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How to criticize others?

SD

By nature I am very candid and not diplomatic.

Also, I am very open to negative feedback too, when someone is giving me a feedback – at home or at work.

However, at home (mine is a joint family), everyone dislikes me since I am very frank. Although, I am very efficient with house work and do not compromise on my duties.

One of my boss (I have 2 bosses) was very good to me and appreciated my work etc, until a while ago when I was frank in expressing some work-related issue.

Now one boss is still ok, since he knows that I am good at work and I am very frank – that is my nature.

Another boss is all angry with me and at every meeting makes sure that he puts me down or talks negatively when it comes to my work.

Can I chant something please, especially that both my husband and my boss should start appreciating me?

Naran 

If you want to maintain your candidness, you can get these only.

You do not point out the mistake only. You point out the good points also. If you want to point the mistake then do it with love.

Related Posts

Others will criticize me: http://studyforsuccess.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/afraid-people-will-criticize-me/

I feel small, when he criticizes me: https://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/i-feel-small-when-he-criticizes-me-%E2%80%93-a-case-history/

Your Agenda Vs Divine Agenda

Naran

Suri walked into my office with a dejected face. He was worried that he is in trouble, for he hasn’t achieved last month’s sales target due to his own personal commitments.

He is worried that his manager will blast him during their next monthly meeting.

I said his worry is based on his own agenda, while the divine’s agenda might be different, He thinks his manager would question about the dip in sales, while divine mayn’t make the manger raise the topic at all.

Instead of expecting to have problem and keeps on worrying about it, he is overriding the divine agenda and mentally forcing the manager to bring the subject.

So, I asked him to stop thinking about the subject, and prepare his usual monthly report that he normally prepares for the monthly meeting.

I also suggested him to chant the names of the Bach Flower remedies, “ELM, OAK, CHESTNUT BUD”.

I gave Elm and Oak to be ready for any unexpected questions and Chestnut Bud not to repeat the mistake once again.

The monthly meeting happened. His boss never even mentioned about the sale’s target and moved onto other issues.

Let us be silent and allow divine to work its agenda.

Related Posts

Lot of work at home: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/10/02/lot-of-work-at-home/

Reaching for greater heights: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/02/27/reaching-for-greater-heights/

Bach Flower Remedies June 27 2009 Part II: http://reachnaran.com/bach-flower-remedies-june-27-2009-part-ii/

Office Remedies Part I

Naran

Convincing about a useless product

I am asked to market a useless product. I don’t know how to convince the customers:

GENTIAN (for being discouraged) and WILLOW (for resentment)

Add LARCH to develop confidence in you to sell

To convince others – especially in selling, VERVAIN

Implement a process change

WALNUT, OAK (he goes in the same path, and so doesn’t look for alternatives) and HORNBEAM

Asking for leave

Asking for leave at the last moment, keep postponing it – because initially “my Boss will say no”

MIMULUS to face the boss

WALNUT for rapport with the boss

CENTAURY to speak your cause assertively

WILLOW: To avoid blaming the boss

No empowerment

My boss will put me in a critical situation giving an impression that why not I do the job myself.

If I do it independently though, she would get upset because I have done the job without consulting her.

WILLOW (blaming) and SCLERANTHUS (for fear of getting confusing instructions)

Getting shouted at

In front of everybody my boss shouts – “I didn’t make any mistake why should I be blamed.”

WILLOW (resentment) and add PINE (for being blamed) and LARCH (losing confidence) CRAB APPLE (what others will think about me)

Not satisfied with her own performance

Even though she has got a very good rating, she is not happy about the job she has done.

Pine for being not satisfied with one’s own work

Develop Creativity

Multimedia: ELM, CLEMATIS

Public Meeting

ELM, GORSE and HEATHER is for public presentation

Managing an incompetent person

I have to manage somebody who is not good. He is related to one of the directors.

WILLOW for resentment

BEECH for criticising

CENTAURY: because of inability to voice one’s opinion

Related Blogs

Winning Presentations: http://reachnaran.com/winning-presentations/

Sales Exam: http://reachnaran.com/sales-exam/

Don’t Upset Me! Be Nice!!

Client

What you said is true… that inanimate objects also have some energies and feelings. I experienced it twice at least, which I observed.

My washing machine is huge, turbo sized, so I thought I can put heavy loads. One day, I over stuffed it knowing it is heavy load. It stopped in between giving process error. I tried moving things around still it said it is unbalanced.

So, I was talking to it, rubbing my hand and said “I am sorry. I overstuffed. I am giving you Reiki now. Please wash it this time. I will not give heavy load again”.

I turned it on again and it finished the full cycle without any problem 🙂

Recently being human, I forgot and overstuffed it again but it was not very heavy load. It did not run for more than 2 minutes. No matter what I did. I tried to drain it and spin so clothes do not get spoilt overnight. It did not work.

It was so adamant. It kept giving process error and did not budge. I told it “I am so sorry, it is my mistake. I will give you Reiki, and can you please just rinse and take out water… no need to wash also. Just drain the water, spin it and give to me, I will wash as two cycles again tomorrow. Can you do that for me?”

Then I turned it on again at rinse. It worked!! It drained and spin without any noise and issues.

I am now careful not make it upset 🙂 

Related Blogs

Manifesting whatever you want: http://reachnaran.com/manifesting-whatever-you-want/

Art of Reading Divine Messages: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/03/15/art-of-reading-divine-messages/

The Energy Factor: http://reachnaran.com/the-energy-factor/

Knee and Toe problems

Naran

“HARE RAMA HARA KRISHNA” is the mantra to be chanted.

After old age, we tend to get knee problems. It is very important to take care of this part of the body.

Right knee represents issues with father, left knee represents mother, while toes are concerned with children.

Whether we think what we do is right or wrong, if we have a problem in knee or toes, it indicates we are making a mistake and need to change in some way. Chant “HARE RAMA HARE KRISHNA” to change yourself.

Change should happen within. Stubbornness and inflexibility will need to change into flexibility. By chanting this mantra as it makes us flexible.

Our outlook of life becomes flexible and open.

“I am flexible” and “I will adjust”– we say. In fact, we are opposite, because if we are flexible then we won’t say so.

We are not flexible because we want to control every event to our satisfaction. Then we will not be happy. The desire to change or control will be there in every action of ours.

Release your desire to change or control and accept others as they are.

Acceptance has to be there. If you are not resisting even in mind, any resistance (opposition) to life situations will not be present.

Rama was asked to go to the forest. While Lakshman opposed Rama didn’t oppose it. While all others resisted, Rama accepted it gracefully because he saw the divine plan behind going to the forest for fourteen years.

How do we operate in our lives? Life is nothing but a string of polarities. Our life is motivated by advantages and disadvantages.

The doctor asks you to get admitted in hospital for 10 days. This mantra will get you discharged easily. Both patient and his family can chant it.

Related Blogs

Story of Rama: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2014/01/14/story-of-rama/

Hospital Mantra 24/7: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/01/22/hospital-mantra-247/

Cannot support my parents: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/07/15/cannot-support-my-parents/

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