Death and Dying
Clear the unwanted and negative energies
Naran S Balakumar
You need the Bach Flower Remedy WALNUT, when you:
- Are unable to adjust to sudden changes in weather
- Moved into a new house
- Change jobs
- Organize a family function (put a few pills of Walnut in a glass of water and splash it on the hall where the function is held)
Case history
Client
After my father’s death, I moved into his house.
Even though I like the house, for a couple of months I could not sleep properly. When I consulted Naran, he told me that the energy of my father, who lived there for more than 10 years, is still present in that house, which is very different from mine.
Thus, there is a disturbance.
I sprayed my house with SPRAY (available in the Bach Flower Center) pills mixed water for a month and things came back to normal.
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One death that I can never forget
The following was a summary of a message, circulated in social media. It is used here to promote the value of FORGIVENESS.
Case History
“One death that I can never forget” is the remark of a person who looks after dying people in Kasi, India.
He works as a manager in a lodge that caters to people who are about to die anytime. A dying person from any background is freely admitted inside the lodge, but for 12 days only.
If they die within this period, they will be buried properly after doing the necessary rites. Otherwise, they had to vacate the lodge, no matter what their health condition may be.
Now, the manager narrates the remarkable story
A 70 year-old person came to stay in the lodge. On 10th day of his stay, he wanted to meet his younger brother before he dies.
On his brother visit, he apologized to him for constructing a wall between their houses. It was built ten years back and from that time onwards, he regretted the decision.
After apologizing to his brother, he held his hand and requested him to break the wall immediately. While apologizing for his wrong decision he did let out a few drops of tears too.
Then he died peacefully holding his brother’s hand.
This was witnessed by the manager of the lodge. Even though he has witnessed more than thousands of deaths in his life, he said that he will never forget this one.
Naran S Balakumar
An act of forgiveness leads to peaceful death. That is the power of forgiveness!
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His wife died recently
Naran S Balakumar
An Agrimony person is very peculiar, as he will not discuss his worries with anybody.
He will keep everything within himself. Looking at his face, nobody can figure out the problem he is facing.
“Nobody can find out what’s going on in my mind” is the typical expression of an Agrimony person.
However, he is a jovial person. He is an extrovert and a good company for anybody outside his family. They are hiding all their worries under the mask of a smiling face.
Case History
His wife passed away recently.
However, looking at his face nobody can tell that because he has hidden it from others. Only his close friends could say that he is really missing his wife and pining for her.
To forget loss of wife or something else, one may resort to drinks.
For anybody, if they say that to forget their worries they drink then give them AGRIMONY because he does not discuss with you about his worries
They go through so much mental torture for they are not revealing their feelings. It is so immense that if you ask them what they want they will say that they want only a peace of mind.
‘Peace of mind’ is the expression that points to Agrimony.
If people working in office, just to relax are drinking or smoking then give them AGRIMONY.
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Bach Flower Remedies for Suicidal Tendencies in Software Persons
Naran S Balakumar
Reasons are…
- Lack of sleep
- Inability to adjust to the environmental stress
- Mental incompatibility in relationships
Remedies Suggested
Persons who are not interested in the family affairs; not interested in talking with family members: WILD ROSE
Persons who are irritated and annoyed always, when talked to: IMPATIENS
Persons who take insurance policy without telling anyone: ASPEN and RED CHESTNUT
Persons who go inside the room after coming from office and avoids talking with anyone in the family; even when asked, they would say “nothing”: AGRIMONY
Persons who start drinking alcohol; some will resort to drugs: AGRIMONY
According to their behavior select the remedy; along with that give WALNUT, which handles environment stress.
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Story of Real Love
Naran S Balakumar
Real love allows the other person to function. What we have is attachment. Attachment has got nothing to do with the love. We show our love only out of attachment.
When you cry for your deceased ones…
If the person is not there, we think that by grieving we love them. It is not like that. You are only exhibiting your attachment. In addition, you are not allowing the departed person to move to the next plane.
Story of Lord Krishna
Real love means Detachment. Lord Krishna was the only one who practised it.
Krishna was a loving person. He is the embodiment of love. He extended love to all the people. At the same time, he didn’t have any attachment.
All the human beings do not have real love at all. What we say Love is a misnomer. It is only attachment.
Last day of Krishna
Krishna when he decided to die, on the last day he called his friend Udhav. He told him that he’s going to leave the body. “I will sit in meditation and leave the body”
Krishna is the man who said that there’s no death for the soul.
When Udhav heard that Krishna is going to die, he could not bear the word. He replied, “Krishna, I cannot say good bye to you. I can never leave you. I cannot take that you are going to be no more on this earth.
“Be here. I just pray to you. I prostrate to you. I understand my pangs of love on you. You are in the hearts of millions. The world is happy because of your presence. How can we say good bye to you. I cannot and I will not.”
Crying like this, he fell at his feet and said, “I can never imagine the world without you.”
Did Krishna console him? No! Why? One day every person born in this world has to lose and leave everything.
Udhav was just looking at Krishna.
Lord Krishna said, “Udhav, I also love everything in this world. I have given absolute love to one and all. When the moment comes, one should be ready to say good bye to all he loved.
“Detachment is the real love. Real love or Absolute love never holds anyone. Leave me alone. I have to say good bye to all plants, trees, rivers and oceans. I will thank the whole nature and leave this body.”
Saying this, he took out his peacock feather and gave it to him. Udhav took and held on to his heart. Tears rolled on his cheeks. Unable to speak a word against Krishna.
“Udhav, now it is time to detach everything in this world. The peacock was all along with me and now it is with you. My detachment is your attachment. From me, it has disappeared. From you it has appeared. My loss is your gain.
“One day, you will lose our peacock feather also. Release all your attachments. Nothing is either mine or yours in this world. Everything belongs to Supreme Divine.”
Saying this, Krishna became silent and his absolute silence drove Udhav away. Udhav understood that Krishna will not speak anymore and he silently went away in tears.
Krishna is the embodiment of Real love. What all we do is attachment. Leave that. It’s the message of Lord Krishna and the animal spirit guide Pigeon.
When a person known to you dies
Naran S Balakumar
“LALITHAM LAMBODARAM, LALITHAM BHASKARAM, LALITHAM BALACHANDRAM”
After death, a person’s travel to the other world has to be smoother. During the 12-day mourning period, you can chant this mantra for five minutes a day.
This will facilitate the deceased to move from the earth realm to the next plane.
Healing the deaths of people drowned during the floods
Naran S Balakumar
Whenever there is a calamity natural or man-made, let us say earthquakes, floods, collapsing of buildings and accidents, people who die will be facing a traumatic death.
It will not only affect the deceased but also those who are living in the area of vicinity of those deaths.
How?
The deceased ones will not Passover peacefully to the other side and will be hanging around in spirit form.
The living ones in that area will have both their personal and professional lives affected.
How to heal the deceased ones?
Visualize a silver triangle in front of you.
Put all their deaths into the triangle. You can also put the accidents and traumatic incidents into it.
Call upon violet flame and ask it to transmute their deaths and the incidents into light and love.
At the time of the death, you can also chant “LALITHAM LAMBODARAM LALITHAM BHASKARAM LALITHAM BALACHANDRAM”. This will help the deceased ones to pass over peacefully.
You need not know the people you are praying for.
Death Follows a Wedding
Naran S Balakumar
You know very well, as Science says that time and space is one and the same.
Recently, an 80-year-old lady was bed-ridden when marriage for her grandson was fixed.
As the days go by and the wedding was getting near, she was almost on the verge of collapse and everyone was afraid that the marriage would have to be cancelled.
Her daughter came to me and told me, “This is our problem. All my relatives and friends have come. Only two days is left for the wedding. If my mother dies now, we cannot perform the marriage because we will have theetu (unholy and inauspicious) then”.
Then using a circle technique, I wrote the names of the bride and groom, and their wedding date inside a circle; drew a concentric circle over the first one and inside the space between the circles, I wrote “KAALAM NAMAMYAHAM”.
I also asked the family members to chant “Kaalam Namamyaham”.
Because the old lady’s health was so deteriorating that they thought of moving her to a hospital. See how time and space influence each other. That’s why I share this case history.
She was moved to the nearby hospital. Within half-an-hour, she started progressing. I told them to keep the lady in the hospital itself, as Kaalam – time, has moved her to that SPACE.
In the space of the house, she may die. That’s why when they prostrated to the time that it has moved her so well to a place where the old lady became healthy and everything happened as per their wish.
Till the marriage, she was absolutely progressing. And after the marriage was over, the newly married couple took her blessings.
She came back home and again the same drama followed. After about one week, she passed away on the date of Shivaratri (considered to be very auspicious to die).
How beautifully time helps if you prostrate to it!!!
Whenever anything bad happens, we don’t have any other option except to prostrate and surrender to Time. The same Time exists in our heart center as the quality of the soul.
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My Mother is the cause of my husband’s death
A case history
Daughter is married and more than 45 years old, living in a foreign country.
About five years back her father expired. The mother has three daughters and all are away.
Mother used to disturb the daughters telling that somebody has to come and look after her. In their caste only the daughter has to look after the mother it seems.
I asked the daughter to cut the cord (between the mother and her).
One day, the mother asked the daughter, “Suppose if your husband dies, whether you will come back to me”.
The son-in-law died after three months. From then on the daughter could not forgive her mother at all. Whenever she sees her mother she becomes angry. But that lady is a philosophical lady.
The daughter came to me and told that even after taking the Bach Flower Remedies HOLLY and WILLOW she could not be alright.
I told her that Holly and Willow says to her that she has to change her attitude.
When you say that you are not the doer, then you think that your mother is also not the doer.
Keep chanting. “I am not the doer, she is not the doer and Divine is the doer”.
After chanting this for one hour her heart became lighter.
For the next two days she was chanting this and she became completely alright.
Shut the ego to establish harmony
R Mohan
My dad passed away recently. We were doing the traditional ceremonies as a family without any major issues.
Suddenly yesterday onwards I started shouting at people, by finding some fault or other. I know I am the culprit, even though I had reasons to be angry at others.
Please suggest me to resolve this angry attitude of mine.
Naran S Balakumar
Chant “BOW CONCEDE TOGETHER DIVINE”
Because lots of past-life healing has been done to your parents, your father had a peaceful death and in return he is blessing you all.
When there is light, dark energies will enter and influence us. That is the reason for your anger.
R Mohan
Within an hour of chanting, I found all my family members were gravitating towards me. It was a huge surprise for me.
Naran
When ego is shut down, harmony is established.
The switch words Bow and Concede help us to release our ego.