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How to handle people who are angry?

9 years ago
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Naran

If someone is angry against you, the FIRE element is more inside you.

To pacify it, you have to react in a different way. If you activate WATER and EARTH elements, then you will become patient and relaxed.

The PRAN MUDRA – little and ring fingers touching the tip on both the hands, will activate your earth and water elements.

When such an unusual response is given – instead of reacting with other person angrily, you treat him in a peaceful manner, then the opposite person don’t have a choice but to react in a different way.

We can also reduce our Anger.

 

Achieve Your Sales Targets

9 years ago
by admin in

Sunil Ahuja

I am a Real Estate agent. I want to sell my hired residential Real Estate project within a targeted time period…

I have gone thru most of your website contents and very much impressed with it.

Naran

  1. Chant “TOGETHER FIND DIVINE clients GIVE COUNT NOW HALFWAY”
  2. Download a picture of CITRINE and EMERALD (gem stones) and keep it in your pocket.
  3. Take the Bach flower remedies SCLERANTHUS and IMPATIENS, 3 pills, 3 times a day.

Explanation

For selling: GIVE is the switch word

To do it faster: HALFWAY

Increase in sales: CITRINE

Communicating well with clients: EMERALD

Reach the target within a targeted time: SCLERANTHUS and IMPATIENS (when you are impatient, the opposite persons will be those who are slow – so Scleranthus)

Detach Emotionally

10 years ago
by admin in

Ravi

I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.

I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.

I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).

Related Posts

How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/

Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/

Preventing Accidents

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

The Bach Flower IMPATIENS can be helpful in preventing an accident.

Rash and reckless driving is the mark of an Impatiens state. In reckless state, there is a lack of thought about danger and undesirable consequences.

While self-driving, take the flower remedy Impatiens. Then you will be vibrating with the energy of the flower Impatiens – which provides you caution and carefulness.

When you are projecting carefulness, the opposite persons will also be cautious and careful as they come near you – like attracts like. Then you can drive safely.

Related Posts

Impatiens Discussion with Naran: http://reachnaran.com/impatiens-discussion-with-naran/

How to avoid accidents: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/06/27/how-to-avoid-accidents/

Mantras for Physical Wellness: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2011/10/28/mantras-for-physical-wellness/

Chicory

10 years ago
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The Bach Flower Remedy Chicory

Key words

Possessiveness, Self-Love, Self-Pity, Always Demanding, Noticeable, Attracting Attention

Indications

  • They try to attract others attention: for example, infants attract attention by crying when you leave them alone or we try to impress others sometimes by flattery.
  • Will be overeager to help.
  • They get angry, if they find no gratitude from the person benefited by them.
  • Their possessive nature can make the opposite person as a Centaury. Please note here, fear of rejection indicates a Centaury, while the person who instils a fear of rejection on others is Chicory.
  • Chicory will not give anything free – there is a hidden agenda behind every transaction he makes.
  • A Chicory person always attracts the attention of others.
  • Always demanding and expects a great deal from others.
  • He is possessive, extremely interfering, secretly manipulating and easily hurt.
  • He has a feeling of unwanted.
  • Over protection and too much parenting.
  • Constantly concerned with the affairs of the family, always interfering.
  • Behind all Chicory type, there lies a deep lack of fulfilment, often a feeling of not being loved.
  • Desires for company for his selfish ends.
  • He is a stingy person.
  • Easily offended or hurt – self-pity.
  • Pretending illness to attract others pity.
  • Always speaks about what others owe her.
  • Extremely nagging – the in-laws remedy.
  • Thinks, feels that everyone is there for his help.
  • Goes to the extent of weeping or pretending to be ill to get his things done.
  • There is constant fear of loss.
  • Emotional demanding always.
  • Behind the Chicory state, an internal emptiness is more.
  • Watching over the needs, wishes and progress of family and friends.
  • Always ready to comment, to correct others or to advise others.
  • The emotional control is subtle, making others dependent.
  • He will manipulate to impose his will.
  • The Chicory finds it hard to let go, feels easily offended or hurt; becomes ill to gain sympathy, always expecting others to live in the feeling of gratitude to her.
  • Chicory children throw temper tantrums.
  • The Chicory child will weep and get things done.
  • If weeping doesn’t pay, he will indulge in flattery or helps you in house hold work.
  • Always demanding, tries to seek attention.
  • The Chicory baby always wants her to be held in the lap all the time.
  • The Chicory child likes to be carried always.
  • Would weep if said anything.
  • Over care and over concern for hurt feelings.
  • Always seeks company.
  • Heart Chakra is closed for Chicory people.  Pray to Chicory to be active in the Heart Chakra.

Chicory says

  • Threatening: “I will do homework, but I will not go to the music class.  If you agree for my condition, then I will finish up all my homework now”.
  • “I am angry at his ingratitude, and he cheated me. I have done so much to him” – Chicory + Chestnut bud.
  • Chicory person makes others feel guilty by saying, “You have just used me.”
  • “After all that I have done for you, this is how you treat me”.
  • “I have given her a sari on her birthday and all that I get from her on my birth day is a card.”
  • Emotional black mailing – “How can I live without you?”
  • “Think of what I have done for you” and then bursting in to tears.
  • “My dear son, I miss you so much, the house is vacant.”
  • He sometimes become ill, he may resort to black mail. “I will study after this, if you allow me to browse the Internet.”
  • “People should respect me.”

Ailments

  • Eating disorders
  • Hysterical Neurosis  – convulsion type
  • Histrionic personality disorder

Usage

  • “Live and let live” is the positive Chicory.
  • Chicory + Walnut – when the child starts schooling
  • Chicory + Walnut – for a second wife
  • Chicory + Star of Bethlehem – if a person whom you love is dead
  • Chicory – for separation.
  • Chicory: I want love and attention
  • Chicory: I feel that nobody recognises my importance
  • Chicory: I have a fear of loneliness
  • Chicory: I feel I am neglected
  • Chicory: I feel unloved by my loved ones
  • Chicory: Others say that I am of a highly interfering type
  • Chicory: I can’t be alone; I always need company
  • Chicory: I often enjoy giving my opinions and advice to others; but I feel hurt/offended when they reject my advice
  • Mimulus, Chicory: My child stays close to my side; rarely goes alone; does nothing alone
  • Chicory: Cries a lot when starting for the school
  • Chicory, Mimulus: The child becomes upset even if mildly criticized
  • Mimulus, Chicory: Burst into tears for no apparent reason
  • Chicory: The child clings to mother

Solution to get back money given to others

10 years ago
by admin in

Richard

I run a naturopath in UK. Could you please advise me about Bach flower remedy for getting the money back, which we had given to others.

Naran

  1. Take CENTAURY, CHICORY, ROCK WATER and CHESTNUT BUD, 3 pills each three times a day.
  2. Take MUSTARD + AVENTURINE separately one dose in the morning and one dose in the night.

Explanation

When the other person says, “I will give the money tomorrow or later”, he is not in a position to resist him and say anything against what he says. He cannot antagonize him at any point of time. Such a person needs CENTAURY.

Now you wanted the money back (CHICORY). They dodge paying you (CHESTNUT BUD). The opposite person to such a person will be a ROCK WATER person.

To find a solution to this problem: MUSTARD.

The gem remedy AVENTURINE activates the heart center. It is available at the Centre.

Related Posts

Gem of a Luck: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2013/09/17/gem-of-a-luck/

Converting unwanted to wanted: http://reachnaran.com/converting-unwanted-to-wanted/

Make them pay my money: http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/09/16/make-them-pay-my-money/

Program Your Life – Part I

10 years ago
by admin in

Letting GO is the Nature of LIFE

Naran

When you look at the whole world you will understand we only are holding on to mind.

What is the opposite of letting go? “Holding on to” is the opposite word. Holding will restrict us. Letting go expands us.

By letting go you are discharging from yourself what is not required by you, like Water putting out the Fire. Body and Nature Follows this rule 100%.

Watch the body. What it does?

Whatever is inhaled, lungs have to exhale out. Lungs cannot keep the air even for one second.

Heart – what does it do? It takes in blood and sends it out immediately. Blood enters the heart through Auricles and let out through Ventricles.

Whatever you take in, has to be let it out. It is the natural process of the body.

Lungs contract to let go, kidneys contract to let go urine, intestines peristaltically (downward movement) contract to let go the faeces and skin lets go by sweat.

The mouth lets go whatever you eat to the stomach. Stomach lets it go to the intestine. Intestine and kidneys let go as excretion.

Morning lets go to the noon, the noon lets go and becomes afternoon. Afternoon lets go and become the evening, and then evening to night. Each and every second gives way to the next.

Let go before taking the action. Then let go the emotions and thoughts attached to results.

Ask the questions:

  • What do you expect to achieve?
  • What is the driver desire or wanting behind each emotion and thought?
  • Wanting to control or change?
  • Wanting appreciation, recognition? (Desire for Approval)
  • Wanting more security? (fearful)

With this technique, you are not prevented from doing anything. Let go emotions as well as thoughts, and then Act.

“You are only entitled to Act. Don’t think about the result while doing” – says Lord Krishna in Bhagavat Gita.

The theory, we propose here is a new dimension to Bhagavat Gita and a new understanding of the Gita.

Read the 2nd part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-ii/

Establishing harmony WITH a person

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

WITH means is to be compatible with the opposite or concerned person.

TOGETHER DIVINE WITH … (Name of the person), when you want the other person to agree with you

When you want a harmonious atmosphere chant CLEAR TOGETHER DIVINE WITH. If you chant this switch word combination, the atmosphere will change beautifully.

The meaning of CLEAR is light. When there is light in a place, there cannot be darkness (problem or disharmony).  CLEAR has been in use since thousand years. CLEAR is a very powerful word.

No need to chant the names of the persons to be healed

Don’t bother about the names of the persons who need harmony. Just chant CLEAR TOGETHER DIVINE WITH.  Still it works beautifully.

At the subconscious level of the mind there is no ‘you’ and ‘me’. Everything is one. At the subconscious level there is no differentiation, all are one. The difference is because of the body, and of the mind’s association with the body. That’s why we see the difference between each other

So you don’t have to add the names of the persons to be healed, when you chant the words. You can simply chant CLEAR TOGETHER DIVINE WITH. Automatically harmony will settle in.

Related Posts

Centre for Harmony: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/11/10/centre-for-harmony/

Harmony and Love waiting @ your doorstep: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/04/24/harmony-and-love-waiting-your-door-step/

Family Harmony: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/08/18/family-harmony/

Changes begins from us

10 years ago
by admin in

Question: What is a Rogue husband? Do we refer to infidelity or incompatibility or uncaring?

Naran

It means all.

It is her view. We don’t know whether a person is a rogue or not.

However, the healing is always given to a person who makes a complaint about the other. As a healer, we assess the mental state (of the person complaining) and give the remedies.

Question: Is it possible for a man who has led a wayward life since his teens change into a good man with the help of remedies?

Naran

Anybody can change into a better person, provided he wants to.

However, the healing is always aimed at the self.

If you are putting up with a person, who is wayward, you have to change yourself. Heal your emotions; heal your reactions; heal your way of thinking.

If you are able to change effect in yourself, by taking the appropriate remedies, the opposite person will change.

In any relationship, one has to change to see the change in the other. This is the rule.

Related Posts

I hate my father-in-law: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/07/25/i-hate-my-father-in-law/

Pluses and Minuses: http://reachnaran.com/pluses-and-minuses/

Managing a Rogue Husband: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/managing-a-rogue-husband/

Scared to ride my scooter again

10 years ago
by admin in

JJ

My problem is that 12 years back, I had a scooter and sold it for my financial problems.

Now, one of my friends went to abroad and gave his Scooty to me. Till date, I did not use it.

While taking it I am getting shivering. I put sudden breaks on the middle of the road if I see anyone coming opposite to me.

Pls help me to take out my scare.

Naran

Take the flower remedies RESCUE REMEDY and MIMULUS before riding the scooter.

Explanation

For removing the scare: Mimulus

When you shiver and panic: Rescue Remedy

Related Posts

Explanation in “There is no second chance in marriage”: http://healbyeft.wordpress.com/2012/08/09/there-is-no-second-chance-in-marriage/

Failed road test: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/10/11/failed-road-test/

Scared to take the exam: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/03/04/scared-to-take-the-exam/

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