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Have no pressure at work
Vijay
I am currently into Banking and working for an IT company.
I am unable to cope up the pressure and to understand a concept properly. I am also lacking confidence and interest.
I need help to have courage and work properly to achieve results and be happy.
Naran
You can take flower remedies MUSTARD, OAK, LARCH, CHESTNUT BUD and RESCUE REMEDY.
Take 2 pills of each three times a day. Take the pills one by one. Don’t touch by hands.
RESCUE REMEDY alone you put 10 pills in a water bottle and keep it in the office. Sip small quantity every one hour. You can take RESCUE REMEDY water in the night also before sleeping.
Explanation
To understand the concept: MUSTARD
Not to struggle: OAK
To have confidence: LARCH
To learn faster: CHESTNUT BUD
To overcome tension: RESCUE REMEDY
Learn to Drive Safely
Srinivas
With Car driving I have following problems:
- While driving I have fear that I may hit or some other will hit me.
- While driving at junctions, taking turns or while stopping, instead of pressing Clutch and Break, I may press accelerator due to some nervousness or tension.
- Sometimes I am unable to concentrate on all sides i.e. if I am looking straight, I may not look at left side where I may hit some object.
- In fact, I have strong desire to master Car Driving. However, when I look at my performance, it is very slow, it appears so.
Naran
Chant “MIMULUS, IMPATIENS, CHESTNUT BUD, SLOW CARE”, while driving or before you start driving.
Explanation
The Bach Flower combination I give for riding any vehicle is MIMULUS, IMPATIENS and CHESTNUT BUD.
While driving I have fear that I may hit or some other will hit me: Mimulus
While driving at junctions, taking turns or while stopping, instead of pressing Clutch and Break, I may press accelerator due to some nervousness or tension: Impatiens
Sometimes I am unable to concentrate on all sides i.e. if I am looking straight, I may not look at left side where I may hit some object: Chestnut Bud
To learn and master anything the switch words SLOW CARE is a must.
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http://reachnaran.com/drive-safely-on-road/
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Progress in finding a job
DKS
My present company is on a verge of closing. I am unable to find a suitable job and also suffering from bad back pain for last 3 years.
Naran
Chant “VALLABAM GAJAANANAM EKA DHANTHAM”
DKS
I have been chanting this for last one month but I don’t see any positive reply. Please help me overcome my present problem.
Naran
Chant “RELEASE RESISTANCE, FIND DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.
Write “VALLABAM GAJAANANAM EKA DHANTHAM” 51 times daily
Explanation
When you are unsuccessful in getting something done, it means there is a resistance to do it. So “RELEASE RESISTANCE” was added to the basic mantra for job finding “FIND DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.
Vallabam mantra is given in the first place for back pain as well as job. When a person is jobless, he may feel insecure, and this could cause a back pain.
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Rashes: http://togetherhealth.wordpress.com/2013/09/06/rashes/
The Ultimate Job Mantra: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/09/12/the-ultimate-job-mantra/
Solving mathematical problems
AA
What should a student do who gets disturbed if he is not able to solve one sum out of 10 sums in practical papers? He also gets one step wrong in each sum.
Do you have some solutions to deal with practical exam papers?
Naran
What for you want remedies? Not to get disturbed? Or for putting sums rightly?
AA
In practical exams like Maths, if 10 sums are asked, the student solves 9 sums but at least one step he does wrong in each sum and then one sum he lefts totally.
Finally, he gets depressed or disturbed by that thinking he has not given 100% in paper.
Naran
If one does not understand the basics of Maths MUSTARD flower remedy will help him understand the subject well.
Unable to learn from the mistakes is CHESTNUTBUD.
The combination of Mustard and Chestnut bud will make any one understand and learn the subject well.
Any student will regret the mistakes he committed in the exam. Not to regret, is HONEY SUCKLE.
Roles People Play
Reddy
Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.
At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.
In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.
However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.
In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.
However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.
At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.
Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.
Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.
Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.
Naran
Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.
What is that we lack in any role?
Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?
The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.
BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.
What are the negative mental states of Beech?
- Unable to understand other man’s point of view
- Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
- Intolerance
- Fault-finding
- Desire to control or change the other person
If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?
BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.
WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.
For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.
“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.
Rushrush
Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.
I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….
I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….
I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!
Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……
Program Your Life Part II
Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/program-your-life-part-i/
Be with your feelings
Naran
Focus on the feeling, with Adi Mudra.
Say, “Yes, there is … (mention the feeling here, for example, a feeling of sadness)”
“I welcome this … (feeling)”. But, can I let go this feeling?
If you get the answer “yes”, then just say, “I let go of this … (feeling)”
Is the feeling is still there? Ask the mind, “Can I let go just 10% of the feeling?” If the answer is yes, then proceed further and let go another 10%.
Still you are unable to come out of stagnation.
Now, observe your thoughts.
Can I release this thought?
If the answer is yes then say, “I release … (thought)”
If the answer is “no”, then ask another question, “Is this thought useful to me?”
“No.” means you need to let go of the thoughts. Release all the thoughts one by one.
Find out which desire is behind the emotions.
Is it the desire to control or change the person or event, or the desire for approval or the desire to feel more secure? Ask the mind again.
If there is desire to control or change ask, “Can I release the desire to control?”
Yes means, “I accept my desire to control but I let go this desire to control”.
Is there any desire for approval? (Desiring for praise, recognition)
If yes means, “I just release this desire for approval.”
Is there any desire to feel more secure? or is there is any fear?
If yes means, “I release this desire to feel more secure; or i release my lack of trust ”
After some time, there will not be any feeling or thought. Peace dawns. Now take the required action.
Read the final part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/exercises-for-program-your-life/
No regrets about exam results
Radha Rani
I have given 2nd time exam. This is my 2nd & last chance.
I need at least 95% (more is required). Chances of getting 95% are less.
Also, I want to give my best for coming exams. I also feel low sometimes and unable to concentrate on my studies.
Naran
Chant “GENITAN, HONEYSUCKLE”.
Write “TOGETHER BRING DIVINE WORD” and keep it under the pillow.
Explanation
To feel happy and successful about the results: GENTIAN, HONEY SUCKLE
To get the desired result: TOGETHER BRING DIVINE WORD
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Take the Next Best Step Forward: http://reachnaran.com/take-the-next-best-step-forward/
Be Level-headed: http://healbyswitchword.wordpress.com/2013/06/16/become-level-headed/
No worries about interviews: http://joboneoone.wordpress.com/2013/06/20/no-worries-about-interviews/