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Program Your Life Part II
Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-i/
Be with your feelings
Naran
Focus on the feeling, with Adi Mudra.
Say, “Yes, there is … (mention the feeling here, for example, a feeling of sadness)”
“I welcome this … (feeling)”. But, can I let go this feeling?
If you get the answer “yes”, then just say, “I let go of this … (feeling)”
Is the feeling is still there? Ask the mind, “Can I let go just 10% of the feeling?” If the answer is yes, then proceed further and let go another 10%.
Still you are unable to come out of stagnation.
Now, observe your thoughts.
Can I release this thought?
If the answer is yes then say, “I release … (thought)”
If the answer is “no”, then ask another question, “Is this thought useful to me?”
“No.” means you need to let go of the thoughts. Release all the thoughts one by one.
Find out which desire is behind the emotions.
Is it the desire to control or change the person or event, or the desire for approval or the desire to feel more secure? Ask the mind again.
If there is desire to control or change ask, “Can I release the desire to control?”
Yes means, “I accept my desire to control but I let go this desire to control”.
Is there any desire for approval? (Desiring for praise, recognition)
If yes means, “I just release this desire for approval.”
Is there any desire to feel more secure? or is there is any fear?
If yes means, “I release this desire to feel more secure; or i release my lack of trust ”
After some time, there will not be any feeling or thought. Peace dawns. Now take the required action.
Read the final part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/exercises-for-program-your-life/
Confused about going back
Archi
After six years of divorce, he suddenly contacted me, and said sorry for his behaviour, and asking me to come back.
Four to five days back his mother got heart attack. She is in hospital now. She is recovering (I too prayed for her recovery).
Now I’m very much confused. I am feared to go back to him.
Please suggest solution – a remedy for me, to take a firm decision, which will be good for both of us and our families.
Naran
Take the flower remedies SCLERANTHUS, SWEETCHESTNUT and WALNUT each 3 pills, one after the other for three times a day.
Explanation
Confusion: SCLERANTHUS
To know what the divine wills: SWEET CHESTNUT
To break the old pattern: WALNUT
Related Posts
Curing Postponing Tendency: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/05/30/curing-postponing-tendency/
The Driver for Relationships, Desires and Talent: http://reachnaran.com/the-driver-for-relationships-desires-and-talent/
Stagnation in Marriage: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/08/07/stagnation-in-marriage/