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Change Divine Order Vs Find Divine Order
GA
I want to ask one question. Our scriptures say that each and everything is happening in this universe according to the Will of Supreme Lord.
It means good or bad whatever happens, it happens according to His Absolute Will. This is what I consider as Divine Order.
When everything is already in Divine Order i.e. according to His Will then what is the real meaning, significance of Switch Words “FIND DIVINE ORDER” and “CHANGE DIVINE ORDER”?
Naran
There is no good or bad event. It is our judgments which separate any event.
When we think the event is bad, we deviate from the DIVINE ORDER.
Therefore, the mind is instructed to re-align with the divine order by the Switch word CHANGE. When the mind does not accept what is happening, we are commanding the mind to change.
To know what is in store for us, we FIND DIVINE ORDER.
Similarly, there is no bad person. The so called bad person has deviated from the DIVINE CENTER.
Instead of changing him, we have to accept him as he is, for which CHANGE DIVINE ORDER will be helpful.
When we try to change him, we deviate from the CENTER.
By chanting CHANGE DIVINE ORDER, we will change our view towards the other person and re-align with the center divine; we will have a different outlook.
Any how this has to be done for a long period of time, analyzing our behaviour at each and every step.
Read the reply, I gave to Bhavi: http://reachnaran.com/what-is-going-to-happen-will-happen-why-to-chant/
Related Posts
Change for a better offer: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2012/11/21/change-for-a-better-offer/
How to use Switch Words: https://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2011/10/20/how-to-use-switch-words/
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Recreate the Life You Want
Naran
I am Helpless and Living In Hell! How can I create my world?
As long as I believe that I and My Mind are one and the same, and accepting whatever mind creates, my life is helpless and hell.
As long as I am not aware that I can RECREATE or REPROGRAM my life, I lose all the power.
Not knowing that I can reprogram my mind and life is ignorance.
Our mind is full of emotions, thoughts, and reactions. As long as they alone make up our mind, we don’t have any choice but to live our lives without any power.
Become POWERFUL
When there is awareness, when we come to know that we are not our mind, a new POWER surges in.
We will be able to RECREATE our own world to an extent with this little awareness. We can then become POWERFUL and take our lives into our own hands.
Releasing is a self-empowering tool, which changes our outlook about our lives.
What is this technique all about?
It is simply a process of letting go and releasing the emotions and thoughts as and when they arise.
How to implement it?
It is very simple. Whenever we tend to react, just say, “I let go this feeling”.
E.g., “Fear, can you please go? This is not the time for you. For the time being please go out. This is not your place either.”
See what happens. The mind becomes baffled and the emotion flees.
Do not react, but release and act
Reactions destroy our peace of mind. Once our uncontrollable emotions and thoughts are let off, we will find a peace deep inside us.
Releasing is a technique for allowing us to change on the spot.
Releasing allows us to handle any problem by releasing and letting go and thus stops the inner mental struggle.
Reactions intensify the mental struggle. Releasing gives us a new outlook. Reactions repeat the same drama.
Related Posts
Create a new healthy body: http://reachnaran.com/create-a-new-healthy-body/
My married life is like living in a hostel: http://reachnaran.com/my-married-life-is-like-living-in-a-hostel/
Positive vs. Negative thoughts: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2013/07/08/positive-vs-negative-thoughts/
Knee and Toe problems
Naran
“HARE RAMA HARA KRISHNA” is the mantra to be chanted.
After old age, we tend to get knee problems. It is very important to take care of this part of the body.
Right knee represents issues with father, left knee represents mother, while toes are concerned with children.
Whether we think what we do is right or wrong, if we have a problem in knee or toes, it indicates we are making a mistake and need to change in some way. Chant “HARE RAMA HARE KRISHNA” to change yourself.
Change should happen within. Stubbornness and inflexibility will need to change into flexibility. By chanting this mantra as it makes us flexible.
Our outlook of life becomes flexible and open.
“I am flexible” and “I will adjust”– we say. In fact, we are opposite, because if we are flexible then we won’t say so.
We are not flexible because we want to control every event to our satisfaction. Then we will not be happy. The desire to change or control will be there in every action of ours.
Release your desire to change or control and accept others as they are.
Acceptance has to be there. If you are not resisting even in mind, any resistance (opposition) to life situations will not be present.
Rama was asked to go to the forest. While Lakshman opposed Rama didn’t oppose it. While all others resisted, Rama accepted it gracefully because he saw the divine plan behind going to the forest for fourteen years.
How do we operate in our lives? Life is nothing but a string of polarities. Our life is motivated by advantages and disadvantages.
The doctor asks you to get admitted in hospital for 10 days. This mantra will get you discharged easily. Both patient and his family can chant it.
Related Blogs
Story of Rama: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2014/01/14/story-of-rama/
Hospital Mantra 24/7: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/01/22/hospital-mantra-247/
Cannot support my parents: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/07/15/cannot-support-my-parents/