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Basic Thing to Improve a Relationship

10 years ago
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Is forgiving the concerned person(s)…

Mona

My problem is my love relationship.

I am in a relationship for the past 3 years. From the beginning only we use to fight a lot but there is immense love and care also for each other.

But, few months ago he said that his family is not accepting our relationship due to inter-caste issues.

He is also fed up of my suspicious and fighting nature. In addition, he is not ready for commitment.

We tried to end up this relationship, yet still we are in talking terms.

Taking help from your blog, I started writing the affirmation, “TOGETHER I thank the divine for getting me <his name> as a life partner NOW DONE” for 21 times daily along with writing 58 for 58 times.

Also, I’m continuously chanting, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE <his name> PARTNER HOLE”.

I have also kept the power symbol 47 and 66 with me.

But nothing is helping. Neither things are improving nor are they ending completely.

At times, I feel like its divine wish that we should stay together that’s why in spite of deciding to part our ways, somehow we are still in terms.

Pls help me out of this situation – either things should improve or end up completely by divine grace.

Naran

Do the forgiving exercise for him.

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Obsessed with rules and principles

10 years ago
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Naran

Rock Water

A ROCK WATER person is too much disciplined, giving too much importance to physical exercise, and highly obsessed with rules and principles – like the king who killed his son crushing the latter with his chariot. 

A Rock Water’s son will be a CHESTNUT BUD. There is a saying that a cop’s son will be a thief and a teacher’s son will be an idiot.

A Rock Water person will get problems in knee joints – indicating inflexibility in his approach.

Cherry Plum

Suddenly you will lose control and get violent – for example, misplaced anger. Father upset about something at work, comes home and vents his anger on his family members.

Rock Water person can become a Cherry Plum and lose their control. The modern day sages, who follow extreme practices and suddenly going into bad ways, are one great example.

A Cherry Plum person is Impulsive. Those who have a suicidal tendency need Cherry Plum.

Chestnut Bud

He is evasive and has escaping tendencies. He is a good liar. The person lacks a good memory as well as concentration.

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Money got stuck at many places

10 years ago
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Jyoti

I have given the ABUNDANCE CD to my father who is facing many financial problems. He is listening to it 2-3 times in a day (without head phone), since 3 months.

But, he is not getting any positive results. Why CD is not working for him?

Naran

Please tell me what the financial problem is?

Jyothi

My father is into business of ready-made garment’s manufacturing. His money got stuck at many places, in business as well as in property. He is not getting orders.

If he gets some order, some problems come in between and make it very difficult to complete that order. If somehow he is able to complete and deliver, he doesn’t get payment.

One small manufacturing unit (building of which is taken on rent) is sealed by court, because of some issues between its land-lord and court.

Money out-flow is much more than money in-flow. Other family members who are with him in business are not happy with him. He is working hard but not able to manage things.

Also, he is not very clear in his communications to anyone.

Naran

Write in a piece of paper “OAK, GORSE, HORNBEAM” and keep it in his pocket.

Ask him to chant “LALITHAM LAMBODARAM LALITHAM SRIDHARAM”, 1000 times, daily.

Jyothi

No relief till now.

Naran

Download a picture of CITRINE (GEM STONE) and EMERALD and ask him to keep that.

Explanation

Financial Obstacles in life: LALITHAM LAMBODARAM,

For Money issues: LALITHAM SRIDHARAM

Money flow: CITRINE

To Improve (business) communications:  EMERALD

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Think of different ways to spend money

10 years ago
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Instead of worrying about sources for money…

Naran

Kannan had 15 lakhs rupees of loan. He didn’t have any sources of income to repay the loan.

He contacted me on telephone. As it would be difficult to explain to him on the phone, on how to do the meditation, “Meeting with Mahalakshmi”, I gave him a simple technique.

  1. Mentally list out today’s expenses, say buying a tea from the local shop
  2. Visualize paying money to the tea shop owner
  3. Likewise, do the same for all the expenses that have to be met out for the day
  4. And don’t worry at all how those expenses can be met – meaning don’t anyway try to figure out how money required for those expenses can be acquired.

Initially, he found it difficult to visualize without worrying about the sources

I convinced him, that divine is the provider of money and somehow, it will provide him with money.

He did the exercise every day for the last 15 days.

Today, he called me and said that somehow he was able to meet out the expenses.

In fact, he has become so convinced about this technique that he is not worried in any sense and he feels a sense of calmness in himself.

Now he is confident, that divine will take care of wiping out his entire loan eventually without cause of any concern to those who gave him money and himself included.

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Roles People Play

10 years ago
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Reddy

Quite often, we are required to play different roles with respect to the same person. In the process lot of misunderstandings occur due to perception at both ends.

At work, we have a subordinate who is also a friend. This friend does not play his role in the office as required.

In the role of a friend, you try to protect him in various ways besides telling him / her about the problems in a friendly manner.

However, if it is not adhered to, it may go the extreme end that you may even need to terminate him/her. It is a very difficult choice. You are torn between both the roles.

In the earlier days, we could take a very dharmic stand and take decisions.

However, now we are required to play a role negotiating happiness for various people in the name of Professionalism / Management etc and suffer.

At home, we have to act as a Parent, Friend, Teacher, friend to your kids.

Often a role is over played by each of the participant resulting in clashes and misunderstanding. Each forgets that they are over stepping on the other role due to inherent flair for one.

Thus, a parent who is generally has a strong Vasanas of a Teacher in making, preaches more and is not able to know when to cut off and act as a friend.

Please give your recommendation to solve the above by way of flower remedy.

Naran

Whatever the role we play, let us ask a simple question.

What is that we lack in any role?

Basically, every relationship is based on communication. How do we communicate? What do we communicate? What do we want to communicate?

The objective of any communication is to reach out to the other person.

BEECH is the remedy for improving our communication.

What are the negative mental states of Beech?

  • Unable to understand other man’s point of view
  • Unable to appreciate other man’s priorities
  • Intolerance
  • Fault-finding
  • Desire to control or change the other person

If one is in one of the above mental states, right communication will not take place. Here, how Beech can help us?

BEECH can bridge the gap between two persons and makes one understand other man’s point of view.

WALNUT should be taken along with Beech. Walnut can bring in change in the mind. A changed outlook and a changed view will give a different communication tool.

For you Mr. Reddy, in addition to taking BEECH and WALNUT, you take CENTAURY also, while communicating in the office.

“What would my friend think? Will he be hurt, if I say this?” These expressions belong to negative mental state of Centaury.

Rushrush

Wonderfully explained….your site is a healthy addiction.

I feel the need to read it like a holy book everyday…sorting out life’s many questions and seeking the right answer….

I follow so many remedies you advice, go through the topics so many times, sometimes apply my 2 cents worth as well….analyse life’s situation from a different angle….

I have changed so much in my mind and heart…..all because of being a part of this wonderful site and your guidance!!!!

Thank you ever so much…….Naran….THERE’s still so much to absorb from you……..regards……

Child not preparing for board exams

10 years ago
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Rekha

My son is very poor in studies. He is in class 12th and is having boards this year.  He even doesn’t listen to us. Please provide me some mantra which can be done by me and he gets the positive response for it.

Naran

  1. Chant the mantra “LALITHAM ACHUDAM, LALITHAM ANANDAM, LALITHAM GOVINDAM”. Take a tumbler of water, hold it in the right hand, chant the mantra 100 times and see that he drinks that water.
  2. He has to take Bach flower remedies: WALNUT, CRAB APPLE, SCLERANTHUS and WILD OAT.
  3. Add the gem remedy CORAL also.

Rekha

At what time should I chant this mantra? And can he drink this water anytime or immediately after I finish the mantra chants?

Naran

Anytime you can chant the mantra. If he takes it immediately, then it is good.

Explanation

Lalitham Achudam Lalitham Anandam Lalitham Govindam: The mantra will reform him and make him understand the need of the hour.

When one does something other than what is needed: SCLERANTHUS

To choose the right path: WILD OAT

Correct his ways: CRAB APPLE and CORAL

Not to be influenced by peers:  WALNUT

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Simple ways to meditate Part II

10 years ago
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Read the first part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/simple-ways-to-meditate-part-i/

How to acquire a good breathing pattern?

  • When you meditate, place the index finger at the base of the thumb on both the hands. Breathing will get deeper and you could meditate properly, as shallow breathing spoils it.
  • Don’t take the index finger straight away move your finger to the base of the thumb. First touch the tip of thumb with the index finger. Then after some time, move the index finger to the middle of the thumb, and finally the base of the thumb.
  • Don’t do it mechanically. Feel the breath with a conscious awareness.
  • Observing your breathing is also a good way to meditate. This is part of meditation known as Vipassana meditation.

Space Meditation

  • After learning to breathe well, do the space meditation.
  • Be aware of the space between the chair you are sitting and the wall. Don’t look at the wall. Instead look at the space between you and the wall.
  • This is known as ‘Space Meditation’. Keep the eyes open throughout.

Bach Flower Remedies as Aids to Meditation

White chestnut helps to remove our thoughts, Chestnut bud not to have any distractions and Willow if you think one or the other bothers you.

Chant Mantra during Meditation

It’s nature of our mind to cling to something. You can choose a mantra to do that. After sometime you should be able to say goodbye to it. Mantra itself is not divinity. It means constantly thinking about a word, which is a mantra. Ultimately that also should go.

When it will go? We don’t know. May be, it’s not in this Janma.

Simple ways to meditate Part I

10 years ago
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Naran

Meditation is an experience that nobody can teach you.

Neither can we go to deep into meditation suddenly as it’s a practice and a habit that is formed over a period of time.

Meditation means, to remain silent. Though, thoughts keep appearing.

If any thought is present then it’s not meditation. How to remain thoughtless though?

Remaining silent with releasing techniques

How to remain silent in spite of thoughts?

Mind can cling to picture or a mantra.

Do we have a mantra for silence? There is no mantra for silence.

However, there is a technique to create silence. The technique is as follows:

  • When a thought comes don’t resist it. Say inside you, ‘this is my thought’. Thus, you disassociate yourself from the thought.
  • Then ask the question to yourself, ‘Can I let go this thought?’ It will go. You can also say “release”. Then it will go.
  • Now, there will be at least a one second gap between thoughts. This is equivalent to one hour of meditation. In general, we never have a gap between thoughts. In general we might have ten thoughts in one second.
  • If you do not want the “let go” step, then form your own mantra or word. When we say that mantra, we create a gap between the thoughts.
  • When a thought comes, interrupt it with the mantra and you will become silent. When another thought comes, say the mantra. The silence in between the mantra is meditation.

Need for pranic and physical bodies to be in coordination

Our pranic body and physical body have to be in coordination. Otherwise, we can’t meditate.

If we regulate our breathing pattern or do pranayama then they will be in coordination.

This is because both breathing and prana have the same origin. When breathing is regulated, prana is regulated too.

Pranic body has to be clear of impurities

When the pranic body is clean, then the meditation can be done successfully.

Why so much impurities in the pranic field?

It’s due to the mind. My own sadness and worries create these impurities. With the help of pranayama, one can clean these impurities.

Read the second part of the article here: http://reachnaran.com/simple-ways-to-meditate-part-ii/

Rude Boss becomes Appreciating Boss

10 years ago
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Swarna

Sometimes things seem to get worse before it gets better. But in getting worse the situation tests us and strengthens us in ways we cannot imagine or know.

All we need to learn is to sit still and watch our mind as the fluid situation morphs, and shifts.

We learn to see our fear, guilt, and our negative tendencies.

We learn to be watchful, not restful. We understand that growth, life, is characterized by changes.

Situations morph rapidly. We realize that there is really no beginning or end, it is our mind that creates the illusion.

We learned these from our own experience detailed below:

One man, thirty machines and endless working hours

Last year, we contacted Naran when my husband was going through lot of challenges at work. He had been in the new job for two years and doing very well.

Then, the supervisor began adding new machines to the lab. It was one man and 15 machines to begin with. It was manageable.

Each machine was specialized and the chemicals cost a lot of money. If experiments failed, it would be difficult to make up for the loss of valuable samples and the wastage of time and money. It was challenging to finish jobs that were lined up on all of the machines.

The lab ended up with 30 machines and one man. Working continuously made my husband tired and unable to think. And he began to work on weekends too. To make the situation worse, his supervisor began to shout at him. 

My husband was threatened that he will be fired

In May last year, the Director called my husband and threatened to remove him. No reasons were given and he was shouted at him for 30 minutes.

My husband was shaken and could not understand what had happened. Naran asked us to chant “I AM A BEING OF VIOLET FIRE. I AM PURITY OF GOD DESIRES.”

Naran also asked us to chant and write— “OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA”.

We have continued to do it every day from then on. 

The director apologized

Within a week of this chanting, the Director came and apologized to my husband for his outburst. He told my husband that he hope that my husband would not quit because of the outburst.

We were surprised and grateful at the turn of events. We continued to write the Ganesh mantra and be relaxed.

Surprise became Shock

In June, my husband was called again and the Director said he would put him on probation for the job. This really disturbed my husband and he couldn’t sleep or eat.

Naran advised us to write (the Bach Flower Remedies) – “ELM, WATER VIOLET, HOLLY, VINE, HORNBEAM” in a piece of paper and keep it in my husband’s pocket and do the same in another paper and keep it under the pillow. And Naran asked me to chant (Bach Flower Remedies) “RED CHESTNUT, VINE”.

And to improve the working atmosphere, Naran advised my husband to chant the switch words, “LOVE, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE”. My husband began to juggle these new responsibilities. His job was reduced to 75% time from 100%. However, he had to work for 100% of the time.

Now comes a big surprise

Six months later, we had a surprise when the administrators asked people to submit their job descriptions and responsibilities for comparing it with what people were getting paid for across the nation.  My husband’s position was also called for reclassification.  Naran asked us to chant: “GENTIAN, LARCH, THANK, TOGETHER DIVINE ORDER COUNT NOW DONE”.

Back to square one – problems started again

On December 10th, we returned to the same critical situation when, my husband’s Director called him and made him sign a memorandum saying he would fix all machines within December 20th. My husband had been working with the companies for months and nothing had been resolved. The Director was aware of all this.  

Naran advised us to download a picture of MUSTARD (Bach flower) and PINK TOURMALINE (gem remedy) and paste both on the name of my husband. And also chant the switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”.

Everything went smoothly like a whistle

Thanks to these divine interventions, the deadline passed off smoothly without an incident.

But the biggest challenge was negotiating the annual review that was due at the end of the month.  The annual review would determine if he would stay or go. In the current economic market, it was very hard to land another job. Living in the US without citizenship meant that we had to show continuous employment status. We continued to chant TOGETHER CHANGE NOW and write the Ganapathi mantra daily.

Annual review came on the right time 

The annual review was postponed to January. It so happened that Divine took care of everything so beautifully. On Thursday, his immediate supervisor completed my husband’s annual review and gave him glowing references. They also discussed about my husband getting more help in the lab, and reinstating his job to 100% from 75% that he is currently on.

Three days later, the Director who was shouting at him all the time, said that there was no need for another review and he had nothing to add or change to the review already performed, and he agreed with everything. Everyone who knows the Director says this is nothing short of a miracle!

 The director accepted his failings openly

Last week, the Director called my husband privately and told him that his personality was that of a person who magnified the negative. From his interactions with my husband he is realizing that he had to appreciate everything positive and not pay so much importance to the negative.

My husband said he politely thanked him and left, but inside he was shouting ‘Together Divine’ in a deafening crescendo. He felt so happy that he didn’t have to say a word for this change to come over! The flowers, gems, the switch words are so beautiful and so powerful!

We successfully sailed through the stressful phase

We are grateful for the divine to have helped us through this difficult and stressful phase. The chants helped us stay focused and positive and not panic. We found time daily to chant ‘Together Divine’ and write ‘Om Gam Ganapathayae Namaha.’

 Lessons learned

We understand and are grateful that our future unfolds in small clear steps.

We have the opportunity to be watchful, present and steer the direction of our life.

Naran taught us patiently and gently to keep our mind open to the gifts that every situation brings in and not be carry our old patterns with us.

We are continuing to learn.

Naran

Thank you for sharing. What we need is trust in divinity. Yours has vindicated that. Best of luck!!!

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Life is Divine

10 years ago
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“I Trust Life” – from the “I Love Myself” Workbook

Naran

1.       So far divine has taken care of you in this life. In what ways you are divinely guided or helped?

My Life is Divine

I trust life means, I trust Divine. Life is Divine – the one energy which is leading my life.

How can you cultivate the trust in the Divine?

So far we have lived our life, which has been taken care of by the Divine.

This we can understand by the happening of certain events and situations. In certain important events you would have felt the presence of Divine.

2.       You must identify such events and situations. You must identify, in what ways you were helped or guided?

This we can understand only when we go deeper and find out.

Sometimes, your life has been saved by the Divine. In some situations, you would have cancelled your journey and that plane or train would have met with an accident.

Our very presence proves the existence of Divine

My very presence is because of the Divine, somebody is giving me something, and I am living. My very living is the proof that some Divine is protecting me, nurturing me, nourishing me, and guarding me.

Healing has come to us and it’s a great boon

Everybody cannot come into the healing profession.

How ignorant people are? Who has brought me in this line? Which has made me learn so many healing techniques?

So then, I am not an ordinary human being. The Divine wants to me to learn more and move spiritually at the same time.

In this profession, we cannot find out concrete profit. But lot of changes will take place in our mind, in our life and the way we look at life.  

If a problem comes for a common man then he will start worrying, go to temple and pray. But, what we will do?

We will do the necessary healing and that too with a mentality of non-attachment to the result.

Why do we need to have a fear of future?

When the Divine is doing so much for me, why not divine will protect me in future also? Why should I fear about my future?

Whenever the fear or worry comes, repeat the words, “I TRUST LIFE”.

When you say these words, you feel confident, thinking, “So far the Divine has protected me. Even here afterwards the Divine will protect me. Therefore, why should I worry?”

How to solve your problems?

If there is any problem means we are not submitting ourselves to the Divine Order and we fail to see the Divine Order in operation.

When we fail to see the Divine Order in operation, we lack in love.

When you chant the switch words, “CONCEDE CLEAR CENTRE FIND DIVINE ORDER”, it completes the love, and problem is solved.

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