Naran Sir always repeats that look at self first not others.
In any situation, we always think and try changing others. We ask for remedy to change and heal others. We do not think or see, what has to be healed within our self. Until we don’t heal our self we meet same kind of people or get into same situation. Then we say” I always meet such people!! Why??” Or “I always get cheated Sir, why me!!??”