Posts tagged relationship
Hindrance to a Peaceful Family Life
Subhayu Sur
There is one unwanted relationship in my life, which I want to ward off. This is a one female colleague of mine, who came close to me.
Now, she is not leaving me and being hindrance in my peaceful family life.
Naran
Pray to god to help you come out of this lady.
Daily affirm, “I thank … to have parted from me”.
Thank her (mentally) for what she gave you. At some point she gave what you lacked. Don’t hate her now. Thank her and forgive her as many times as possible.
Write “CHICORY, WALNUT, ROCK ROSE” in a paper and keep it under the pillow.
Explanation
Break the link: WALNUT
To release the part of you that is still attached to her: CHICORY
To be helped in times of need (similar to Wolf): ROCK ROSE
Related Posts
Flowers for Harmony: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-for-harmony-in-relationships-and-family/
Maintain your level of intimacy: http://togetherrelationship.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/how-to-maintain-your-level-of-intimacy/
Feel Love in Plenty: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/06/16/feel-love-in-plenty/
Communication with girlfriend
GKD
I have been reading your blogs since past 3-4 months. I’m amazed with your switch words and Bach remedies. Please help me with my relationship.
My girlfriend broke with me 3 months back because of money issues and problem with her father.
Give me a switch word for getting her back. At least I want to start communicating with her. She is not taking my calls.
NARAN
Chant “BOW CONCEDE, RELEASE RESISTANCE, TOGETHER DIVINE” as many times as possible.
Explanation
To be ego-less, while communicating with your girl-friend: BOW, CONCEDE
Remove internal resistance that stops you from having a harmonious relationship: RELEASE RESISTANCE
Basic mantra for harmonious relationship: TOGETHER DIVINE
Related Posts
Giving up arrogance: http://lifsez.wordpress.com/2013/06/28/give-up-arrogance/
How to attract each other: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/07/29/how-to-attract-each-other/
Harmony is wanted: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/11/01/harmony-is-wanted/
Changes begins from us
Question: What is a Rogue husband? Do we refer to infidelity or incompatibility or uncaring?
Naran
It means all.
It is her view. We don’t know whether a person is a rogue or not.
However, the healing is always given to a person who makes a complaint about the other. As a healer, we assess the mental state (of the person complaining) and give the remedies.
Question: Is it possible for a man who has led a wayward life since his teens change into a good man with the help of remedies?
Naran
Anybody can change into a better person, provided he wants to.
However, the healing is always aimed at the self.
If you are putting up with a person, who is wayward, you have to change yourself. Heal your emotions; heal your reactions; heal your way of thinking.
If you are able to change effect in yourself, by taking the appropriate remedies, the opposite person will change.
In any relationship, one has to change to see the change in the other. This is the rule.
Related Posts
I hate my father-in-law: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2009/07/25/i-hate-my-father-in-law/
Pluses and Minuses: http://reachnaran.com/pluses-and-minuses/
Managing a Rogue Husband: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/managing-a-rogue-husband/
Afraid of bad news
Madhu
From beginning of 2013 I am getting so many bad news like anyone sick, death news of relative, neighbor not feeling good.
For this am worried about my father too. As you know my relationship also in trouble. I am feeling little bit lonely and negative.
Naran
Take the flower remedies RED CHESTNUT, ASPEN and RESCUE REMEDY.
Explanation
Fear due to concern for others: RED CHESTNUT
Fears without a specific and valid reason: ASPEN
Getting panic: RESCUE REMEDY
How to love parents who are cruel
Grace
My parents have been cruel to each other and to me in various ways. How to love them?
Naran
The irony is we know how to get angry or how to blame. Who taught this? How does it come to us so naturally?
While learning to live from childhood, we have been learning wrongly. Unfortunately, there is no teacher. We observe, understand and form a thought, conclusion and start believing.
We should understand that when by being in resentment, resentment only grows.
By being in a state of anger, anger only grows.
In spite of our knowing that anger and resentment cannot achieve what we want, yet we will be in that state.
You may not love them. Can you not help yourself by getting away from resentment?
See what you cannot see. Don’t see what you see.
When you stop judging, you start observing. When you observe, you understand what you have not so far understood.
Any feeling that blocks our progress can be released. Get any feeling that can enhance your life progress.
Grace
Thank you for such a complete answer. I am grateful.
I know intellectually that holding on to my judgment of them is causing me problems. I will try to do EFT or something to reduce my resentment (although I never call it that!).
Some part of me thinks it would be wrong to allow them to just be who they are. As if the judgment will save me from becoming like them.
Naran
Don’t drag them into your life now.
Unite all the parts.
Forget what happened and treat them as new persons and be neutral first. Even the slightest resentment against them, will bring the same type of persons in your life.
Related Posts
There are no accidents only incidents: http://reachnaran.com/there-are-no-accidents-only-incidents/
Relationship with Parents equals Relationship with others: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/relationship-with-your-parents-relationship-with-others/
Remove the plasters inside the mind: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/10/13/remove-the-plasters-inside-the-mind/
Do not hang on to anything
Madhu
Whenever you had given me SW for healing for my present relationship, I felt some hope and felt that I must cross this hurdle and then everything will be alright.
So pls tell me can I still expect to get him back. Then what to do?
If you say to chant anything, for any number of times, in any mudra I will follow the same.
Till then I am just chanting “RELEASE RESISTANCE TOGETHER DIVINE LOVE”, thinking about him.
Naran
Do not hang on to anything.
Chanting is the only thing that you should do. If your mind is on what you get, you will be disappointed.
Getting what you want may give you happiness. But after sometime, it may give you dissatisfaction.
When you are ready to accept what is offered by the Divine, you will be happy. This is the only way escape karma – I mean its effect.
Related Posts
Be Happy, Don’t Worry: http://theflowerangels.wordpress.com/2013/06/12/be-happy-dont-worry/
Converting unwanted to wanted: http://reachnaran.com/converting-unwanted-to-wanted/
Not getting any results: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2013/10/26/not-getting-any-results/
Break from the past
Madhu
I am chanting as you say for my relationship. But he is still not talking or feeling as before.
I know love is for giving not for receiving but after losing my 3rd relationship, I have lost my confidence.
This guy again created faith and love in my life but don’t know why suddenly he changed his mind.
So, this time, I don’t want to lose him.
By the way he is a Muslim and lives outside India.
Naran
Chant “SCLERANTHUS, WALNUT, FIND DIVINE LOVE THANKS”
Explanation
SCLERANTHUS and WALNUT are Bach Flower Remedies
To come out of this confusing situation: SCLERANTHUS (confusion) and WALNUT (come out of the past and create something new)
THANKS: gratitude is necessary to make your desires come true
Related Posts
Becoming happy is in your hands: http://reachnaran.com/becoming-happy-is-in-your-hands/
Mental State and Switch Words: http://reachnaran.com/mental-state-and-switch-words/
Coming out of Love Pangs: http://reachnaran.com/coming-out-of-love-pangs/