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My husband stopped drinking
Discussion
Raji: I am married for 8 years. I have a daughter who is 7yrs old. When I became pregnant, I got separated from my husband.
Naran: Are you still separated?
Raji: No. We are living together for the last one year.
Naran: What is your problem since you had been together?
Raji: My husband is an alcoholic. Once in 3 or 4 days, he gets drunk as well as daily consuming Pan Parag (a tobacco product).
Naran: Since how long he has been an alcoholic?
Raji: According to my in laws he started drinking from his graduation days.
Naran: Explain his behavior after he gets drunk?
Raji: He will get angry at me and my daughter; will shout.
Naran: What does he shout about?
Raji: He will say, “Nobody respects me. There is no respect for me even in my own house. My daughter does not respect me. My friends, my employees, and my parents don’t respect me either. I will teach all of them a lesson”.
After the outburst, he will start weeping.
Naran’s Analysis
To be respected is the key word for ROCK WATER.
He is weeping. By losing control of himself, he weeps. Therefore, add CHERRY PLUM.
Rock Water will ultimately turn into either CHESTNUT BUD or VINE.
Discussion (cont…)
Naran: How is his behavior when he is not under the influence of alcohol?
Raji: His behavior is quite normal only. He shows his love for his daughter. In fact he sincerely made efforts for our reunion.
(Naran questioned further about her husband’s profession)
Naran: What is he doing?
Raji: He is running a Screen Printing unit. But it is not doing well.
Naran: How does he manage to pay his workers and take care of the family then?
Raji: He is honest in paying out the dues. Somehow, he will manage to pay the workers first, and then gives me money once a week.
Naran’s Analysis
Honesty – ROCK WATER
When one tries to be honest, in spite of adverse circumstances, self-control is employed to the maximum in one area.
He is so self-controlled in the area of finance that he loses self-control in some other area. Thus when he drinks, he loses his control and starts weeping.
Discussion (cont…)
Naran: Suppose if he can’t pay his dues, then how does he manage?
Raji: Naran, one more thing, I have forgotten to tell you. Every month before paying the rent, he would abscond.
Naran: Why?
Raji: He cannot pay the house rent by first of every month. Therefore, he feels ashamed to meet the house owner. So he would not stay in the house during the first week of the month.
Instead, he would stay with his parents for 4 or 5 days, arrange for the money, and will return back home after paying the rent. He has been doing this for a long time. Though, he would never cheat anybody.
Naran’s Analysis
Honest and at the same time an escapist. This is the case of a ROCK WATER person turning into CHESTNUT BUD character. On the due date, he would abscond (Chestnut Bud).
Key Words for Rock Water
To be respected: Ego and pride; self control, honesty.
Self controlled, honest person expects self respect. As a principle, he would never cheat.
Here the husband doesn’t get respect. His ego is hurt when he is insulted. He loses his control when he drinks.
One more interesting point is Rock Water father will face a Cherry Plum daughter.
Prescription
ROCK WATER, CHERRY PLUM, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT (to break the habit)
Put the combination in the common drinking water, so that everybody will get the healing effect.
Feedback after 15 days
Raji: From the second day onwards, he stopped Pan Parag, and after a week he has stopped drinking.
Adi Sankara and Scientists Think Alike
Naran
Adi Sankara: “The sky blue as we see it as blue as there is a person to see it as blue. If there is nobody to see then what is the color of Sky?”
A Nobel Prize winner says your world is your perception. The same world changes to our thought patterns and everybody see a different world. This is the basis of quantum theory.
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Office Remedies Part I
Naran
Convincing about a useless product
I am asked to market a useless product. I don’t know how to convince the customers:
GENTIAN (for being discouraged) and WILLOW (for resentment)
Add LARCH to develop confidence in you to sell
To convince others – especially in selling, VERVAIN
Implement a process change
WALNUT, OAK (he goes in the same path, and so doesn’t look for alternatives) and HORNBEAM
Asking for leave
Asking for leave at the last moment, keep postponing it – because initially “my Boss will say no”
MIMULUS to face the boss
WALNUT for rapport with the boss
CENTAURY to speak your cause assertively
WILLOW: To avoid blaming the boss
No empowerment
My boss will put me in a critical situation giving an impression that why not I do the job myself.
If I do it independently though, she would get upset because I have done the job without consulting her.
WILLOW (blaming) and SCLERANTHUS (for fear of getting confusing instructions)
Getting shouted at
In front of everybody my boss shouts – “I didn’t make any mistake why should I be blamed.”
WILLOW (resentment) and add PINE (for being blamed) and LARCH (losing confidence) CRAB APPLE (what others will think about me)
Not satisfied with her own performance
Even though she has got a very good rating, she is not happy about the job she has done.
Pine for being not satisfied with one’s own work
Develop Creativity
Multimedia: ELM, CLEMATIS
Public Meeting
ELM, GORSE and HEATHER is for public presentation
Managing an incompetent person
I have to manage somebody who is not good. He is related to one of the directors.
WILLOW for resentment
BEECH for criticising
CENTAURY: because of inability to voice one’s opinion
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Sales Exam
Ashok
I received a call from my manager to give a presentation to a group of clients. I was asked to do it because I was the project manager who developed a core module of our Trading Software.
But, the problem is, we developed it three years back. How I am going to remember the features of the product!
Add to the misery is the fact, being a technical guy, how I am going to explain the business functions of the product!!
Of course, I can’t say no.
So, I called my 24/7 guiding angel Naran. On the way to office, he asked me to pick something from him, which will help me to do the presentation well.
He gave me the symbol 2 and asked me to keep it with me, while I gave the presentation. I did and I can’t believe the way I did. It went on well. Our clients as well as my manager were quite impressed.
In fact, when I later learned from Naran, that symbol can be given to students, to remember during their exam, I couldn’t stop laughing it myself.
Please refer the link to know more about the symbol:
“2 Recall-During-Exam”: http://wp.me/p3zawE-1i