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Learning many things from my daughter

M

http://finddivinehome.wordpress.com/2013/10/21/cookers-like-mother-in-laws-more/

I really like both stories of Girija.

My little daughter also talks to objects, sun, moon, rain, flowers, pigeons, Ganapati and even to her body parts.

Today doctor cut her plaster. So she was telling to her left hand, “Hey left hand! Pls take care of right hand” (as there is pain in her right hand after cutting the plaster).

When I told her that we have to teach right hand again – how to eat and write, she was encouraging her right hand “You can do it”.

Thus, I’m learning many things from my daughter.

Healing through Stories and Tapping

Naran

What is the Use of Listening to Stories CD and Doing EFT?

Inner meaning of stories can be learnt by the subconscious mind. It is called ‘Learning by Metaphors’.

  • ·         When the conscious mind concentrates on story, subconscious mind will learn what it has to learn.
  • ·         If you can tap (do EFT) while listening to the stories, then you will tap the resource of the characters in the stories.

There is a simple way of tapping using the six positions in the fingers including the Gamut point. They are important positions. Balancing        will result.

How one can to listen to Stories CD?

  • If the eyes are open, then the conscious mind will focus on something else, therefore, while listening to the story, close your eyes and listen
  • Tapping is one of the best techniques to get the resources of other persons – we are not taking away the resources of them, as the resources are in a common pool
  • Tap on yourself to activate those resources inside yourself (everybody has all the resources inside them)
  • At the same time, listen to your breathing as well
  • Release all thoughts that come to you by saying, “I let go these thoughts”
  • Just relax

What these stories will do to you?

  • There are many stories around that can heal us. You would have heard the story, how Rama’s name changed a thief into Valmiki, the greatest epic writer of all the times
  • You have to listen to stories repeatedly, so that mind is conditioned
  • Words and messages embedded in stories have direct access to subconscious
  • Not only our mind, but also our thoughts get elevated too
  • Our life will change too
  • A new life and a new beginning situation will happen
  • Within a week, you will feel the churning of mind

Why should we listen to stories?

An elephant does not know what a mantra is. Then it heard, “Om Namo Bhagavate” that originated from the universe.

It is a Soul’s Mantra.  It means that soul is saying to Lord, “I do Namaskara for you”. Immediately, Gajendra had Motcham (liberation of soul from mundane life).

We keep trying so much. By hook or crook, we try to achieve. Only when we can’t go further, we surrender. That is what the elephant Gajendra did.

The soul will rise when it hears this Mantra as it is a Soul’s Mantra. However, we need to repeat it many times.

Therefore, when we listen to stories, we have a direct influence over the sub-conscious mind.

Related Posts

Never it’s late to Teach Moral Stories: https://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/06/04/never-its-late-to-teach-moral-stories/

Stories for Life Part 3: Rama and Zen Tea: https://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/stories-for-life-part-3-rama-and-zen-tea/

Allow the child to be a child

UPK 

I want to inculcate the values of politeness and self-control in my 8-year-old daughter.

She keeps getting angry for every small thing and loses self-control. She gets very tempted with all material possessions and never really wants to share with others until forced to.

I am worried that she might land up in trouble with this kind of an attitude in future.

Naran

Don’t teach her anything.

She will come up well. Allow the child to be a child.

Related Posts

He is very aggressive: http://reachchildcare.wordpress.com/2013/09/04/aggressive-child/

Deep inside a hole: http://praisedivinelife.wordpress.com/2013/07/10/deep-inside-a-hole/

Do you know why she doesn’t appreciate?

Patient: My wife loves me a lot. She is a very considerate person. At the same time, when it comes to my way of doing, she is highly intolerant. Surprisingly, she tolerates others’ mistakes to a greater extent – this includes my parent’s actions too.

Naran

One part of her is tolerant, while the other part of her is intolerant – especially to you. It shows, somehow you trigger the other – unwanted part in her.

Do you have a similar behavior in yourself?

Patient: Yeah! In general, I always tend to correct the way of others and not just one person. I believe everything has to be done correctly, with the right people, and at the right time.

Naran

I will teach you a simple method here.  

Affirm as many times as possible:

 “I RELEASE the PART of ME that is criticized by me”. 

“I OPEN ALIGN WITH the PART of ME that evokes her tolerance to PRAISE me”.

You can write them too.

The letters in UPPER CASE is fixed. The rest of the statement, you can fill with whatever you want. This way, you are releasing the behavior you don’t want and activating the behavior you want in others.

My husband stopped drinking

Discussion

Raji: I am married for 8 years. I have a daughter who is 7yrs old. When I became pregnant, I got separated from my husband.

Naran: Are you still separated?

Raji: No. We are living together for the last one year.

Naran: What is your problem since you had been together?

Raji: My husband is an alcoholic. Once in 3 or 4 days, he gets drunk as well as daily consuming Pan Parag (a tobacco product).

Naran: Since how long he has been an alcoholic?

Raji: According to my in laws he started drinking from his graduation days.

Naran: Explain his behavior after he gets drunk?

Raji: He will get angry at me and my daughter; will shout.

Naran: What does he shout about?

Raji:  He will say, “Nobody respects me. There is no respect for me even in my own house. My daughter does not respect me. My friends, my employees, and my parents don’t respect me either. I will teach all of them a lesson”.  

After the outburst, he will start weeping.

Naran’s Analysis

To be respected is the key word for ROCK WATER.

He is weeping. By losing control of himself, he weeps. Therefore, add CHERRY PLUM.

Rock Water will ultimately turn into either CHESTNUT BUD or VINE.

Discussion (cont…)

Naran: How is his behavior when he is not under the influence of alcohol?

Raji: His behavior is quite normal only. He shows his love for his daughter. In fact he sincerely made efforts for our reunion.

(Naran questioned further about her husband’s profession)

Naran: What is he doing?

Raji: He is running a Screen Printing unit. But it is not doing well.

Naran: How does he manage to pay his workers and take care of the family then?

Raji: He is honest in paying out the dues. Somehow, he will manage to pay the workers first, and then gives me money once a week.

Naran’s Analysis

Honesty – ROCK WATER

When one tries to be honest, in spite of adverse circumstances, self-control is employed to the maximum in one area.

He is so self-controlled in the area of finance that he loses self-control in some other area. Thus when he drinks, he loses his control and starts weeping.

Discussion (cont…)

Naran: Suppose if he can’t pay his dues, then how does he manage?

Raji: Naran, one more thing, I have forgotten to tell you. Every month before paying the rent, he would abscond.

Naran: Why?

Raji: He cannot pay the house rent by first of every month. Therefore, he feels ashamed to meet the house owner. So he would not stay in the house during the first week of the month.

Instead, he would stay with his parents for 4 or 5 days, arrange for the money, and will return back home after paying the rent. He has been doing this for a long time. Though, he would never cheat anybody.

Naran’s Analysis

 Honest and at the same time an escapist. This is the case of a ROCK WATER person turning into CHESTNUT BUD character. On the due date, he would abscond (Chestnut Bud).

Key Words for Rock Water

To be respected:  Ego and pride; self control, honesty.

Self controlled, honest person expects self respect. As a principle, he would never cheat.

Here the husband doesn’t get respect. His ego is hurt when he is insulted. He loses his control when he drinks.

One more interesting point is Rock Water father will face a Cherry Plum daughter.

Prescription  

ROCK WATER, CHERRY PLUM, CHESTNUT BUD and WALNUT (to break the habit)

Put the combination in the common drinking water, so that everybody will get the healing effect.

Feedback after 15 days

Raji: From the second day onwards, he stopped Pan Parag, and after a week he has stopped drinking.

Simple ways to meditate Part I

Naran

Meditation is an experience that nobody can teach you.

Neither can we go to deep into meditation suddenly as it’s a practice and a habit that is formed over a period of time.

Meditation means, to remain silent. Though, thoughts keep appearing.

If any thought is present then it’s not meditation. How to remain thoughtless though?

Remaining silent with releasing techniques

How to remain silent in spite of thoughts?

Mind can cling to picture or a mantra.

Do we have a mantra for silence? There is no mantra for silence.

However, there is a technique to create silence. The technique is as follows:

  • When a thought comes don’t resist it. Say inside you, ‘this is my thought’. Thus, you disassociate yourself from the thought.
  • Then ask the question to yourself, ‘Can I let go this thought?’ It will go. You can also say “release”. Then it will go.
  • Now, there will be at least a one second gap between thoughts. This is equivalent to one hour of meditation. In general, we never have a gap between thoughts. In general we might have ten thoughts in one second.
  • If you do not want the “let go” step, then form your own mantra or word. When we say that mantra, we create a gap between the thoughts.
  • When a thought comes, interrupt it with the mantra and you will become silent. When another thought comes, say the mantra. The silence in between the mantra is meditation.

Need for pranic and physical bodies to be in coordination

Our pranic body and physical body have to be in coordination. Otherwise, we can’t meditate.

If we regulate our breathing pattern or do pranayama then they will be in coordination.

This is because both breathing and prana have the same origin. When breathing is regulated, prana is regulated too.

Pranic body has to be clear of impurities

When the pranic body is clean, then the meditation can be done successfully.

Why so much impurities in the pranic field?

It’s due to the mind. My own sadness and worries create these impurities. With the help of pranayama, one can clean these impurities.

Read the second part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/simple-ways-to-meditate-part-ii/

Lift me from my limitations

Hakesh

I have son who’s 4 years now. I am a worried lot about him. He started talking very late and he’s very slow in studying. I teach him and he forgets next minute.

Every time we go to school they tell he’s very slow. I want my son to study well grasp quicker and be good human and disciplined child. I want him to get A+ in all his exams.

Naran

Chant “SLOW CARE 398” over a glass of water and give that water to him.

In addition, chant “LIFT KIND DIVINE LIGHT” 100 times over a glass of water and give to the child separately.

Explanation

To lift him from his limitations: LIFT KIND DIVINE LIGHT (from SAVITRI)

Related Posts

No words to express kindness of divine: http://reachnaran.com/no-words-to-express-kindness-of-divine/

Struggling with lethargy and laziness: http://reachnaran.com/struggling-with-lethargy-and-laziness/

Change the way of my son: http://reachnaran.com/change-the-way-of-my-son/

Can’t think of him as my husband

Naran

There was one lady, 25 years old, a widow, came to see me with her parents. She has a child of three-years old.

Her parents told me her story.

The lady loved a person and married him with the consent of her parents. When she was pregnant, her husband died in an accident.

Because, she was still young enough to get re-married, her parents wanted her to marry her own uncle.

Though, she was ready to re-marry, she found it difficult to marry him as she, from childhood was looking up to him as her own brother. Therefore, she was unable to marry him.

Her parents wanted her to marry her uncle, as he would look after her very well.

I gave her this technique, mentioned in this blog: http://reachnaran.com/how-to-become-happy/

I asked her to locate the place in the screen, where her late husband is placed.

Then, I asked her to find out the compartment where her uncle is stored as her brother.

Bring the brother to the husband’s compartment.

She did this for one week.

Finally, she agreed to marry him.

This is one of the best NLP programs I teach.

We can do this easily.

Pick the compartment of the period when you had money and the compartment of the period you don’t have money. Bring the lack into abundance compartment.

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