Posts tagged relationship
Detach Emotionally
Ravi
I have a problem of getting emotionally attached to people (especially of the opposite sex). They would come on my mind for maximum times of the day.
I unknowingly get so involved that after some time in the relationship, I say or do things that I don’t want to or that which is not good for the relation. Then of course there is friction in the relation.
I really start to feel the energy when this starts to happen. I try to control but cannot.
Naran
Do the forgiving exercise with EFT (tapping).
Related Posts
How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/
Advantage Acceptance: http://healbyrule.wordpress.com/2009/06/25/advantage-acceptance/
Harmony with neighbor
M
Our neighbour is angry due to misunderstanding.
In a day, we have to face each other in a day many times and she keeps turning her face. Even her other family members are behaving in the same way.
What can I chant to create harmony?
Naran
Chant “AGRIMONY, HEATHER”
M
I was chanting “AGRIMONY, HEATHER” many times a day. My relationship with my neighbour has improved now.
Related Posts
The Peacemaker: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/07/04/the-peacemaker/
No words to describe my joy: http://divineshakthi.wordpress.com/2013/09/08/no-words-to-describe-my-joy/
Convince others easily: http://reachnaran.com/convince-others-easily/
Fear of getting divorced
Shikha
I am facing a lot of problems in marital life. We are on the edge of divorce. I love him and do not want to break this relationship.
Naran
Go all out BOW and CONCEDE to make peace.
Write “PEARL, MIMULUS” 100 times
Explanation
To find the love in your heart and then in life: PEARL
Fear of getting divorced: MIMULUS
BOW and CONCEDE are switch words. You may chant those words too.
Related Posts
Husband said he will never come back, but he did: http://marriagemantri.wordpress.com/2013/04/03/husband-says-he-will-never-come-back/
Make your relationships stronger: http://healbygems.wordpress.com/2012/12/16/make-your-relationships-stronger/
Make your relationship a happy one: http://reachnaran.com/make-your-relationship-a-happy-one/
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Husband not showing any interest
Anita PARAB
I have visited 2-3 astrologers. I am very scared about their predictions as all of them told me that there are 100% chances of separation/divorce in my marriage within next few days/months.
My situation is actually worst. I am chanting TOGETHER DIVINE but not seeing any changes in my situation.
Now, after visiting astrologers I am very depressed as I just wanted to live my life happily without any such drastic changes.
Though my husband is not at all talking to me, not taking care and not at all showing any interest in me from day one of our marriage.
I still love him very much and wanted to live with him only.
Naran
Continue this.
There is one symbol number 47 to unite the broken relationship: http://reachnaran.com/47-broken-relationship/
Write your husband’s name and your name in the empty circle, and chant the switch words, “TOGETHER DIVINE”.
50-Relationship-Bond
The symbol develops bond between two people.
Write the names of the people who need to be bonded in the empty circle.
Chant the switch words “TOGETHER DIVINE”
47-Broken-Relationship
This symbol:
- Restores the lost love
- Rejoins with husband/wife
- Joins the broken relationship
Chant the switch words, “TOGETHER DIVINE”
On the empty circle, write the names of the people you want to get re-joined (one of them could be yourself)
Want to be loved and respected
Karinapach
I have separated from my husband but we are now friends with benefits now and it hurt me. What can I do? Shall I go on?
He says we can have a good relationship in the future but I am not sure. I think I am making things easier for him. I don’t know how to proceed. I admire him a lot!
Naran
What do you want?
Karinapach I want to be loved and respected
Naran
Give love and love and respect all
From ‘I Love Myself’ Workbook
I am Loved
- What will I do today towards (gaining) this aspect of my life?
I am Worthy of Love
- Think about your positive qualities that you have used so far.
- How will you use them today?
In addition, check the link, to know how to gain respect: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2012/03/13/i-deserve-respect/