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Our future is not determined

10 years ago
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Naran

Let me give an example to make you understand that our future is not determined

In a typical office there is a conflict and arguments between office manager and the staff.

A staff member will have two options.

Either he can straightaway throw his job by getting angry and argumentative.

Many a time we succumb to our emotions and they guide your actions. We all know that. If you are able to be only like this, then the result is determined as what we expect to happen.

Or you can do the following, based on NLP:

Step One: Identify the emotion.

Let us say, we get angry. 

It’s ok. If we say then, “This is my anger”, it will be automatically gets reduced. This is one way of handling your emotions.

Step Two: Create the outcome you want.

Now ask the question, “What do I want from this situation”.

Analyze, “What’s my present state”. 

Then ask the question, “What do I want” or “What is the desired outcome I want here”.

Now we are forming a strategy here.

For example, if the strategy to create a situation is formed by the staff member then he won’t resign.

Related Posts

Right or wrong, figure it out with your fingers:  http://reachnaran.com/right-or-wrong-figure-it-out-with-fingers/

Change is a celebration: http://reachnaran.com/change-is-a-celebration/

Find why I am successful: http://reachnaran.com/find-why-i-am-successful/

Office Remedies Part II

10 years ago
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Naran

Gain Respect in the Office: WILLOW and WATER VIOLET.

Male domination: women resenting it are in WILLOW state. When the resentment vanishes, the domination will vanish too.

LARCH AND MIMULUS are twins.

MIMULUS is about a third person/entity – for somebody

LARCH is about oneself – no confidence in oneself

Won’t be able to complete – too much to do, a feeling of inadequacy: ELM

First Day in Office: WALNUT – will help us to adjust with the new place and people, WATER VIOLET will get us friends and get the required assistance to get settled down.

Effortless Completion of a Task: WALNUT, OAK and HORNBEAM

Verify some document: BEECH

I am stuck with this management. The management is wrong by all means. I am stuck with this person even though I don’t like him: WILLOW, BEECH and WALNUT.

Friendly with my own group: I will talk only with people from my region – WATER VIOLET.

On the contrary, if one says people from a particular region/group/country are bad then it is WALNUT.

BEECH and WALNUT will help us to build a rapport among colleagues.

Sacking an associate: I have to fire somebody for some valid reasons. I am in CENTAURY state if I don’t want to hurt them. I am in PINE state, if I feel guilty after firing him.

My inquisitive associate: My associate will dig lots of information from us. He will ask numerous questions. But will not answer to any of our questions: HOLLY, WILLOW.

Not to be disturbed by the colleague: WILLOW, AGRIMONY, CRAB APPLE (to get rid of)

Related Post

Office Remedies Part I: http://reachnaran.com/office-remedies-part-i/

Flowers @ Work: http://reachnaran.com/flowers-work/

Divinity takes care of you

10 years ago
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Messages from the Animal Spirit Guides, when you come across them…

Indian Cuckoo

Stop worrying. Trust in divinity. Be at peace. Everything will get resolved.

Take care of hand/minor joints. Reduce salt. Uric crystals may be there.

Be cautious about what you say. You are likely to be misunderstood.

Elephant

Time to connect to Divinity – Chant Slokas and Mantras or do meditation

You can easily overcome any challenge (Yanai Balam – strength of an elephant in Tamil)

Do some social work

Don’t find fault with others – thinking you are better, that you are right, while others are wrong

Emu

Form a group of like-minded people

Plan for a pilgrimage

Knee and Toe problems

10 years ago
by admin in

Naran

“HARE RAMA HARA KRISHNA” is the mantra to be chanted.

After old age, we tend to get knee problems. It is very important to take care of this part of the body.

Right knee represents issues with father, left knee represents mother, while toes are concerned with children.

Whether we think what we do is right or wrong, if we have a problem in knee or toes, it indicates we are making a mistake and need to change in some way. Chant “HARE RAMA HARE KRISHNA” to change yourself.

Change should happen within. Stubbornness and inflexibility will need to change into flexibility. By chanting this mantra as it makes us flexible.

Our outlook of life becomes flexible and open.

“I am flexible” and “I will adjust”– we say. In fact, we are opposite, because if we are flexible then we won’t say so.

We are not flexible because we want to control every event to our satisfaction. Then we will not be happy. The desire to change or control will be there in every action of ours.

Release your desire to change or control and accept others as they are.

Acceptance has to be there. If you are not resisting even in mind, any resistance (opposition) to life situations will not be present.

Rama was asked to go to the forest. While Lakshman opposed Rama didn’t oppose it. While all others resisted, Rama accepted it gracefully because he saw the divine plan behind going to the forest for fourteen years.

How do we operate in our lives? Life is nothing but a string of polarities. Our life is motivated by advantages and disadvantages.

The doctor asks you to get admitted in hospital for 10 days. This mantra will get you discharged easily. Both patient and his family can chant it.

Related Blogs

Story of Rama: http://findlifeanswers.wordpress.com/2014/01/14/story-of-rama/

Hospital Mantra 24/7: http://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2010/01/22/hospital-mantra-247/

Cannot support my parents: http://healbymindbodymessages.wordpress.com/2013/07/15/cannot-support-my-parents/

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