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Resentment is a seed don’t feed it
Savitri
I am tired of looking after my daughter, who is giving birth to her third child. Currently they are staying in Mumbai.
I am tired of travelling too, from Chennai to Mumbai as well as doing the baby-sitting stuff.
Naran
Tell me in which part of your life you have looked after somebody in the same way you are looking after your daughter now. They may be your cousins or friends.
Savitri
You won’t believe it, if I tell you that I had done the same for my mother. I looked after her when she gave birth to my younger brother after nineteen long years (after my birth).
My parents wanted to have a son. I resented it.
I also didn’t like to take care of my mother’s pregnancy too.
Naran
No doubt your frustration continues.
When we don’t heal ourselves regarding a life-situation then the same situation will happen in the future too and you will go through the same feelings and thoughts.
Savitri
Are you saying that I will be helping my grand-daughter too, when she gets pregnant? No way. I don’t think I will be living until then.
Naran
Not necessarily.
You may go through the same experience in your next lifetime(s) also.
Or you might get caught in a situation in this life-time itself that is similar to this situation. And you will end-up feeling the same.
So, I would advise you to heal all your incidents related to pregnancy, including yours and some other incidents where you had felt in the same way as you are feeling now.
Related Blogs
How and why we need to forgive others: http://reachnaran.com/how-and-why-we-need-to-forgive-others/
The Mother’s Care: http://reachnaran.com/the-mothers-care/
Profit after Loss: http://reachnaran.com/profit-after-loss/
Imaginary Fears
The fear group consists of four remedies – Aspen, Mimulus, Red Chestnut and Rock Rose.
Fear of imagination
I am giving this story so that you will learn how to use the flower remedy in a particular situation.
There is a newly married couple.
They went for the customary activity of honeymoon. They went to Kodaikanal. The girl couldn’t sleep in the hotel room.
She was trying to put on the lights, while her husband was trying to put off them.
She told him that she can’t sleep without the lights on as it was her practice right from childhood.
And that too in the Kodaikanal, which was 6000 feet above the sea level, when she saw the darkness outside, she felt afraid and needed the lights to be on.
However, as her husband is tired, he slept off easily.
When she put off the lights, she heard a whisper in her ears. She got startled – especially by the darkness outside seen through the windows.
Her fears got increased and her pulse rate became very high. The leaves of the plants grown outside the house looked like ghosts to her.
Again, when she put on the lights, she became normal. Any fear of darkness or fear and worry about ghosts or anything unspecified is ASPEN fear.
It is because in darkness, you always get imaginary fears. All sorts of imagination will happen.
This combination is the standard one I give for ghost busting.
I give this combination also for any unnatural deaths – either by murder, suicide or accident. Then that place will be a haunted place. Definitely, their energy will be present there.
This combination will help them to evolve into the next stage (of life).
If you feel not comfortable about the place or have a premonitory feeling that something bad is going to happen that day, then Aspen is the remedy to address those feelings.
Wherever you couldn’t specify the cause of the fear and say “I don’t know the reason for my fear” – Aspen is the remedy,