Posts tagged mental
Stop the mind chattering
Naran
WHITE CHESTNUT person wants to come out of his thoughts. They say, “I am always having mental arguments within me. I want to be quite for some time. But I cannot stop it.”
To come out of this take the Bach Flower Remedy WHITE CHESTNUT.
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Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Doing Well in the Examination Hall
Naran
During the examination, a student makes silly and careless mistakes. Probably due to lack of time, he is writing answers without any thinking.
While going through the question paper, he may find a question, for which he doesn’t know the answer.
He will become restless suddenly and will start writing the exam hastily. So his answers will tend to be wrong.
He may also go into a negative HORNBEAM state. Starting problem leads to mental weariness.
Immediately a crisis of confidence may occur – ELM.
A sudden regression may lead to sudden loss of memory – state of GENTIAN, and nothing seems to be remembered.
To avoid all these possible negative states in the examination hall, one can take the following flower remedies:
- Impatiens: not to do anything in a hurry
- Hornbeam: overcome mental weariness
- Elm: overcome any sudden crisis of confidence
- Gentian: prevents any regression and
- Wild Rose: when you try to speed up doing something, your mind has to be calm. Wild rose gives that to you and will liven up your enthusiasm throughout the examination. Also, you will have plenty of time to complete the exam!
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Recreate the Life You Want
Naran
I am Helpless and Living In Hell! How can I create my world?
As long as I believe that I and My Mind are one and the same, and accepting whatever mind creates, my life is helpless and hell.
As long as I am not aware that I can RECREATE or REPROGRAM my life, I lose all the power.
Not knowing that I can reprogram my mind and life is ignorance.
Our mind is full of emotions, thoughts, and reactions. As long as they alone make up our mind, we don’t have any choice but to live our lives without any power.
Become POWERFUL
When there is awareness, when we come to know that we are not our mind, a new POWER surges in.
We will be able to RECREATE our own world to an extent with this little awareness. We can then become POWERFUL and take our lives into our own hands.
Releasing is a self-empowering tool, which changes our outlook about our lives.
What is this technique all about?
It is simply a process of letting go and releasing the emotions and thoughts as and when they arise.
How to implement it?
It is very simple. Whenever we tend to react, just say, “I let go this feeling”.
E.g., “Fear, can you please go? This is not the time for you. For the time being please go out. This is not your place either.”
See what happens. The mind becomes baffled and the emotion flees.
Do not react, but release and act
Reactions destroy our peace of mind. Once our uncontrollable emotions and thoughts are let off, we will find a peace deep inside us.
Releasing is a technique for allowing us to change on the spot.
Releasing allows us to handle any problem by releasing and letting go and thus stops the inner mental struggle.
Reactions intensify the mental struggle. Releasing gives us a new outlook. Reactions repeat the same drama.
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Changes begins from us
Question: What is a Rogue husband? Do we refer to infidelity or incompatibility or uncaring?
Naran
It means all.
It is her view. We don’t know whether a person is a rogue or not.
However, the healing is always given to a person who makes a complaint about the other. As a healer, we assess the mental state (of the person complaining) and give the remedies.
Question: Is it possible for a man who has led a wayward life since his teens change into a good man with the help of remedies?
Naran
Anybody can change into a better person, provided he wants to.
However, the healing is always aimed at the self.
If you are putting up with a person, who is wayward, you have to change yourself. Heal your emotions; heal your reactions; heal your way of thinking.
If you are able to change effect in yourself, by taking the appropriate remedies, the opposite person will change.
In any relationship, one has to change to see the change in the other. This is the rule.
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Bring back the Love
Gayatri
My sister got married 19 yrs ago. Not even single day, she was happy. My brother-in-law is not going for job and living with some other woman.
Naran
Chant “REVERSE CHANGE CLEAR POINT DIVINE”
Explanation
REVERSE the current situation
CHANGE to the situation wanted by CLEARING the mental debris
And celebrate: POINT
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Treating Corn
Naran
Extra waste materials in the lymphatic glands and kidneys are put in the feet by the system to be on a safer side.
Mental reason for corn is stubbornness.
We have to find out where all we are inflexible or stubborn.
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