyday morning when you wake up, say three times, “I thank Mars and ****** for keeping this person away from influencing me”.

Kittu

I am glad to inform you that after doing that forgiving exercise for a week, that uncle have said nothing negative. In fact, he came only twice in this month and both the time I was not at home.

He sent me some sweets and a gift also telling that he treats me like a daughter, so things are at peace.

Should I continue this or anything else?

Naran

Continue.

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Lalitham mantras for abundance: http://reachnaran.com/lalitham-mantras-for-abundance/

Handling unresolved issues: http://reachnaran.com/handling-unresolved-issues/

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